"Hello world" thread

[ChrissysProperty]

That's good advice from Ladynmonkey! My wife would also be VERY annoyed if she thought I'd been keeping something from her. Chastity is something extreme to a vanilla player and the topic needs to be brought up very delicately. Maybe by first humorously suggesting that you've stumbled across the idea and that it sounds as if it could be a fun game to try , then take note of her response . Only you know how best to approach your wife. Tread carefully!

[Atone]

I think one great way to bring up an interest is to do the "guess what I heard/saw... what do you think of that?" it's not as intimidating as "hey in into this, well you do it?" But that's my opinion and like I said I don't have that type of experience.

I would be very careful approaching it this way. The problem is that if you get a negative response it makes it even more difficult to bring up again. Also, her response could be very hurtful to you without her even knowing it. That isn't really fair to either one of you. If she knows that this is your interest then it doesn't become some abstract person and she will hopefully respond with your needs / desires / feelings in mind. She still might not be interested but at least you will be able to have a discussion about it.

[ksboy71]

Hello world. I am a long time lurker and decided to go ahead and join. Im 43, divorced, have a wonderful new girlfriend that loves me and loves male chastity. We have been experimenting on and off for a few months and after a short break im back in. Currently 5 days in. Im glad to be a new member and look forward to making a few new friends along the path of this lifestyle. Thanks Thumper for this site and your blog, almost seems like we have aready met ~ virtually speaking.

[randl]

Hello,

I have registered before to just look and read but i understand i have to post here to not get deleted.

I will have a few items to list for sale soon.

Thanks,
Rob

[ChrissysProperty]

Hi to the new members, Yep, members should participate on the blog to share thoughts, ideas and experiences as well as to seek advice from others who may have a alternative views on various male chastity issues. Yes, you will find most of what you need to know on this site thanks to Thumper and Administrators. I also have a great deal of respect for the bloggers too.

Have a good journey.

[celticqueens_sub]

Hello,

I have registered before to just look and read but i understand i have to post here to not get deleted.

I will have a few items to list for sale soon.

Thanks,
Rob

we moderate the first 3 posts and tehn you are good to go. If you want to sell stuff please use the market place section Welcome aboard

[ChrissysProperty]

Welcome to the forum, "hi23hi". You say you are over 18 and want advice on getting a chastity belt. It would be helpful if you gave the members a bit more info about why you want one. Do you have a partner who wants to be your key holder and how serious you want to live the lifestyle? Short term chastity games are different from long term lifestyles. I'm certain a lot of members will be willing to give their advice given a bit more information.

Good luck!

[tssissy]

Hello world.
I am now single and was with a dominant women who i worshiped.
I have had a chastity device,actually two of them.I put myself in chastity often but rarely do I remain locked up for a full 24 hours.i take myself out to masterbate.I'm hoping with some encoragement i'llbe able to stay locked up for much longer.an online keyholder would be wonderful.
thanks

[hiskh]

I am a newbie and pretty uncomfortable with all of this but my husband is really into it so I am trying.

[Locked by LRC]

Welcome hiskh. I think many new KH's experience your apprehensions. We try to be gentle, answer questions and try to assist where we can.

Ask the Moderator set you up for the KH only section. It's a place for key-holders only and may be a place where you would be more comfortable.

Best of luck to you both as you start.