Is this site recommended for wary new keyholders?

[Tom Allen]

until I write mine haha

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Not another one!

[Michele]

until I write mine haha

:groans:

Not another one!

Haha

[charliechaste]

Thanks guys for the references, I've gotten hold of the Lucy Fairbourne book, and it's pretty close to perfect for me, in that it steers away from a lot of the stuff which I feel would freak her out, and most of which I've no interest in any how (feminization, diapers, rope-play, you get the picture) While the book focuses a lot on the device, it also tries to cover the 'whys', 'why' a man would want this, 'why' it can be good for both partners, 'why' she's not mean and doesn't need a whip and leathers to explore this idea. I like also that it suggests the most likely reason she's holding this book is that the man in her life has asked her to read it. Even if you don't plan to give your prospective KH this book, I suggest you read it to try and get her perspective, particularly if she's very vanilla, as is the case with my beautiful wife.

[Michele]

Great Charliechaste! Hope things work out well!