Keyholder started chastity. Anyone really do that?

[Tame Lion]

This is a question regarding keyholders initiating the chastity activities. Before I say more, this is not a request for fantasy. Ok? Anyway, in my experience I am not aware of any male chastity that was initiated by the female keyholder. There is a ton of hot fantasy about this, but I have not yet found any long term relationship where the chastity was female initiated.

What I mean by this is that the man had not discussed or even thought about chastity and the woman introduced it. If you are or have a keyholder who actually did the initiation, can you share your experience here?

[Atone]

She is no longer active here but I am pretty sure that Dev introduced chastity (with a device) on her husband.

[Tame Lion]

Thanks, Atone. We now have one recorded keyholder initiated chastity. Are there any old posts that explain what motivated her?

[eido]

They used to keep a blog. Not updated in a long time, but I think she made some explanations.

https://devotedlvr.wordpress.com/

Eido

[Tame Lion]

I checked it out. If you go back to the oldest post, the story is there. She introduced it! Thanks. This is the first female-initiated chastity I ever saw.

[Tom Allen]

We're sort of in this group. I introduced it, but we never talked about it after. Some years later, we were having a discussion about various kink activities, and she mentioned that the device was the one thing that she really enjoyed, and would like to try it again. This was back when the CB3000 was a brand new thing.

I have a really old blog post about it.
http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2006/0 ... s-kinky-2/

[Tame Lion]

Thanks Tom. This is another variant. Here you introduced it and apparently played using it and then it lay dormant until she decided to try. There are two questions I am hoping to answer:

1. What would be so appealing to a woman that she would initiate male chastity?
2. What does a woman believe is in it for her? And, if she initiates, what does she expect will happen that makes her want to do it?

[Tom Allen]

1. What would be so appealing to a woman that she would initiate male chastity?
2. What does a woman believe is in it for her? And, if she initiates, what does she expect will happen that makes her want to do it?

Obviously, I can't speak for *women*, I can only tell you what Mrs. Edge happens to like.

When we were discussing my kinks and how we could find something compatible, she was the one that mentioned that she enjoyed the idea of keeping me in a chastity device, and when I showed her the CB3000, she immediately wanted me in one.

Later, after some discussion, we came to realize that she enjoyed 2 aspects: the attention (because I was horned up all the time) and the control. Eventually she came to understand that she could have the control whether or not I was in the device, and we spent some time with her locking me up, then letting me out, locking me up again, etc. Over the years, Mrs. Edge either developed or uncovered a kink for having the final say over allowing me an orgasm. That extends to not just the denial, but the ruining (her new favorite thing to do) or allowing one. She wants it left totally up to her.

After ten years she still enjoys the attention, of course. Sometimes I'll slip and let myself go during sex, but there's never any real consequence. I suppose what's in it for her is the constant physical attention she gets, which is a pretty natural desire for most people.

[Dannyboy]

I'm similar to Tom. I mentioned it once passing several years ago then my gf suddenly bought a CD out of the blue at the end of last year.