Permanent denial

[Michele]

My hubby is in his device at all times... kinda like American Express - Never Leave Home Without It.

He has a job in the medical field and we have 2 kids (5 & 8)... he goes everywhere in his device unless there are metal detectors or if a doc will be checking that area. Even off there are metal detectors the device will come with and be put on after he's gone through.

As for permanent denial... it's not something we are into just yet or ever. I just enjoy it too much lol

[celticqueens_sub]

Excess sperm is absorbed into your body. Google it and read the medical websites instead of the sex one as the sex website all make it seem like you have to cum, when in reality you do not without any harm. Cumming does make for a more healthy prostate though.

Sperm makes up maybe 3% to 5 % of the mass of an ejaculation. Men who have had a vasectomy are reported to notice very little if difference in their ejaculations. I can only speak from my own experience but I have noticed no difference in may ejaculate since my Domme had me done.

The prostate accounts for about 40% to 50% of the ejaculate and the seminal vessicles contribut the rest with some from the cowpers gland, this produces the clear pre cum men see whne aroused.

This says up to 75%....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate
and this says 30%...
http://www.livescience.com/32751-what-d ... nd-do.html
So... it seems to me nobody seems to know...


I don't know, but I am pretty sure the prostate and the seminal vessicles do not re-asorb fluid? I think this is why men have wet dreams, itb is the body flushing out the excess maybe?

The debate on whether you need to empty the prostate and other glands seems to rage on.... The medical world seems very divided. For example how do paraplegic men cope?

It seems to me that even when CQ ruins my orgasm it gets quite a bit of fluid out of my body and it seems to me that until there is a definitive statement on emptying the prostate and seminal vessicles regularly is not required, the odd full ejaculation is a small price to pay to avoid any health issues, if we were not chaste we would probably cum several times a week, as opposed to a few times a year.

My longest was 3 months, when I came it smelt odd and looked odd, CQ was quite disgusted, from that point on CQ has decided I am empited with two full orgams in one day once a month. Mostly via supervised masturbation.

[clamence]

Just a word of caution, never base your decisions on what you read on the internet. Most is fantasy, although there are true practitioners to be found for sure. The problem is sorting them out. The truth with chastity, as with many fetishes, is that the majority who try it as a 24/4 lifestyle, do not continue it that way, at least those that I personally know. There are many reasons for this. The first is that none of us have any idea of how we are going to feel after a month of no orgasm. Then there is real life that gets in the way. Skin problems from wearing a device 24/7, inability to sleep in one, doctor's visits, etc.. The only people I ever met in my life who practiced a fetish 24/7 were not those that had 9-5 jobs or kids.

I have a true permanent denial fetish and I am very proud and happy of that lifestyle without penetration or orgasms for me. My wife and I take full advantage of this faithful commitment. Most of the time we work on the honor system but I want to be caged when I'm home alone or even more often to avoid an "accident" when we make love. We live for 7 years this kinky adventure but we don't really want it to stop. It's not at all an one-time fantasy but the fulfillment of an interpersonal love choice. I don't know if it will be forever, but for sure I would want... I have to tell I no longer enjoy orgasms that much, and mainly the vacuum feeling after them... I prefer so much to be edged and to be horniness... And above all to be focused on the pleasure of my wife. Tantric experiment helps us so much in that way. Of course this is a path we have gradually walked until now...

[Len51]

Old post but something of interest to me. My wife and I completed a year of chastity with orgasms anywhere from 3 to 6 weeks. We learned that the first 3 weeks are the hardest for me. After that I could care less and enjoy edging over an orgasm. The year trial period ended in November 2014 and we sat down to decide if this would become our lifestyle. I was in favor or it as was my wife but she had one stipulation; permanent chastity and by that she meant getting a custom device and wearing it 24/7 to only be removed for health, hygiene and other valid reasons like fitting a new device. She says that she does not want to deny me orgasms but they will only be ruined orgasms.

I was not willing to commit to that right now and told her so. She said we can do another trial year. If I demand a full orgasm she will hand the keys back to me and give me an orgasm but will not do chastity anymore because she thinks it is a lot of extra work for her and she only enjoys it when I have gone at least 4 weeks. That is when I stop asking for an orgasm and get very pliable to her will. So I agreed to a full year without a regular orgasm. I am on month two since we made our new arrangement in early November. So far so good and I think I can do it as I really enjoy the constant arousal and long edging sessions. I do not even like me after I orgasm. I get depressed and cranky for almost a week. My wife avoids being in the same room as me and walks on egg shells.

We both want the ruined orgasm as I am a senior citizen and prostate problems affect many of us. I want to know early if there are problems and also keep it exercised. No prostate milking at my age due to medical reasons and plus my wife does not want to do it because it is a slow process and not as easy as some make it out to be.

So this is my new life. I am not worried because my wife is not my Mistress, she is my loving wife and I know that if she senses I am in mental or physical duress she will make me cum but if not, she is dead set against full orgasms for me. However, even if I do the full year, I do not know that I would agree with her no more for life full orgasms. I really love being edged after a few months of denial and always regret my orgasms the next day, so who knows.