more nighttime pain

[bostondan]

So its been a while with my JB but Im still havving pain at night. When I get an erection, which happens 3-5 times a night it feels like my penis is being squashed in the cage. Theres no burning or ball pain just a squeezing crushing pain. If I get up and go to the bathroom or walk around it goes away eventually but I wake up my KH and it interferes with us getting a good nights sleep. For now I'm just going to try daytime use but I feel like I'm missing out on part of the mental game by not being locked up at night. Thanks for your input.

[Michele]

It seems like you are one of those guys who gets nocturnal erections - often (wow). I haven't heard of a "fix" for this other than to wake up, let them subside and go back to sleep.

I wonder if melatonin or something like that would have you sleeping deeper that you might not get them as often? I honestly have no clue since its not like you're consciencely in control of them. I am sure over the longer term you would eventually get less of them as your body would finally come around and realize they hurt... maybe?

[locked4her55]

I'm wondering if the length of your JB is an issue here? I'm a grower but I have a very short cage length so I am basically preventing the erection from even starting. There is some pressure but no pain.

[bostondan]

Im pretty sure the fit is right. Im just up to the tip of the cage when soft. The real problem is the frequent waking. Maybe ill try some benadryl and see if it knocks me out enough to help.

[cagedmonkey]

This is a tough problem because it's not like you're in control of it or anything, it just happens!

I had a rough time dealing with the cage pressure for a while. I'm kinda used to it now, but I was often curled up in a fetal position waiting for my attempted erection to subside. I found a few things would help the process along a little bit:

1) Eating/drinking something - not enough to keep you awake, obviously
2) Taking a walk or some other light physical activity - again, not enough to wake you up totally
3) Math equations in my head - go ahead and laugh, but it works! Try doing some long division in your head for about five minutes or so, and your brain will need so much blood to keep your thoughts straight that there will be no blood left for your erection.

Good luck!

[bostondan]

This is a tough problem because it's not like you're in control of it or anything, it just happens!

I had a rough time dealing with the cage pressure for a while. I'm kinda used to it now, but I was often curled up in a fetal position waiting for my attempted erection to subside. I found a few things would help the process along a little bit:

1) Eating/drinking something - not enough to keep you awake, obviously
2) Taking a walk or some other light physical activity - again, not enough to wake you up totally
3) Math equations in my head - go ahead and laugh, but it works! Try doing some long division in your head for about five minutes or so, and your brain will need so much blood to keep your thoughts straight that there will be no blood left for your erection.

Good luck!

I try all those things...actually I try to remember the roster for the '86 Red Sox....the one that lost the WS.

The tough thing is my KH is a light sleeper and I end up waking her too. Is there an herb that decreases nighttime erections?

[notbeinfringed85]

Melatonin works for me. I usally sleep through the night if I take some about an hour before bed. If I do wake up with one, I just try to wait it out. I try to see it as part of her control and that I'm doing it for her. Doesn't help the pain, but helps with the headspace.

[Atone]

Is there an herb that decreases nighttime erections?

There are herbs that will decrease nighttime erections. They also decrease daytime erections and have many other effects that may or may not be desired.

[Michele]

I was trying to see if any of my essential oils would help with that but I'll have to look more. The one thing I know I have a recipe for is increasing libido.

[TwistedMister]

I was trying to see if any of my essential oils would help with that but I'll have to look more. The one thing I know I have a recipe for is increasing libido.

Care to share?