How do you guys deal with no orgasms?

[Harry Haversackers]

Once you're able attune your body and mind to the concept that horny feels good, it gets much easier.

[Oldtimer]

Now that I have some experience with going longer than a week without an orgasm I can say how I deal with it. I do as one poster already said and share in her orgasm. I hold her tight and feel her tremble. When done and once my hard on goes down, I feel as I do after I cum. Content and peaceful. The other thing is that I need sex, not orgasms, but sex every few days. If my wife was not willing to cuddle and tease me every few days I do not think I could go for any length of time. It is not the orgasms that I miss but rather the intimacy. At my age I have had way more than my share of orgasms so it is my wife's turn to catch up and that makes me happy.

[locked4her55]

At my age I have had way more than my share of orgasms so it is my wife's turn to catch up and that makes me happy.

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[Intense_Restraint]

I get a sexual high from being denied an orgasm. I understand about having trouble sleeping. At times I lie awake listening to my wife breathing in and out and feeling the device locked on my privates. I like the feeling. The sexual frustration to me is a different type of high. I enjoy shaving in the morning and seeing the device locked on me and knowing that I am unable to masturbate, and that my penis is locked until my wife is ready to release it.

Normally when my wife unlocks me, we have sex, but one time she unlocked me, had an orgasm herself, then felt tired and made me lock it back on again. It was "hard" for me to get the device back on, but it was exciting to me that she felt empowered to deny me an orgasm.