"Hello world" thread

[ross33]

Hi. Names Ross 24 years old.
Like to share with you my experience so far, sorry if I ramble a lot. Only a couple months ago, I realized and admitted to myself I have a problem with porn addiction and over masturbation. Before I fully accepted this though, and being heavily into femdom, I bought a chastity device (Birdlocked) as merely a bit of fun. I would wear the device and denied myself for a pathetic time like 10 minutes, then I would masturbate to orgasm. By the way, I don't like this birdlocked device because before I discovered using conditioner as lube, it was impossible for me to get my balls through the ring. I actually cut the side of the ring so I would work it around the area to fit it on. Well this just made it pinch my scrotum.

But then about a week ago I came across man blogs and tumblr sites dedicated to my newley discovered passion: Female Led Relationships. I always thought chastity devices were merely just a cruel addition in porn and femdom lifestyles but I learned something interesting: that the longer a man goes without orgasm, the hornier he gets! and women use this to fully control every part of the mans life aswell as make him naturally more attentive, caring and eager towards her needs both sexual and non-sexual. Well, I fell absolutely in love with this concept and it inspired me to live this lifestyle. Though I have not a loved one to do this with, (wish I did), I am determined to go on enjoying it reguardless.

So I am very proud of myself and to say I have gone the longest amount of time without gratifying myself for a number of years: almost 3 days and tonight will be night 4. Although I do not wear it full time. There's paranoia that people at work or in public will see a buldge but I have enough class and restraint to not want to do it in my workplace bathroom stall lol. I also still live with my parents and 2 younger sisters so I only need to put it on in the shower and wear it to bed, removing it before work. and I have to say the result is, I've never known such joy. It feels so right to wear a chastity device and I actually miss it when It's not on. I love the feeling of constant horniness, It's delightful.

So now that I'm serious about this, I brought myself what I hope to be a much better one than the silicone Birdlocked. I belive it's a knock off CB6000, from china. Paid $35Aud for it. Hopefully it will arrive within the month. Finally, I leave my long and blabberous introduction with a problem. I find myself very uh, irritated and frustrated by people, and also feel anxiety and feel lower than everyone else which is a huge stepdown considering before I went chast, I was confident as and even arrogant.

In addition to that I'm longing to find a special someone in my life to be the keyholder. Someone to serve and worship for I feel a sense of un-fulfillment and emptiness without someone like that. I even have this, small-percent-chance-it'll-work plan to be extra gentlmanly to any attractive woman who comes into the store asking for help. (I work full time at a super market). Hoping they'll respond to this and I can get their number or something but I find myself in-volunteeringly stuttering, forget-full and extremely shy when talking to them, essentially behaving the complete opposite to what I used to.

ALL THIS IN JUST 3 DAYS. I'm going to keep my chastity up, see where it goes and I'd love to hear comments and advice from other forum members. Thanks and sorry I rambled on so much.

[locked4her55]

Welcome to the Forum, michaelhh, JeffH, Looknohands, Bound_spirit, newchaste & ross33.

We usually have sex 2-3 times a day

Ohh. . . Those days seem so far away.

[storywriter23]

Hi Everyone:

It's great to read about evolving relationships in this forum. My wonderful wife and I are mostly vanilla but she goes along with T&D games for a week or 10 days each month and that works out pretty well. For us it's a game, not a lifestyle, but I enjoy reading about the experiences of you folks who are a lot more serious about it than we are.

[chastediamondjim]

I am very new to this idea/ concept! However, very basically, I have lost a good bit of sensitivity to my penis. My goal is to regain some or most of that sensitivity. I have done the research and chosen the device to use. I'm not in a relationship (and not really looking for one); so, there's no key-holder other than me. What I will be looking for is support or perhaps even better encouragement to stay the course because as mentioned above my goal is to regain as much penile sensitivity as possible.

My Very Best to All!!!

CDJ

[Michele]

Hello there and welcome guys!

[Barbieserv]

Hi everyone. I live in Leeds and use a cb6000. I am owned by Mistress Gabriella who holds my key. Just looking to make friends x

[Harry_Gr0ves]

Hi! I live in Surrey and am new to chastity. I am currently training myself to be restrained with a Master Series 4 Ring Locking Male Chastity Cage. My chastity is self inflicted. I have been a chronic masturbator for all of my adult life and since my wife has lost interest in sex it has been the only outlet for my over-active libido.
I have of late been visiting female bondage websites for stimulation and have become more disgusted with myself than usual and have decided that I must stop myself from masturbating. As I do not appear to have the will power to do this by restraint I have decided that I will have to resort to constraint.
I went online last week and purchased the chastity cage. When I first put it on I found it extremely uncomfortable, particularly the weight of it and the pull and pressure on my testicles. However, I recognise that this is all part of the "corrective" process. I have been making myself wear it for an increasing period of time each day and am beginning to become used to the discomfort and containment.
I have joined this forum for support - partially to ensure that I stick to my regime of self-imposed restraint by reporting on my progress and confessing any lapses; but also to seek advice from those who have followed the same path or from those who are training others and are willing to take on another pathetic wanker.

[Tom Allen]

Just for some more support, you might want to check out:
http://www.reddit.com/r/nofap

[Katesboy]

Hello Penis Prison World! I'm coming out of the closet so to speak. Lots of puns there but anyway.

Long time lurker on many of your sites. Been playing chastity on and off for a few years. Most times I pester my wife she gives in plays a while. I have an O get a little moody and it's over for a while. Rinse repeat.

Our current round is a bit different, she mentioned it out of the blue. And is slowly moving to a full on FLR. So I joined up give myself a place to vent and ponder the trials and tribulations. Don't want to mess up a good thing.

That's all for now, thanks for having me.

[makenshi]

I finally decided to create an account on this site to help me find a keyholder. I am a gay 31 year old male, who is happily married. However, my partner does not share my sex drive, so I end up masturbating a lot. I live in the East Midlands of England and I am looking for someone who will decide what device is best for me and then to keep me locked in it.