The expensive mistake that Ab and I made was the Birdcage which we purchased from Extreme Restraints. I will admit, we did next-to-no research so we have only ourselves to blame. While I like the sexy, open cage look, it is clearly designed for short-term wear (although Ab wore it for two weeks, bless his heart). The cage is 4" long and the ring is 1.75" (we ordered the medium).
http://www.extremerestraints.com/chasti ... _3939.html
Next we went with the CB-6000s which was a much better fit, although I didn't like the look or the plastic. It was useful to size the Jailbird, however, which is what he is in now (and I suspect will be for awhile, until I get the urge to go shopping again).
Here are the comparison measurements:
CB: Length: 2 1/2″; inside diameter: 1 3/8″; ring: 1 3/4″; gap: 1/4″ (smallest spacer)
Jailbird: Length: 2″; inside diameter: 1 1/4″; ring: 1 3/4″; gap: 1/4″
We have a second, smaller ring for the JB (1 5/8") but for the moment, he is happy with the one he is wearing.
The only difference I might have made is to make the JB 1/4" shorter (1.75"). But even at 2", it seems nice and snug.
Here's a picture of the JB from the Mature Metal site.

More info here: http://www.maturemetal.com/chastity-devices
He also has a measuring guide: http://www.maturemetal.com/faqs/guide-t ... ity-device
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