Should I be nervous about 4x a year orgasms.

kjwar · Post by **kjwar** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 4:30 pm

My wife came to me yesterday, after reading the blog which gets into the science of chastity, and told me that.we will be working towards an orgasm once every three months. Should I be scared or excited?

Alusian · Post by **Alusian** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 4:33 pm

Why not both?

That delicious blend of fear and excitement... enjoy those butterflies in your stomach.

Post by **Michele** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 4:36 pm

I can tell you she is going to be very excited!

I would agree... you might be both! I keep threatening hubby with going until his birthday in June and he's kinda nervous because we have some pretty intense tease sessions during the week.

kjwar · Post by **kjwar** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 4:55 pm

Yeah that's my biggest fear, she doesn't leave me alone. She says I'm her favorite toy so I need to up my control and endurance.

Post by **Michele** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 6:04 pm

kjwar wrote:Yeah that's my biggest fear, she doesn't leave me alone. She says I'm her favorite toy so I need to up my control and endurance.

Oh boy... yup hubby is definitely my favorite toy too! So I know what she means! Just hope she doesn't say 4 orgasms a year and make those 4 be ruined one's or have them all be on New Year's Eve! Haha

HeldForHer · Post by **HeldForHer** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 6:34 pm

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mellyshubby · Post by **mellyshubby** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 7:06 pm

Yes, I would like to see what your wife has been reading too.

Post by **Michele** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:36 pm

This one?

http://secretchastityhusband.blogspot.c ... 4d5bce8a10

kjwar · Post by **kjwar** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:47 pm

That's the link... And no on the ruined orgasms, our agreement is I get the whole day free

kjwar · Post by **kjwar** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:52 pm

This was the text that got her to this conclusion....In her book, “Be Careful What You Wish For,” Sarah estimates the period before her husband, John, recovers those feelings of intense devotion for her as about ten days. Figuring that if she allowed him to orgasm every month, then in a year she would lose about 120 days or fully one third of the year of focused, devoted attention by her mate; and he would suffer a depressed mood and emotional alienation for the same period. Sarah decided that this loss was too high a price to pay for giving him the pleasure of monthly orgasms and instead she went to once every three months . Significantly, she noted that although she had the absolute right in their arrangement to do this, she certainly took into account her mate’s feelings and found that he didn’t seem to mind. He wanted to orgasm but craved denial.

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