"Hello world" thread

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cruelnatalie
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Hello

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My name is Natalie. Those who adore me call me Goddess. I have been in the fetish scene since I was 20. I was a prodom and then got involved in female domination- more lifestyle 24/7. I also have been doing femdom/cock control phone sex for a number of years. I do very well with a wonderful collection of regulars. One of them told me about this site. You have seen me on orgasmdenial, milovana and a few others. My sexual philosophy is pretty much around control and of course the first level of that is orgasm control. I have huge experience with chastity real time and online.

I love learning new things, reading what other people are doing and sharing. I'm really looking forward to it.

Thanks
Natalie
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Yorkie-boy
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Yorkie-boy »

Hi,

Just joined, so trying to figure out where we go from here.
Bought a CB6000 a couple of months ago to play, wife not too keen on the aesthetics of the thing, but definitely enjoys when we play.

Wore it last Friday evening and played properly for the 1st time. Spending a couple of hours just painting her nails, massaging her and just generally pampering and focusing all my attention on her. She eventually got to the point where she told me to make her cum, which she did VERY quickly and squirted for the 1st time ever. We both really enjoyed that bit. :)
Despite this she is still a bit unsure about where we go.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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For me, the attraction WAS somewhat erotic, but after a few years of exploring,I find that i enjoy my time with the woman I am in love with and I appreciate her more when I am kept chast for more than 7 days. My attention is focused on pleasing her, and pleasing her gives me great pleasure. More so than ejaculating. I truely enjoy our time together more, and appreciate and respect her more. She sees the difference in me and approves. I was not having allot of success in getting my loved one to trykeeping me chaste, but a year ago I started exploring web sites relating to 'Female Led Relationships'. I started reading what FLR.com had to say, and started putting that into practice, and the woman I belong to, Loves it.
Really, in a woman-man relationship, I cannot see how male chastity can be persued successfylly without an amount of FLR. And if you are going to commit to a Female Led Relationship. a man needs to commit all the way, or just leave it alone.
Ultamately, I am compelled to say that male chastity coupled with its natural sister, Female Led Relationship idealogy, has given our relationship a whole new demension of closeness and intamatcy.
I am sure that She and I both will agree to that.
nickishers
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello world!

I'm Nick. I've been with my lovely angel for almost 2 1/2 years. It wasn't long before I expressed my interest in being sort of controlled. This kind of naturally stemmed into only masturbating with permission, wearing her underwear in public, sort of kinky but we're not really into bdsm. For awhile more recently we became more involved with requiring permission to play with myself. Almost 3 months ago I showed her the cb devices online. She was a little shocked that it existed but the more I read about them, the more I became interested. I think she fed into my interest and decided shed like to try it. I purchased the cb-6000 about 2 months ago and I've been locked off and on since. My longest stretch is 7 days without an orgasm and locked up. Lately, we've been around 3-4 days between orgasms, though she gave me permission this morning to play while locked up. I got adventurous and reached orgasm. ;)

All in all, I like what its bringing to our relationship. I definitely feel more attentive after a couple of days and go more out of my way to massage, clean, and find other ways to make her happy. Not to say I don't do things like that normally, but I definitely feel more inclined to when denied.

I figured it was about time to join a community where I can share thoughts and ideas outside of just the two of us. So, hello everyone!

Nick
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Tom Allen
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nickishers wrote:I figured it was about time to join a community where I can share thoughts and ideas outside of just the two of us.
You people are just disgusting perverts! This group is for nice, church-going folk who think that sex is dirty and who want to keep themselves pure for the... what's that? It isn't? They are?

Oh.

Never mind.
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Re: Hello

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cruelnatalie wrote:My sexual philosophy is pretty much around control and of course the first level of that is orgasm control. I have huge experience with chastity real time and online.

Thanks
Natalie
I look forward to your participation on this site. I checked out your blog, will dig deeper later when I have more time, thank you for sharing. I always like this chart http://dominantmistressphonesex.com/201 ... d-you-cum/
I could probably argue that I would get one orgasm a year but know I would lose and that I am in the zero category. In reality I am in between (one orgasm in the last two years) so well on my way.

Welcome to the forum.
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Re: Hello

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Atone wrote:
cruelnatalie wrote:My sexual philosophy is pretty much around control and of course the first level of that is orgasm control. I have huge experience with chastity real time and online.

Thanks
Natalie
I look forward to your participation on this site. I checked out your blog, will dig deeper later when I have more time, thank you for sharing. I always like this chart http://dominantmistressphonesex.com/201 ... d-you-cum/
I could probably argue that I would get one orgasm a year but know I would lose and that I am in the zero category. In reality I am in between (one orgasm in the last two years) so well on my way.

Welcome to the forum.
Thank you so much for the welcome and checking out my blog. I thought the chart was a bit extreme but then again some tell me that my methods are extreme. But I do allow orgasms, lots of T&D because I feel that a motivated male is more fun then one being left to his own devices. lol

I too am looking forward to being here.
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cruelnatalie wrote:My name is Natalie. Those who adore me call me Goddess. I have been in the fetish scene since I was 20. I was a prodom and then got involved in female domination- more lifestyle 24/7. I also have been doing femdom/cock control phone sex for a number of years. I do very well with a wonderful collection of regulars. One of them told me about this site. You have seen me on orgasmdenial, milovana and a few others. My sexual philosophy is pretty much around control and of course the first level of that is orgasm control. I have huge experience with chastity real time and online.

I love learning new things, reading what other people are doing and sharing. I'm really looking forward to it.

Thanks
Natalie
Welcome to the forum. Tom or Atone may grant you access to the exclusive Keyholder only forum, I don't have the access as a moderator to do that. That forum is aimed at KH's both new and the more experienced who wish to discuss elements of MC and OD in a 'safer' environment and where more vanilla KH can explore.

I hope you enjoy the site and we look forward to your contributions :D
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celticqueens_sub wrote:Welcome to the forum. Tom or Atone may grant you access to the exclusive Keyholder only forum, I don't have the access as a moderator to do that. That forum is aimed at KH's both new and the more experienced who wish to discuss elements of MC and OD in a 'safer' environment and where more vanilla KH can explore.

I hope you enjoy the site and we look forward to your contributions :D
How do I go about requesting access to this? It sounds like it fits what I'm being asked to do/to be. I don't want to break any forum rules as a new user but maybe it's what I'm looking for?
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Post by dire »

Hello!!

My wife and I are just starting to get into the chastity thing... this site looked like a great resource with plenty of friendly and helpful folks!