Linus; thanks for the dialog on this.Linus wrote:A suggestion - 'an act of simple / natural PIV sex that is conventional / traditional according to each culture'
When I was looking at vanilla that was the generic definition I found.
It was this part that threw me a curve;
Someone not into chastity play may consider us to be a bunch of fetish driven, kinky pervertsLocked by LRC wrote:Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve elements such as, BDSM, kink, or fetish activities.[/i]

Member's activities often don't include PIV sex, at least mine doesn't.
When I stated our culture I was referring to the Chastity Forum group. Let me know if this makes sense to you.
Let me think on it and maybe I'll have a couple of definitions for this.
Maybe Vanilla, Mainstream & Vanilla, Chastity.