True for me! You?

[KBCB]

I find the only time I really want a full orgasm is when I am aroused, hard and ready. Right then I want to so badly I feel almost desperate. Later when not hard I am glad I did not. I tell her ask only when not aroused or the answer while aroused will be yessssssssssss I want to so badly.

[Intense_Restraint]

I certainly understand the feeling of wanting to penetrate and reach orgasm when the penis is very hard. However, I am only allowed to do this when my wife is fully satisfied and ready and gives permission. Otherwise, whatever desperate feelings I might have are ignored. Did I answer your question?

[Linus]

First of all, I can't attain even partial erection in my cage. That means 'whether I wish to orgasm' has no value from my KH's point of view. But, the moment she declares that we are going to have sex, my excitement starts bubbling and by the time she releases me, I'm already on my peak. So she never releases me before adequate foreplay and her moment of reaching orgasm. If I'm released little early, maximum chances are that I will cum within few seconds.

[Finn]

I want an orgasm, when I'm brought and kept near orgasm. We have been doing Tantric bast sex for over a decade. In that, the guy does not orgasm, but shares the womans orgasm. Between that, and being a long (pre chastity) time edger, I seem to react differently to arousal. Having quit masturbation 2 yrs ago, and having done a year of ruined orgasms only, I now find that when aroused, I crave *giving* an orgasm, and not having one. If I am brought to the edge of one, I do want it, but otherwise, my wiring has been altered it seems, and now I crave giving. I would say though, that I do crave stimulation at times, but not necessarily the orgasm that might go with it.

[Sub_Hub]

It is true for me too. I go so far as to push my wife's hand away when she is trying to make me orgasm. Most times she will stop but sometimes she demands that I cum for her because she knows that I do not want to if that makes sense. She is basically doing what I do not want to do at the time so that I get the opposite of what I really want. Tried to fool her a few times but she says she knows my games by now.