"Hello world" thread
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Thank you! It's been a relief finally sharing with the world this part of my life.
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Greetings and appropriate salutations.
My key holder is Eochair Maistir, she recently joined the forum, as well.
I had discovered through my research that there was a "secret forum" for key holders, and suggested she join.
We are an atypical couple in regard to chastity (as well as in regard to most members here).
From what I've gathered here and through other sources, men are usually the ones who desire to be locked up, or be dominated. Our situation is the opposite...sort of.
She is the Dom. She is the one who wants me "caged."
The tricky part is found in the fact that we are both Type A personalities.
That, in and of itself, will surely make the road upon which we are about to embark a challenging one.
The ray of hope is in the fact that I love this woman with every ounce of my soul. I NEED her to be happy, satisfied, and fulfilled.
We've been dabbling in ogasm denial for the last couple of months, among other things. And had a brief dalliance with a poorly made chastity device that claimed bits if skin. That one has been shelved, and it's much smaller (*cringe) replacement is being delivered in a couple hours.
When it arrives, I am "going inside" for 14 days.
Two weeks sounds steep for a first run, but for me, it's about proving something to myself, and giving of myself.
Uh oh...wish me luck, I just saw the mailman turn the corner.
My key holder is Eochair Maistir, she recently joined the forum, as well.
I had discovered through my research that there was a "secret forum" for key holders, and suggested she join.
We are an atypical couple in regard to chastity (as well as in regard to most members here).
From what I've gathered here and through other sources, men are usually the ones who desire to be locked up, or be dominated. Our situation is the opposite...sort of.
She is the Dom. She is the one who wants me "caged."
The tricky part is found in the fact that we are both Type A personalities.
That, in and of itself, will surely make the road upon which we are about to embark a challenging one.
The ray of hope is in the fact that I love this woman with every ounce of my soul. I NEED her to be happy, satisfied, and fulfilled.
We've been dabbling in ogasm denial for the last couple of months, among other things. And had a brief dalliance with a poorly made chastity device that claimed bits if skin. That one has been shelved, and it's much smaller (*cringe) replacement is being delivered in a couple hours.
When it arrives, I am "going inside" for 14 days.
Two weeks sounds steep for a first run, but for me, it's about proving something to myself, and giving of myself.
Uh oh...wish me luck, I just saw the mailman turn the corner.
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Hello Alphasub and welcome.
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Hey there --- not a bot! 
(or spammer or whatever 
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I'm surrounded by a lot of very nice but very prude people (physical location) . Need some like minded people around to learn from and share experiences with.
Smiles
(or spammer or whatever )I'm surrounded by a lot of very nice but very prude people (physical location) . Need some like minded people around to learn from and share experiences with.
Smiles
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lockedboy247
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Hi of a hoy from Spain . I have bien reading this forum two weeks as my girlfriend and i want to experiment with chastity (we only have played with denial and like ,not with a chastity device), i like the idea but we will see what happens ( we see it like a play).
. I have bien reading this forum two weeks as my girlfriend and i want to experiment with chastity (we only have played with denial and like ,not with a chastity device), i like the idea but we will see what happens ( we see it like a play).The thruth is out there ... Fox Mulder , X-Files
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newtochast57
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My wife and I are in our 50's and both retired. Chastity has been a fantasy of mine for sometime now and I have just started the steps to hopefully make it a reality. I recently bought a CB6000s and have been wearing everyday for most of the day. I needed to ensure myself that I wanted this and I can wear one. I actually really like the feel of it however I have to take it off prior to going to bed as I have yet to approach my wife about it. Ours is a fairly vanilla relationship for over 30 years and I do not want to destroy my marriage over this however I am at the point were I am going to bring it up for discussion with her and would like some advise from both the male and female perspective as to how to approach her.
ps: this is my first time on a chat group so I apologize if I breach any protocols
ps: this is my first time on a chat group so I apologize if I breach any protocols
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ChrissysProperty
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Hi to all newbies!
Hey "newtocahast57" many if not most men are faced with the situation you find yourself in about approaching your wife. You've come to the right place and I hope the many experienced members will offer you their good advice. But let me tell you to GET that advice before you approach her.
Let me say that letting out your secret to her can go one way OR the other. My experience is that I had a partner who loved the lifestyle but unfortunately after only one year she got cancer and lost her fight within a year - very sad but now in the past. Eventually I tried to find a woman that I could love and would entertain the lifestyle. After 3 attempts to find the woman of my dreams, two of which were very non-sexual and the other being asked about it and being told that it was just perverted, I nearly gave up! Then I met my Princess and within a month I just thought why waste time and I asked her. We had so much in common, she said "I could do that for you!". Although she'd had a very vanilla sex life previously she took to it like a duck to water.
My technique to introduce her to the lifestyle was through the information from Sarah Jameson on www.malechastityblog.com/. The main idea is to explain your partner that she is supposed to get more out of it than you. Although Sarah doesn't seem to look after the site at the moment, her writings are still available and very helpful for the info to approach your partner.
And if your worried about being too old to adopt the lifestyle, forget it - my Princess and I found each other in our SIXTIES, romanced and got married at Gretna Green, Scotland and are happily married with everything we ever wanted out of life - me and her!
Hopefully Ladynmonkey will see this and give you her and her hubs good advice too.
Just take it slow and best of luck!
Hey "newtocahast57" many if not most men are faced with the situation you find yourself in about approaching your wife. You've come to the right place and I hope the many experienced members will offer you their good advice. But let me tell you to GET that advice before you approach her.
Let me say that letting out your secret to her can go one way OR the other. My experience is that I had a partner who loved the lifestyle but unfortunately after only one year she got cancer and lost her fight within a year - very sad but now in the past. Eventually I tried to find a woman that I could love and would entertain the lifestyle. After 3 attempts to find the woman of my dreams, two of which were very non-sexual and the other being asked about it and being told that it was just perverted, I nearly gave up! Then I met my Princess and within a month I just thought why waste time and I asked her. We had so much in common, she said "I could do that for you!". Although she'd had a very vanilla sex life previously she took to it like a duck to water.
My technique to introduce her to the lifestyle was through the information from Sarah Jameson on www.malechastityblog.com/. The main idea is to explain your partner that she is supposed to get more out of it than you. Although Sarah doesn't seem to look after the site at the moment, her writings are still available and very helpful for the info to approach your partner.
And if your worried about being too old to adopt the lifestyle, forget it - my Princess and I found each other in our SIXTIES, romanced and got married at Gretna Green, Scotland and are happily married with everything we ever wanted out of life - me and her!
Hopefully Ladynmonkey will see this and give you her and her hubs good advice too.
Just take it slow and best of luck!
All I want is to keep my Princess happy. I never wish to offend and only turn my back on those who wish to offend me. I have no bias of religion, race, politics or sexuality. I only wish health, wealth and happiness on the entire human race.
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Tom Allen
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Wow, that's quite the inspiration!ChrissysProperty wrote: And if your worried about being too old to adopt the lifestyle, forget it - my Princess and I found each other in our SIXTIES, romanced and got married at Gretna Green, Scotland and are happily married with everything we ever wanted out of life - me and her!
Tom Allen
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi there to our new members!
@newtochast57 I'm not sure what advice I can offer... cagedmonkey brought up the interest in chastity but it came in the midst of working out a broken marriage. We hit a point where we unloaded every fantasy and everything out in the open. It certainly wasn't something that was gently brought up to me.
The thing that would bother me if you were mine is the "trying it" thing... I would be quite upset at my hubby for actually buying a device and hiding it from me. But I may be different from other women.
I think one great way to bring up an interest is to do the "guess what I heard/saw... what do you think of that?" it's not as intimidating as "hey in into this, well you do it?" But that's my opinion and like I said I don't have that type of experience.
You're welcome to check out my blog for more of our story.
@newtochast57 I'm not sure what advice I can offer... cagedmonkey brought up the interest in chastity but it came in the midst of working out a broken marriage. We hit a point where we unloaded every fantasy and everything out in the open. It certainly wasn't something that was gently brought up to me.
The thing that would bother me if you were mine is the "trying it" thing... I would be quite upset at my hubby for actually buying a device and hiding it from me. But I may be different from other women.
I think one great way to bring up an interest is to do the "guess what I heard/saw... what do you think of that?" it's not as intimidating as "hey in into this, well you do it?" But that's my opinion and like I said I don't have that type of experience.
You're welcome to check out my blog for more of our story.
Wife, Girlfriend & KeyHolder
My boys are Wearing: Jail Bird (cm) Steelheart (a)
Owned Devices: MM Jail Bird (x2), MM Spyder, MM Locking Double Cockring, Steelworxx Revenge
Click here for Our blog & Podcast
My boys are Wearing: Jail Bird (cm) Steelheart (a)
Owned Devices: MM Jail Bird (x2), MM Spyder, MM Locking Double Cockring, Steelworxx Revenge
Click here for Our blog & Podcast
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newtochast57
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- Location: S. Ontario
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Thanks for the replies and thoughtful advise. In looking thru the internet I had joined Sarah Jameson's site and found some useful info on it. I am aware that when I do approach my wife that things could go one way or the other as far as her accepting to try this however I do feel secure enough that it would not destroy our marriage (otherwise I wouldn't be here).
I agree "ladynMonkey" that my wife might be upset about me trying this first but I had to try it first to convince myself that this was right for me in order to get the courage to approach her.
I am glad I found this site as eventually if my wife goes along and we give chastity a try, this is one of the places I would direct her to for her to get some information. As we are all aware there is a lot of crap and misinformation out there and it seems to take forever to find what you want.
Thanks again for your advise.
I agree "ladynMonkey" that my wife might be upset about me trying this first but I had to try it first to convince myself that this was right for me in order to get the courage to approach her.
I am glad I found this site as eventually if my wife goes along and we give chastity a try, this is one of the places I would direct her to for her to get some information. As we are all aware there is a lot of crap and misinformation out there and it seems to take forever to find what you want.
Thanks again for your advise.