Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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TwistedMister wrote:
Oldtimer wrote:If all else fails, tell your wife that it means she never has to give you oral sex again...
Maybe his wife *likes* giving oral...mine certainly does.
Mine did at one time but not after 41 years of marriage, it is just a special treat now. :)
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Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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TwistedMister wrote:
Oldtimer wrote:If all else fails, tell your wife that it means she never has to give you oral sex again...
Maybe his wife *likes* giving oral...mine certainly does.
I certainly do... which is why I'm the Keyholder and I can take little man out of his cage anytime I want and have my way with him haha :)~
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Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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TwistedMister,
Unfortunately my wife doesn't really like giving me oral. She loves it when I go down on her but she doesn't give me much oral.
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Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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Hmmm...

What did you do to make sure it was fun for HER?

Did you demonstrate extra loving attention (nonsexually)?

Did you do extra chores?

Give her flowers?

Anything?
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Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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Right now I am trying to pick up extra chores etc, especially since we have family coming to visit so she wants the house super clean.

I am guessing this will be a process.
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Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

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My wife is the plain-vanilla type also, and she doesn't like the idea of my spending money on expensive devices. So far I've bought two, but I bought them on Amazon from Chinese companies, and the prices were very good, and I've been happy with the quality. So, anyway, at least I haven't been too extravagant.

As soon as I had the device locked on, I immediately had a desire to please her. I began to do little chores around the house. I was more willing to help with the laundry, and cleaning the bathroom, doing the dishes, preparing tasty snacks for her, etc. Honestly, I got a charge out of being helpful, because I knew she would see an immediate benefit to my wearing the device.

I bought my wife a special engraved key ring that has her name on it, and I asked her to rub it every now and then when she is away from me and think about me. When she asks me to do something, I always say "Yes Ma'am", which a smile, and she knows that I'm trying to be extra helpful and courteous because of the great power she has with that tiny key.

I'm hoping your wife will begin to appreciate all of the ways in which your device can improve her marriage and enhance her relationship with you.