How do you...?

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curioustncpl
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Post by curioustncpl »

Sleep at night? I'm going into my 5th day of straight lock-up....my first time going this long with no release. How do you stay asleep at night? What's the secret? I know it's supposed to get easier as you go, but i don't think it will for me. This is not my first time in chastity. This is just my first time going this long with no release from the cage. i'm scheduled to get out either midnight Monday or hopefully Tuesday, depending on my wifes mood. Depending on her mood will depend on what happens next. I know a good cleaning will be in order. i'm not sure what happens after that, but i am excited to find out.
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HeldForHer
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Going up a size with the base ring certainly helped me sleep better for the early days.
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bikkel89
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there are 2 magic trics who both work at the very first nights in chastity, and they are quiet simple:

1. dont drink any more for 2,5hours before you go sleeping.
2. put some lube between your ring and your balls.

when I tried this id did work amazing, never woke op again and it feels alot better!

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Atone
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bikkel89 wrote: 1. dont drink any more for 2,5hours before you go sleeping.
And if that doesn't work try drinking (water) during the hour or two before you go to bed. I find that I have fewer problems when I stay hydrated. Obviously too much isn't good but for some reason a little bit helps me.
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Pillow top mattress, or one of those memory foam pads that you can add to the top helps for rolling over and sleeping on your stomach. A device that's small and tucked into the body works better for me than a bigger (the curve for instance) one. My cb6000s is much easier for me to sleep in than my older designs. The ring doesn't dig in and chafe my nuts at night as much.
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curioustncpl
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My issue is the attempted erections that obviously can't happen. Swells my balls up till they're blue/purple and it's so tight i can't move it. If i go pee, it helps a little and i will walk around for a couple minutes and eventually all is better. Staying hydrated or the opposite has not made a difference. I do use lube daily, before bed and after a shower at a minimum. We use coconut oil for just about everything, including cooking, dry skin, on our feet. i've started using that and it seems to work better than silicone or anything else. It still doesn't help at night. i don't sleep on my stomach anyways, so that's never the issue. it's just the raging hardon that's trying to be attempted, i wake to the pain that's happening. It's the only time i ever really hate that i'm wearing the device. The only other time i ever feel any kind of pain is if my wife is teasing me, but that's a good pain. Sad thing, she doesn't seem bothered that the cage wakes me every couple hours at night. She likes knowing i'm in pain every now and then. She's not mean, but she does have a mild sadistic side to her. i both love it and hate it. Thanks for the advice, but hopefully someone else has a better idea for me. Again, i've been playing with chastity off and on for a couple years now, it's just this time it's real because i do NOT have access to any keys. My hygiene is completely up to her as is any freedom i get now.
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LockedDarius
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I too have had a miserable time trying to sleep. I get an AWFUL burning sensation around the ring on the balls.

Sleep was really the last problem I thought I'd have once I was used to it. I've worn it out in public, and plan to wear it to work tomorrow, but I can't surrender the key if I can't sleep in it.

If it were just tightness from night erections or something like that, I'd be able to handle it. But this is a really intense burning pain, and I read that you shouldn't mess around with legit pain while in the device.
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LockedDarius - I had a ball burn problem. As it turns out, the gap was too small. I had to send my JB back to MM for adjustment. A 1/16" increase in the gap fixed the problem completely. As they often say here at the Forum, your results may vary :-)
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LockedDarius
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Vary, indeed.

I wish there was a ring size one bigger. I'm already using the largest one and it's a TIGHT fit.
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LockedDarius wrote:Vary, indeed.

I wish there was a ring size one bigger. I'm already using the largest one and it's a TIGHT fit.
Are you talking about the standard set of rings that come with the CB6xxxx?
Are you aware that "Kept For Her " has 2 1/8' & 2 1/4" rings available? $25 each or both for $40.
http://www.keptforher.com/cb-6000accessories.html
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