All LockedUp and no play makes for a very dull Game*UPDATED*

[Rocky]

You have to be careful of that. My wife started doing that but I had a talk with her. I simply told her that I was willing to give her control over my penis but it had to be a two way street. I needed something to get through it and that was sex at least twice a week. I told her that I could not last as long as she wanted me to if I did not get the intimacy with her that I needed. Then I said that when she does not even acknowledge my chastity, it feels like she is neglecting me and I start to feel like she is just using chastity as an excuse to not have sex with me. My wife understood and we made an arrangement. After all, none of us are forced into chastity against our will. In return for control of my penis, she would have sex with me at least twice a week. It would not have to be anything more than just a little teasing without her even getting undressed. She could even just tell me to edge myself for half an hour while she watched TV.

I gave her options that ranged from full blown naked sex with teasing to simply telling me to jerk off but do not cum. Surely that would take her a few seconds to say and therefore would not be a bother. So we started having sex twice a week with little interest from her. Then she began to enjoy teasing me because I would moan and beg for release and she said it gave her a feeling of control over me that she never had before. The more we did this, the more she wanted to do it. Then she started getting so excited by teasing me that she wanted to have an orgasms or two. Now we have sex about 3 times a week and she has a few orgasms each week. She enjoys our sex so much that she reminds me when it is date night.

We have worked out a whole routine to make it fun for both of us. I bought her a half dozen sexy nighties. In return she wanted me to shower and shaver before getting into bed with her. Basically she got me to do what I would do if I was going on a date with my girlfriend. That is why we call it date night. I can now go longer than a week without an orgasm because of our frequent date nights. It excites me to prepare for it and my wife looks forward to watching my frustration when she teases me but offers no release.'

In short, you have to communicate with your KH. Most of us are not truly slaves in the real sense of the word. We do it because we want it but it has to be in a way that feeds our fetish fantasy while at the same time feeding hers. Somewhere in there, is a compromise that will work for both of you, but you need to communicate.

[LockedUp24]

Rocky
You hit the Nail on the Head.

[Rocky]

Old age has the advantage of a lot of experience.

[ChrissysProperty]

Very true! As long as I'm able to use a "walker", I'll manage to get to the bedroom when she tells me to! It'll just give me more time to remember how she likes being satisfied

Oh! and DON'T be sick at the thought you younger people, it comes to us all in the end!

[Michele]

Very true! As long as I'm able to use a "walker", I'll manage to get to the bedroom when she tells me to! It'll just give me more time to remember how she likes being satisfied

Oh! and DON'T be sick at the thought you younger people, it comes to us all in the end!

Oh boy... stop! You're making me picture my 78yr old dad! Haha

[ChrissysProperty]

OK! That leads me to a question, "Have you asked your dad about his preferences?". Ok! OK! Sorry! SORRY! Have you been sick yet? I'll hide now!

[Michele]

OK! That leads me to a question, "Have you asked your dad about his preferences?". Ok! OK! Sorry! SORRY! Have you been sick yet? I'll hide now!

I'm so sure I get my naughtyness from my dad! He's always been the innuendo guy and of course the first porn I saw were ones I found in his locked movie box when I was a kid!

[notbeinfringed85]

When I was 19, I came home from college for a suprise visit. I got the suprise be cause I walked in on my parents. I got the profile view of my mother "going down" on my father. I've never really recovered.

[ChrissysProperty]

Well, I seem to have started something now. Although I was a very shy little boy, I realised I was a bit naughty long before my teens when I accidently found out that my little fellow liked being touched . My dad was of a very Victorian nature and served as a sergeant for the Desert Rats in the 2nd world war so I think I must have got MY naughtiness from my mum. I understand that her and her sister were a bit hot in their younger days. Those were the day's that had those hot young American soldiers were based in Britain. .

Good for them is what I say!

[notbeinfringed85]

Most people don't think of the battles in North Africa during WW2. The 7th armored division had it pretty dang hard. I think they were some of the toughest men that the world has ever seen. That's something to be proud of.