How many times a week does your spouse tease you?

[Oldtimer]

Just wondering how many times all of you get teased in relation to your orgasm denial time? Also would like to know if you need teasing sessions to be able to go longer without an orgasm?

I usually wait a week before I can have an orgasm. Not into long term denial as I am very pro orgasm and in the twilight of my life it does not make sense to deprive myself of them too much. I find that I get very antsy if we do not have sex every few days. By sex I mean an orgasm for her if she wants one but just teasing for me. That leaves me feeling fulfilled for another few days so that I am not being too attentive and smothering her with love.

I think I can go longer than a week in denial as long as we have sex regularly. We are putting it to the test now by extending the time to a week and a half with teasing every few days or sooner depending on how horny she gets and she seems to get horny a lot lately. How about you? Does anyone go long term without regular teasing? Does any one go without teasing at all?

[Michele]

So I tease hubby for 30-45 mins about 4-5 nights a week (work nights) usually but he gets a 2-3 nights of extreme teasing that's around 2-3 hours or longer.

Hope that helps. And just to put in perspective, he's only had one orgasm so far this month.

[Oldtimer]

Wow. Most times it is just an hour at a time but with little teases throughout the day such as caressing my CB or exposing her naughty parts briefly.

[locked4her55]

So I tease hubby for 30-45 mins about 4-5 nights a week (work nights) usually but he gets a 2-3 nights of extreme teasing that's around 2-3 hours or longer.

Wow. That's pretty attentive.

Lately I'm lucky if I get teased one a week. It's usually done when we go to bed for the night. She cuddles up, and starts to tease. After about 15 minutes her hand stops and within minutes I feel her body start to twitch as she drifts off to la-la land.

She's had a lot on her plate lately.

[chastehub]

She cuddles up, and starts to tease. After about 15 minutes her hand stops and within minutes I feel her body start to twitch as she drifts off to la-la land.

That pretty much describes us a few times a week.

Occasionally in public she'll surprise me with a discrete grope of the cage and a wink and a smile. i treasure those little teases in public; they show she remembers and appreciates my predicament.

The one thing i wish she did more, and this is easy in public or the bedroom, is verbal teasing. Personally i find the verbal tease more mind-blowing then the physical tease.

[TwistedMister]

Teasing is not something Mrs. Twisted feels obligated to do, she does it when she wants to. Sometimes there is very little, like now, as we have been very busy, and the only 'teasing' is the arousal I experience while pleasuring her- like Sat. night, we went to bed very late and she fell asleep almost instantly. But when I got into bed and touched her breast, she moaned, so I kept going and started kissing and licking them. She became very aroused and my arousal grew as well, then she started fingering herself. She was apparently dreaming and was talking in her sleep, ordering me to hold her ass-cheeks and lift her up and down on someone's cock and watch it sliding in and out, then ordering me to lick her pussy all around it. Then, although while waking she claims to be turned off by m/m sex, she started making comments about forcing me to engage in some licking and sucking of her 'boyfriend's' cock. This indication of her desires [unfettered by her normal wakeful inhibitions] had me extremely aroused.

Eventually she woke up and told me to get her [current] favorite toy, a g-spot vibrator. She used the vibe to get herself off while I continued to lick and suck her breasts (she refused to let me lick her pussy). Afterward, she went to sleep in the crook of my arm, neither touching my cock nor making any comment about it. I stayed aroused for quite a while, and woke up aroused, later having a spontaneous 'squirt'. Although there was no physical touching it was still a sort of tease and it is often the only sort of tease I get.

[Annes-sub]

A good long teasing is once a week that end in her an O. But I get small little teasing during the week . That consists of verbal or the spontaneous touch of the cage as we greet each other before she leaves for work and asI leave. She works days and I work nites.There are times that she will get me all crazy before I leave for work and then I'm thinking of her all nite till I go home and wake her up with coffee and a foot rub. Then there are the text messages of her talking dirty or sending pics. The best is as I lay down for bed an she is leaving for the day, She kisses me and tells me she rubbed one out last night then she smiles and leaves for work. And I'm left to lay there and try to fall asleep with it on my mind...

[Michele]

I guess I should add that I technically tease hubby all day because some days I do things to him while he is trying to sleep (tie hands and strap a vibrator to his cage etc), I also constantly grab his ass or cage, push into him and kiss him hard and deep. Flash him body parts on purpose... stuff like that. Not to mention the constant verbal mindfucking I give him - all. day. long.

But the big ones are as I described before.

[Locked_4_wife]

Lady, Has anyone ever told you that you should be the poster girl for keyholding?

[HornyHutch]

THIS.

Lady, Has anyone ever told you that you should be the poster girl for keyholding?