My wife and I have been married for 23 years. The best way to describe ourselves in short would be that I am the "kinky sub" of our marriage and she "was" the vanilla wife. I introduced the idea of chastity to her late in 2012. Our first purchase was the Birdlocked device in January 2013. I wore it for a short time, maybe a couple of weeks and just didn't like the fit and feel. It was very easy to escape from which kind of defeated the purpose of wearing a CB. We purchased a cb6000s and that has what I have been wearing since. I have been locked up 24/7, only let out every week or two for supervised shaving and cleanings. I wear the #3 ring and smallest spacer. It took about one month to find the correct fitting. I am at the point where I do not use any lube and pretty much sleep through the night. The device fits perfect, and I cannot escape from it, without a great deal of pain or breaking it. Maybe I am just the perfect fit for it. I have had two reuined orgasms over the last year and that is all. When we started Her agreements were...
1) If we purchase the device, I was going to wear it, period.
2) There would be no "contracts"...KH would be in charge and what she says goes, period.
3) I would assume all chores in the house, except for laundry, period.
4) I would give KH daily foot rubs and back massages, period.
5) I would not have an orgasm until KH says, period.
Over the past year, KH has learned a lot and is very serious about my new life style. I would say I service her about 5 days a week, and she teases me on a daily basis. KH knows I have sensitive nipples and loves to play with them which drives me crazy. Trust me, I beg for release however, she just keeps telling me I am not ready yet. I guess I am not yet fulling trained to her liking. Anyway, I love wearing the device and love serving my KH, but it sure would be nice to have an orgasm now and then. Any ideas or suggestions are more than welcome and if I can help anyone out, feel free to ask.
My Introduction
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Hi.
It looks like you are getting on well with everything.
I used to use lube but don't anymore, things have toughened up a bit so can manage through the night without to many wake ups,
I don't have a contract but have only been doing this since late last year, this may change in the future but my KH prefers to do things her way, its entirely up to her when I get unlocked, punished etc, I prefer it that way.
pop a post in the Hello World thread to introduce yourself.
It looks like you are getting on well with everything.
I used to use lube but don't anymore, things have toughened up a bit so can manage through the night without to many wake ups,
I don't have a contract but have only been doing this since late last year, this may change in the future but my KH prefers to do things her way, its entirely up to her when I get unlocked, punished etc, I prefer it that way.
pop a post in the Hello World thread to introduce yourself.
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Re: My Introduction
6) I will not give my wife oral sex when she has her period, periodbeersuds wrote:
1) If we purchase the device, I was going to wear it, period.
2) There would be no "contracts"...KH would be in charge and what she says goes, period.
3) I would assume all chores in the house, except for laundry, period.
4) I would give KH daily foot rubs and back massages, period.
5) I would not have an orgasm until KH says, period.
(just thought I'd give you a number 6.)

Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273