Chastity & Feminine

[sissy dude]

Thanks everybody for your thoughts....

[Finn]

To be fair, chastity and fem. are very often linked when it comes to kink and the web. This is one of the very few sites that features chastity without equally featuring femminazation/sissy themes.

Oh, are we doing it wrong?

Nahhh...I haven't got the legs for a skirt anyhow! I know several guys who live the sissy lifestyle, and I appreciate the CB's role in that, but I like this site the way it is. No problem with it being part of this forum in any way, but for your basic married guy with his bits locked up or denied, it's nice to have just the chastity as the main focus.

[sissy dude]

I guess the Humiliating aspect is when I'm smoking a long slim cigar in front of other people, my mannerisms are very Lady like and very erotic...that's another subject!!!

[fuzzydunlop]

I always feel like giving all the guys who don't feel more feminine or gay or whatever a firm handshake and pat on the back for being all dude like. We all have different experieneces. For me, chastity spices up all the other kinks I like, and me interest in various kinks is not constant, it changes depending on what is going on in my life. I have an old friend who is extremely bi and has had sex with countless dudes. He thinks cock cages are the most bizarre thing he has ever seen. All I could say is "I am sure you have tried a lot of things I will never try too." Various gender bending behaviors, bondage, femdom, and even cuckolding are big kinks for me. Chastity is like a sauce that can make all of them better from time to time. It doesn't cause the kinks but makes them taste better.

[TheToy]

At the age of 14 years I started wearing female clothing, I never told anyone until I was around 22 years old. I did seek medical help at this point and had many counselling session. I had resolved my issues to a point where I could start living again.
I only told my wife about this hidden past a 4 to 5 years ago, since this I have been wearing female underwear with my wives full agreement.
The chastity started after about 3 years ago, I would say I'm curious why chastity is linked with Sissies or being made into a Sissy.

I think chastity is different for every one and does not have defining lines, I do wonder how many wives just go along with the male fantasy because they love their husbands. How many women in actuality truly want to make their male partner into a Sissy.

[fuzzydunlop]

Why do sissies and chastity go together? Why are peanut butter and chocolate two great tastes that taste great together? I realized I had a CD kink long before I knew what chastity was. I also realized that my CD kink seemed to go away after MB. I also realized that the whole process and ritual was just as exciting for me as the climax. And then some time later, I realized that orgasms were so much better after a week or so. Sometimes I enjoy chastity in and of itself, and sometimes I like mixing different kinks together. That's just me. When I was in my teens, I told myself that I was happy I had a CD kink because it could be so damn exciting.

I also told my then girlfriend, now wife, about nearly every important kink in my early 20s. My interests have gone up and down on various kinks and chastity techniques over the years. It is great if your wife is supportive. Sometimes life can get in the way still. Have fun!