anyone here who never gets to cum?

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Re: anyone here who never gets to cum?

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reeve wrote:when you see a pussy do you get crazy excited?
Never really did anything for me :lol:
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Similar to Beersuds, but my KH and I got married in April 2013 having been in chastity for some 6 months without proper orgasm. She kept me in denial over our wedding day and honeymoon and for a few months. The device I used then didn't allow sufficient drying after washing and gave me a skin infection in October 2013 and my Princess allowed me out of chastity in order to heal on the promise not to play with myself. Well!..... I broke my promise within hours and felt I had to admit it to her. Wow... was she annoyed?! :evil: That was it! She locked me straight back up using a different device and told me that because of my disloyalty, I wouldn't get to cum for a VERY long time! It didn't matter how much I apologised, she just told me "It's too late, you should have thought about that before you cheated. You've made your bed, now LIE IN IT!"

True to her word, I've never had a proper orgasm since and when I asked her a few weeks ago when I'd be allowed another orgasm she replied, "Not THIS year anyway!"

When I say "not a proper orgasm", I mean that she drains me in her very clever way every 6 to 8 weeks. I get restrained in collar and cuffs twice a week for a good washing and edging in the shower followed by a tormenting creaming. Not knowing when, (6 to 8 wks) she cleverly edges me again and again until my frustration causes me to strain to reach orgasm getting more and more painful forced spasms until I literally dribble cum. She repeats this until I stop straining which shows that I'm frustratingly empty and unable to produce.

There are posts on here that suggest that this is the same as having an orgasm; we are all different, but I can tell you for me it is not an orgasm but an almost painful forced spasm and discharge. For me I can liken it only to trying to have a pee when suffering from severe cystitis. However, I agree that I do like the amount of attention this form of milking gives me and my Princess has realised this too and she would rather deny me that and the feeling of being empty too.

Some time ago, we experimented with electro-stim milking where she restrained me to the bed and connected loop electrodes behind the glans and behind my balls. Finding a suitable throbbing type setting, she slowly turned up the intensity of pulse. Although I understand that there a people that use electro-stim for satisfactory orgasms, my KH turned the power up to a level that forced a very painful forced spasm and I discharged after about 5 minutes without any sensation of orgasm or ejaculation, I was only focussed on the painful spasms and was just relieved when she switched the power off. I later realised that the session had not fully emptied me and I still had that frustrating ache of being full in my belly. My Princess didn't like it though as she thought it was a bit barbaric and hasn't done it that way since.

However, she has rethought the situation and given that I get some enjoyment out of hand milking, she tells me that she intends to re-introduce electro-milking and also intends to leave the machine on until it auto shuts down after 30 minutes to ensure that I don't even look forward to it in any way shape or form. :shock:
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Re: anyone here who never gets to cum?

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It feels incredible. It is like a double edge sword....I want to cum and beg to cum, but the feeling I have, not cumming, is awesome. It drives me nuts. No pun intended!!! The only thing I can think about is my lovely KH and taking care of her. Seeing pussy or other women continues to excite me. Especially since it is starting to get nice out and they are wearing shorts and flip flops....
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Re: anyone here who never gets to cum?

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Yep! Feeling horny, very horny or extremely horny without relief is my only three very frustrating options now! It's awesome to see the multiple orgasms I give my Princess, that I achingly would dearly love for myself. As for watching the ladies, I've been filthy minded since my early teens :oops: and can undress them in my mind immediately, especially in those summertime outfits that purposely leave nothing to the male imagination. My Princess knows this and takes great delight in pointing them out to me and saying something like "What couldn't you do with her eh?" knowing full well I'm just frustrating myself.

When she's feeling evil :twisted: and wanting a bit of fun and games, my Princess sometimes makes me wear a remote control dog training collar around my scrotum when we go out and she gives me an electric blast :o each time she catches me looking at the girlies. It works up to 300 metres so I have to watch myself. :cry:
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I recently did 1 year with no "full" orgasm. We went back to 1-2 orgasms to empty things out a month, but the reality is that I prefer to be orgasmless, or to have a partial, while squeezing the pc muscle. We're currently having me got 2.5 months without. I do enjoy when it I'm edged and cum just dribbles out. I'm at that age where I couldn't just quit entirely without some health risk, but I do enjoy periods of fasting from orgasm.
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