anyone here who never gets to cum?

[reeve]

Any guys here that only get to give orgasms and never get one?
This is a big fantasy of mine!

How does it feel after a few months (or longer) without orgasm and only being allowed to give your KH orgasms?
Does it get boring after a while? Does the frustration gets to a point that its unbareable?

[Tom Allen]

http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2013/0 ... r-oranges/

There will be a few other people who will chime in on this.

[Harry Haversackers]

CH and I have had some very hot discussions about permanent denial, but so far nothing has come of it... Hee hee - that's a great pun, though completely unintended.

I was heading toward a nine month stint of denial, when she gave me an impromptu orgasm a few weeks ago. She says I get another one in six weeks or so... maybe. After that, who knows... I'm sure we'll talk about it again soon.

[Atone]

I thought that never might be a possibility but then my wife wanted me to cum in her, it had been over two years at that point.

It has been three months since then and the only discussion we have had is that I won't be having an orgasm any time soon.

[glove]

Every three months or so she will tie me up and tease me until just a dribble comes out, she calls that an orgasm. Going to Hawaii next week, she informed me I don't get to cum there either next dribble should be December, maybe Christmas?

[poor]

This is timely: http://denyingthumper.com/2013/10/10/th ... beginning/

[reeve]

Thanks for the replies

[danj]

Going to Hawaii next week, she informed me I don't get to cum there either next dribble should be December, maybe Christmas?

We recently went away and thought I might not be allowed to cum while away. She didn't allow me inside her, but she did give me one heck of a handjob one night (my only orgasm on the trip). Came in buckets

[fuzzydunlop]

I tend to be very episodic about this. When everything is working right, I feel like I could go on indefinitely. I have gone a couple of months without an orgasm twice (limited use of device, by the way). Most recently we went from the end of March until the middle of May withoute orgasming. Toward the end, I thought I could go a good while longer. But, there we found ourselves in a hotel with no family for a Saturday night and----holycrap I wouldn't trade that orgasm for anything!

I find when I get done with a very long stint the novelty wears off a bit and it can take me a log time to get interested again. I have rarely posted here since that episode.

I also find I can enjoy it when my wife takes control, even when long term denial is not involved.

I also like shorter stints of 2 weeks of denial or so. Do I enjoy very long term denial more than having a few orgasms along the way? I am not sure.

Finally, in my younger days, I didn't see any charm in a ruined orgasm, but they insensity of the experience is starting to grow on us.

I would like to use control and denial to lose weight before the Holdiays are here.

All that being said, permanent and total denial is a crazy hot fantasy for me some of the time. It will never happen in reality though.

[Finn]

I haven't had a full orgasm in over 14 months. I've probably had 1/2 of one, maybe 4 times in that period, and 10-20% of one is more common. We only occasionally use a device as well. What we do is closer to Tantric/Karreza though. The idea is that the male focuses on sharing the orgasms they give. This does work to provide some relief, some of the time. I live with my wife, and my kink/submissive partner, as odd as that may sound. My wife has no interest in getting me off, and neither myself, or my girl are allowed to get me off. She is allowed to "empty" me 0-2 times a month. With us, that involves using the pc muscle (the one we use to stop peeing) while being stimulated, and holding back the orgasm. Once the orgasm is suppressed, I relax and allow the remainder of the ejaculation to occur. Doing this, is not quite the same as going cold turkey, but it's pretty close. I'm at the point where my arousal has me wanting to give, rather than have an orgasm. Being near an orgasm however, does make me really, really, really want one. If I focus 100% on giving and sharing the energy of the womens orgasm, I can get physical and mental relief, though I also enjoy the frustration, as much as I hate to admit it.