Legal medication to prevent erections and/or orgasms

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Legal medication to prevent erections and/or orgasms

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Most of us old guys living in my retirement community are on a lot of medications. Some taken daily and some taken as needed. A big topic of discussion are those that affect our sexual abilities. Some will prevent an erection and some will allow an erection but prevent an orgasm. Some will wear off after 8-12 hours while others will affect you sexually the whole day. This only becomes a problem, or a good thing for those drugs that you have to take each day.

What is interesting is that on medical websites, the fact that these drugs prevent orgasm or erection is spoken about negatively. You can find lots of topics on this in depression, anxiety and other forums where the medications affect sex. Many of us can switch meds to those that do not affect us sexually. However, we can stay with those that do if we are into enforced long term chastity and yet I have not read about doing this on purpose in a positive way. I am talking about taking necessary meds under a doctor's care that you need but choosing one that prevents orgasm. About 11 years ago my wife used the drugs I was on to enhance our T&D sessions and for other sex games with more than two people. Think, several women, one erection and no orgasm possible. :)

After playing our sex games while under the orgasm preventing medication I asked my doctor to switch me to one that I knew did not affect me sexually. I also have medications that prevent or make it very difficult to have both an erection and orgasm. Ritalin is an example. My wife and I can use it to our advantage n a T&D session or wait 4-8 hours for it to wear off and then play. Each is a different experience.

I cannot be the only person on medication that has this effect and it is a natural for long term chastity as some of the anti depressants will prevent orgasms long term. Anyone involved in this or know anyone who is. I only know of one person from long ago that was told by his wife to stay on the orgasm robbing medication as part of their D/S play. I only did it short term and then quickly switched to a better med. I do not worry about those that wear off in a few hours or the ones that I take as needed because I can work around them if needed or incorporate their effects into a T&D session.

Anyone? Just me? They say that those suffering from depression often turn to BDSM. For me that was very true and when I started getting treated I got less interested in the heavy BDSM I was into in the past. Now it is mostly T&D with a little nipple play. BTW, I write long posts and drift off topic a lot due to either taking or not taking my prescribed meds so forgive me for doing so. I know from my job and from my former editors that I cannot seem to write short articles. I think that is due to me writing technical artless and books which require a lot of background and detail. I am trying to work on it but explaining why I do it only makes my post even longer. :)
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Re: Legal medication to prevent erections and/or orgasms

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I take 50 mg zoloft daily for an anxiety problem. It makes it pretty near impossible to reach orgasm in my chastity device. I like this side effect!
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eroslocked wrote:I take 50 mg zoloft daily for an anxiety problem. It makes it pretty near impossible to reach orgasm in my chastity device. I like this side effect!
Been there myself. I stayed on it for 3 months while the girls had fun with their always hard guy. I could not go any longer and switched meds.
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Re: Legal medication to prevent erections and/or orgasms

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Paxil made it extremely difficult to orgasm, as well as maintain erections. Supplementing it with Wellbutrin/Zyban restored sexual functioning, but still made PIV orgasms a bit hit or miss.

I'm not sure how much this would help with T&D though, since Paxil made the chemically caused celibacy seem like no big deal. Is it really denial, if you are sort of "ho-hum" about your lack of orgasms?

A new drug Viibryd is very similar to Paxil, but it claims to have very minimal sexual side effects. That has been true for me!
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Re: Legal medication to prevent erections and/or orgasms

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male_pet wrote:Paxil made it extremely difficult to orgasm, as well as maintain erections. Supplementing it with Wellbutrin/Zyban restored sexual functioning, but still made PIV orgasms a bit hit or miss.

I'm not sure how much this would help with T&D though, since Paxil made the chemically caused celibacy seem like no big deal. Is it really denial, if you are sort of "ho-hum" about your lack of orgasms?

A new drug Viibryd is very similar to Paxil, but it claims to have very minimal sexual side effects. That has been true for me!
Wellbutrin has always been my happy horny drug. Been on and off it for about 12 years now. I tried almost every other anti depressant that existed 9 years ago and every drug but Wellbutrin caused me to be inorgasmic and/or have difficulty getting or maintaining erections. Unlike you though, I still was horny, no matter what drug I was on, so it was a problem. My doc prescribed Viagra but all that did was make me very hard so that my two ladies could ride me for as long as they liked. They loved it but I did not after a while. I felt like a human dildo and when you know you cannot cum it is no fun plus you get sore after a while.

I found my answer on the internet. Drug holidays. Every two weeks I stopped taking my meds for 2-3 days which gave me a two day window of opportunity. That worked for me and did not seem to affect my treatment. Eventually I always went back to Wellbutin even though it does not help my insomnia at all. I may not sleep a lot anymore but on the plus side, Wellbutrin in energizing so that I do not feel tired. :)