What's your routine with your wife?

[kept4her]

Over the years we have changed things up to fit the situation and my excitement level. After getting my Steelworxx Looker 03 the chastity became a true reality, with the escape proof device it set in strong. Loving the device we tried dice games and so on. We finally came up with a plan that keeps my wife interested (she will never be as interested in chastity as much as I am) and keeps me on edge.

Now, when it is her time of the month she let's me know, I place the device on and give her the keys. She then keeps the keys till she is in the mood for sex. this can be a week after she feels better or if life gets in the way, I could be in past another "time of the month". This keeps me never knowing, which I love. It allows my wife not to think about it much and when she does get in the mood, I am ready. Once released then the Device stays off till the next "time of the month" giving her a break from the keyholding and a small moment for me to be free so that the lock downs stay very exciting.

[sherulestherooster]

Now, when it is her time of the month she let's me know, I place the device on and give her the keys. She then keeps the keys till she is in the mood for sex.

Seems like my wife has a similar plan for me. Last few periods, she's made a point of denying me orgasm.

I agree, switching things up is the way to go, keeping it interesting...

[TwistedMister]

Damn. Every time I see this thread title, it hits my eyes/brain as "What's your routine with my wife?"

Something on my mind? Or just the fact that the OP has "my" in his alias?

[Hers]

Hello everyone

I am new to this forum and this is my first post.

My routine is that I am locked into a steel device. I have my own key to the device and may release myself (upon honour) during the daytime, for cleaning and maintenance, of for business trips and exercise.

I have to be in it every night, without fail. I am allowed out for sex or other purposes at the discretion of my wife. Basically, we do sex whenever she really wants to do it, the frequency of which varies - it's like waiting for a bus - either you wait forever, but then two turn up at once.

Periodically, she lets me out even if she doesn't want penetrative sex - usually when I have been kept under lock and key for three weeks or more. At that time, what happens depends upon her mood. It can be anything from being sent to the bathroom to masturbate, to a blow job (rare). More often, she will let me masturbate in bed with her present, but facing away from me, or while she kisses and cuddles me if I am lucky. Less often, she will assist the process, or do it for me. A blow job is the equivalent of a lottery win - two in the past 18 months.

In between, she will tease me, or just cuddle and kiss me sexily, to keep me on my toes.

I am a very lucky man.

[Sub_Hub]

No routine as far as wearing my CB as I am supposed to wear it at all times unless she says otherwise. I sleep in mine and shower with it on. It does come off every 3-4 days for a good cleaning or if I get a sore spot and need some time to heal. Our routine happens before sex. I have to shower right before sex and lay on my bed with the CB on until she enters the room. She will keep me waiting anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour depending on what she is watching on TV. When she enters she will inform me if I am to be punished for anything. If so, I present my butt to her and she will use one of her toys to turn it red and make a few marks on it while telling me what I did to displease her. She says that whipping my butt excites her but only if it is done as a punishment and not for fun. She may or may not remove the CB during sex but it always goes right back on after sex until the next time she is horny. That is pretty much our only routine.

[NicolaMary]

I am locked up 24x7. I love sexual relief by fantastic pegging by my wife. Just need to get non orgasim milking working to eliminate my previous penis centric sex drive . My penetration ability is now dildo based only as appropriate for locked up lover.

[ChrissysProperty]

Like Sub_Hub, although my Princess started off with a planned routine, after 18 months or so of developing the lifestyle and getting used to the various feelings and processes involved, it's quite simple now. I am locked 24/7 and everything else depends on how she feels and what SHE wants or does NOT want. I'm no longer allowed to even touch myself let alone have an erection or masturbate. Generally, for hygiene purposes, she unlocks me once or twice a week after cuffing my wrists to my bondage collar before getting me to stand in the bath so she can wash my bits. The level of the wash depends on how I have behaved and shown her respect and can range from a quick wash allowing me an erection and one frustrating edging, up to several washings and edgings resulting in an agonisingly frustrating milking (not even a spoilt orgasm for me). She's well practised now in getting the timing right Just to add to this, I was let out of my cage on my honour for one day and night in October 2013 due to a minor sore caused by my cage . Well I masturbated THREE times that night and had to confess when she asked me in the morning. Not to be trusted ever again I've never been allowed an orgasm since although she said she might have let me have one at Christmas, which was put back to New Year and then put back to our first wedding anniversary in April. Lets put it this way - I'M NOT HOLDING MY BREATH!

Training and punishment sessions are infrequent but when she feels like it or thinks it's necessary. These take place immediately after a washing and I'm cuffed, spread-eagled face down on our bed.

Would you believe my Princess loves me and the lifestyle to bits and I love my Princess more than anything else in the world. So much so I registered myself online as her property, SLRN 822-926-417 (although she just refers to my as 417)

[coffee2sugars]

Still very new but at the moment its left to her to initiate when she wants me to put the device on. She has an unlimited amount of time to keep me In it and I do wear it 24/7 for her but so far after 4 days she is as randy as I am and I am ususlly out of it giving her what she wants.

We both agree that doing this all the time would be too much for us and she is in every other aspect of our lifes fairly submisive so we look forward to time out as much as we do time in.

I do so love it though when I find it carefully placed under the covers of our bed waiting for me and she enjoys teasing me lots too.

[Rocky]

I guess we do not have a routine. My wife will just tell me to lock up when she feels it is necessary. That could be one day one week or several days in another week. It all depends when my last orgasm was and when she is planning to give me another. Sometimes I will not wear my CD all week but she wants me to wear it the whole day she is planning on making me orgasm just to make me more sensitive to her teasing. The problem is that sometimes I still am not allowed to orgasm and she just wanted to enhance our teasing session.