How long of a wait before ordering a custom unit?

[LilRob]

New to Chastity and currently in a CB6000S and today while cleaning I noticed that when I'm officially released this Sunday I should probably go to a smaller ring. After reading some posts it seems like some have said they've worked down in size? The reason I ask is that I'm headed in the direction ordering a custom device.

I have some time since my wife/KH are having our 20th wedding anniversary this July in Vegas and I wanted to give it to my wife as a present to show my devotion of love. I haven't inquired what the lead time is for receiving one, but don't want to order too soon and find out I still need to go down in size. My balls have always been high and tight, but being filled with cum and lots of lotion per tips I've learned here seem to be stretching?

Anyway, will I continue to go down is size, and if so is it a matter of weeks, months or?

Any assistance from more veteran users will be appreciated.


Thanks,

[Atone]

I didn't see anywhere how long you have been in chastity but I did see that you were interested in a Steelheart. It has been a while since I ordered anything from him but his lead times are a little longer and then shipping can be a couple of weeks (to the US). I would expect 6-8 weeks total. I saw in your other post that you were concerned about the size, I think he can make them any length you want. Just remember he measures differently than MM and the CB series.

As for how long to wear the plastic device, that is a little harder. I didn't wait long enough so I went through a number of metal devices. I don't regret it but it was rather expensive. I would wait as long as I could, at least a few weeks after I got down to the smallest ring I felt I could wear. Then when I ordered the steelheart I would order the ring that size and another ring 2mm smaller so I wouldn't have to send the whole thing back for another ring. When I did that I think it took about 10 weeks total, took forever to go through customs for some reason. The delay was going from the US to him.

I don't think I would give it to her as an anniversary gift unless that is what *she* wants. I understand how you feel but unless she feels the same way it might not be received so well.

[TwistedMister]

I dropped 3 ring sizes with the CB-3k over the course of 12-18 months, and could probably go to the smallest size now. It took quite a while for me but I'm sure that the time can be variable depending on the individual and his circumstances.

Once you have become acclimated to a particular size, go to the next smaller size for a short time- perhaps a day- then back to the regular ring. Then go to the smaller size for 2 days, and so on, until you can wear the smaller size for an extended period of time. I think that once you are able to wear a particular size for a continuous month, you are good to remain in it until you are ready to try smaller, then you repeat the process.

Continue the process until you reach the point where you cannot stand to wear anything smaller and/or you find it impossible to escape from the device (cheat/ slip out).

When you have gone as small as you can go with the CBx device, it will be time to start thinking about custom metal...and even then, if even a small portion of the experiences related here are correct, you will want to order the size to which you have been trained to accept, and a *second* ring sized slightly smaller at the same time, so that when you find that you need it it will be there (and it won't be a big expense to get it after the fact).

I've been locked for some time, and I think that I could probably go to the smallest CB3k ring now, so I will probably order one of the solid rings to see if I can get into it...Mrs. Twisted said something about putting me in metal just the other night...

[Michele]

We ordered from Mature Metal and were told to expect 6-8 weeks but it was just about exactly four from ordering to receiving it. We plan to order a Revenge after Jan 6th when he is back to work but I don't know the timing there from Germany.

As for rings, it wasn't long before hubby went down a ring size... and while he might be able to fit a smaller one at his base, he has to wear the current one because his balls won't even go through the smaller ring.

[LilRob]

Thank you for the responses so far.

Wife and I started playing with chastity in August, took a break and started back this December. At First it was only a day or two and has now grown longer. This Sunday will be my longest at 10 days. I know that's a drop in the hat to some here, but I assume most here started similar?

[RegularJoe]

Thank you for the responses so far.

Wife and I started playing with chastity in August, took a break and started back this December. At First it was only a day or two and has now grown longer. This Sunday will be my longest at 10 days. I know that's a drop in the hat to some here, but I assume most here started similar?

Yup...you start out slow, and buildup....if that's what you and your wife want. There are no 'rules' about lockup or time between orgasm, though I think it's common to attempt new personal records. Personally, it's most exciting when my wife decides I'm going for a new record. I never, in my wildest imagination, thought I could go 115 days without coming, and very much doubt I'd have gotten there without her frequent refusals to unlock me.

[Oldtimer]

Thank you for the responses so far.

Wife and I started playing with chastity in August, took a break and started back this December. At First it was only a day or two and has now grown longer. This Sunday will be my longest at 10 days. I know that's a drop in the hat to some here, but I assume most here started similar?

Yep. My longest is 10 days but I found that my orgasms were not as enjoyable as they were when I only was locked up for 4 days. It seems that after 4-5 days of teasing I go into a "no orgasm" zone so when it is time to cum, I find myself resisting the orgasm since that is what I have been doing for the previous days. My wife and I are still experimenting to see what works best. To us, chastity is part of our T&D play and not the star. Neither of us has much of an interest in long term chastity as a goal. I would not spend the money on an expensive device unless I had gone long term and after time has passed. I am old enough to know that sometimes we focus too much on the toys of our games rather than the game itself.

[LilRob]

Yep. My longest is 10 days but I found that my orgasms were not as enjoyable as they were when I only was locked up for 4 days. It seems that after 4-5 days of teasing I go into a "no orgasm" zone so when it is time to cum, I find myself resisting the orgasm since that is what I have been doing for the previous days. My wife and I are still experimenting to see what works best. To us, chastity is part of our T&D play and not the star. Neither of us has much of an interest in long term chastity as a goal. I would not spend the money on an expensive device unless I had gone long term and after time has passed. I am old enough to know that sometimes we focus too much on the toys of our games rather than the game itself.

I was very horny at 4-5 days and then I worked through it. This morning was day 8 and I thought I could easily go past 10 days then I ran into a snag. I was allowed to remove it for cleaning, and about 30minutes after putting it back on I started to have a burning sensation on my scrotum and was in a lot of pain so it was removed. Probably give it a rest tonight and try to reinstall it tomorrow. In this short time I've come to the conclusion the CB series is just a toy or it's just not suited for my body

Everyone is unique, my goal is long term chastity. My wife generally only allows me PIV two times a year. Once in May (my B-Day) and Christmas. During this time she receives orgasm from me taking a vibrator to her and then I jack off. On special occasions she will fuck me with her hand. Maybe one day I'll be locked up between my twice a year PIV? Only time will tell? Anyway, think I going to start a Journey thread?

[LilRob]

This morning my device was removed for cleaning. I then tried different size rings and was able to go two sizes smaller and actually feel more comfortable.

[HeldForHer]

I waited four months before ordering an MM device. I ordered two different base ring sizes.

You can always just order a smaller ring sometime in the future if you need to.

However, take some longer time if you want to avoid additional rings.