how to get your gf to chastity you.

[westopher73]

Ive been trying amd trying and i just cant talk her into it.anybsugestions

[mellyshubby]

Did you have her read this?

http://www.keptforher.com/why-chastity.html

That did it for my wife.

Good luck

[locked4her55]

The keptforher site was also helpful for my wife. The husband and wife that run the sight are also very nice people to do business with.

I ordered this book from Amazon which my wife said was very good.

http://www.amazon.com/Male-Chastity-A-G ... fairbourne

Bottom line for us was the attitude change my wife saw in me once the lock was locked. It's something your gf needs to really experience to believe.

Best of luck.

[Michele]

These are the books I recommend to new or potential Keyholders

http://wp.me/p43vCr-au

[Elizabeth]

Did you have her read this?

http://www.keptforher.com/why-chastity.html

That did it for my wife.

Good luck

Thank you very much for this!

[mellyshubby]

You're welcome!

As I visited the kept for her site again, I remembered that they sell the Holy Trainer. It looks like they are pretty much out of stock, with the high demand for version 2. I am waiting on mine to arrive any day now.

[soulmate]

I was introduced to the idea gradually, when my husband showed me online descriptions of a different device that interested me because it allowed a person to administer electric shocks remotely using a male chastity belt to hold everything in place. I still haven't gotten any electric shock devices, but this seems to be the natural starting point for such things if we ever decide to actually get the Dreamlover 2000.

I will admit that at first, I only liked the idea of shocking him, not of having his penis confined and incapable of getting a full erection. After all, his erections have always brought me a great deal of pleasure.

After that, we started looking at images of other types of genital restraints, such as humblers. We have pretty much always experimented together with genital spanking/whipping, since even my earliest childhood fantasies involved that type of thing, and the images merely inspired me to consider experimenting further.

While we were in the habit of looking at images of people whose parts were bound in various ways, male chastity devices commonly showed up and I became accustomed to seeing them. I liked how they looked, but I was still a bit hesitant because, as I said before, I really like what my husband could do with an erect penis.

The thing that finally tipped the balance and got me fantasizing about it was a set of images in which men in chastity devices were made to wear strap-on dildos and had to bring their partners pleasure with those instead of their own parts. I started thinking a lot about that, and how it could actually increase my enjoyment. Also, ever since early in our relationship, we have been thinking of his genitals as my property, which excites both of us, so this seemed like a good way to reinforce that idea.

I think if you work up to it gradually, it is possible to help her develop more of an interest, but you will need to start from the fantasies she already has, and find a way to incorporate it.

[rtwenterprises1]

You have to have honest communication and a good relationship. Then just refuse to have an orgasm after you've given her orgasms. Focus on her orgasms and treat her like a queen and serve her. She will start to see the benefits of denying you, but sometimes you have to be determined to get what you want. This wasn't theoretical that was what it took to get my wife to play. Now she has control of when I orgasm and it is usually a month at a whack. Good luck and enjoy the journey and take it in small bites the desert will last longer that way.

[michaelhh]

You have to have honest communication and a good relationship. Then just refuse to have an orgasm after you've given her orgasms. Focus on her orgasms and treat her like a queen and serve her. She will start to see the benefits of denying you, but sometimes you have to be determined to get what you want. This wasn't theoretical that was what it took to get my wife to play. Now she has control of when I orgasm and it is usually a month at a whack. Good luck and enjoy the journey and take it in small bites the desert will last longer that way.

That puzzled my wife - before I got the device I was pleasuring her and then not orgasming myself! She couldn't understand it! I got her permission to get a device (CB6000S) as otherwise she'd have resented me getting it, but she's still not happy with it. I wore it for about two weeks to start with - it's SO comfortable - but took it off as we were going away for a conference and she was afraid of people finding out. Since then she's never liked me putting it on. She thinks I'm locking my cock away so that she can't get at it and doesn't understand my desire for her to be the keyholder and have control of when it's locked or unlocked.

I'm currently wearing it - three days now - but I get the cold treatment and raised eyebrows. Thank you mellyshubby for the keptforher link. I'll try to find a suitable moment to show her.

[forest]

My wife was upset the first night I wanted to keep it on while I slept. She wasn't interested in sex, but was sad she couldn't play with me. She felt disconnected from me. This is one of the main reasons I don't wear it overnight. She's more receptive to me wearing it at night if it is getting close to my release date and I'm worried about accidents.