newbie just ordered first device

[wishful4]

For me it seems to happen right after an attempted erection in the device is over and my cock is starting to become flaccid again. That's when the leaking occurs. It got so bad at night, my spouse/keyholder insisted I sleep in boxers when I am locked.

[TwistedMister]

Mrs. Twisted finds it amusing, she *likes* seeing me so aroused and not being able to do anything about it.

[Michele]

I felt a slight spasm and when I checked in the bathroom I discovered i had discharged quite a large amount of precum, is this a normal reaction

Hehe funny! I love love love when hubby goes pouring precum. I tell him he gets wet boxers like I get wet panties! *giggle*

[Intense_Restraint]

When I got my first chastity device, I ordered the "curve" model, which has a relatively long cage for the penis. That way, if I got excited, the device would provide room for it to grow. After awhile my penis seemed to learn that it was confined, and it didn't seem to struggle against confinement so much. Now I have a shorter device which I find more comfortable to wear, and while my penis still struggles against confinement from time to time, I don't mind. So, newbie, as long as your device fits right, I think you'll be fine once you get used to it. I recommend having the keys handy for the first week or so, because you may not want confinement 24/7 until you are fully used to the device and are sure that it fits properly.