I can't take it anymore...but I have to

[locked4her55]

I'm not offended by those who choose to participate in cuckolding, urethral inserts, sissification, ect. Call me vanilla and I'm ok with that but there will be things people do and comment about on this Forum that I will never participate in. If you look at the original post of this thread no where is there any mention of cuckolding but here we are.

When I begin reading a post from a member and it's headed to a place I'm not comfortable with I have the power of "click" at my disposal.

[lockedupinlove]

I dont know much about cuckholding, but the only relief my KH allows is thru my prostate. She allows me to milk on occasion. This only helps out a lot as it feels good but does not make me unhorny for days like full release and ejaculation does. She doesnt like me to fall asleep on her, get tired, or be unhorny. An unhorny slave does nothing for the KH.

Milking is about all I get for weeks on end.

[TwistedMister]

Can't remember which Prussian Army dude it was, someone like von Clausewitz maybe, but he said words to the effect "No plan survies first contact with the enemy".

Yeah, that was something I learned in the Army. My reference to '[possible] consequences' was referring to those that were of a 'bad' nature, I thought that would be clear from the context and I didn't need to spell it out .

RE: stumbling over unappealing subjects- there are a couple of things that I'm not real fond of seeing but I don't feel it's right to try to segregate them away from everything else, I just choose to read them or not and move along. I see this as a big buffet table, I take what I want and leave what I don't want, I'm not going to insist that somebody who likes spinach has to go to another room to get it.

[locknload]

This thread has grown cold, but since cuckolding was discussed deeply, and it's even more on my mind and in my love life lately, or could be, I thought I'd give an update.

My KH and I are going on vacation to a large American city in about a week. Since my earlier postings in this thread on the subject of cuckolding, the subject has continued evolving in our fantasy life. As a reminder, I brought the subject of watching her fuck another man while I was locked up and she locked in on the idea. That was a few months ago. Many times during teasing she has brought this fantasy up, and the idea has developed to the point that we are going to walk down playing at the cuckold game while on vacation.

The idea is for us to separately enter a bar, and sit at some distance apart. She is going to wear the crotchless panties and low-cut, nipple-exposing bra that I bought her as underwear, with some enticing clothes over them. I will watch while guys flirt with her, and will be caged, with the key on a chain visibly hanging around her neck. If a guy should inquire about sex, she will explain the key and that her locked boyfriend would be watching. I suspect many guys would be put off by that, but we will be looking for the odd guy who finds that a turn-on. Most guys wouldn't be observant enough to notice, but inquiries about the key around her neck would prompt a discussion about chastity. If the flirter wants to be her bull, she would tell him I'm watching, give me the sign, and we'd proceed to our motel room. I would remain locked and watch him fuck her. She would be wet already, since I would warm her up before going to the bar, and the idea apparently excites her, since she keeps bringing it up. Though we never use them, we have purchased condoms for her bull. I would love to see his cum dripping from her well-fucked pussy, but not from a bar pick-up. I do not plan to participate beyond actively watching and giving verbal comment.

If this scenario goes well, we would pursue finding a bull at home. If we got to know and trust him, the condom could come off and he could get control of my key.

In reality, I think she will flirt with a couple of suitors, neither of which will be suitable to her (we will agree on a "save me" signal), and we'll return nightly to our room just the two of us for some teasing for me and some cumming for her. But it will be hot going through the motions.

[TwistedMister]

...But it will be hot going through the motions.

Damn. Your description of that idea got me straining against the cage. Mrs. Twisted and I will be taking vacation together beginning at the end of this week (for the first time in quite a few years). We aren't planning on taking a trip anywhere (too much that needs to be done around the homestead) but she did mention making me take here out somewhere, with a specific reference to the fact that she has me locked up again...and lately there have been more references to her making me watch her with other men. Now I have to wonder if she might have something similar in mind, but I'm reasonably sure that she won't actually follow through. It is interesting to note that she used to wear the Key on a necklace that also had a large semi-precious stone so that it was partly obscured, but now it is by itself and blatantly obvious...

[locknload]

I know the straining against the cage feeling well! Does her key necklace ever get any questions?

[TwistedMister]

I know the straining against the cage feeling well! Does her key necklace ever get any questions?

There has been the occasional question. As far as I know, she tends to deflect it with something coy like "...the key to my husband's heart...", which tells the questioner that it is something that she isn't going to tell them and which I suspect leaves them wondering just what it is that she isn't telling. I don't *think* that she has ever actually said what it is *really* for, but it is possible that at least one (former) co-worker may have guessed. I have no idea how many other people may suspect, or have some idea of what a key being worn by a woman might mean...hmmmm, time to do a little googling...

[glove]

I have to admit i feel the same way that's what made me want to try chastity, because i knew i loved the feeling of being horned up that gut desire to mate or be mated as is the case. It is such an amazing feeling when you really get to enjoy it without being able to release that energy and it builds up in you. I cant say if it gets easier since ive only just started but i can agree that deliciously evil is the best term. You love it and want more and you hate it because your body wants to get rid of it as nature intended. I think she would, i hope my fiance would , its tough to get more time in because a week (7) is our longest time which was most recent but it was one of the most amazing experiences that i hope to push further and explore. I usually think about it more just cause im a masochist sometimes and it ads to the fun.

I have no choice, my girl just plain does not want me to orgasm, she will ruin them about one per month and have many of her own but she wants me locked up permanently. I could stop it all, but that would take her power away I am doomed to do it her way she seems so into it.

[catkar]

The idea of cuckolding seems to me like a completely natural extension of Chastity. Chastity gives me such an incredible rush, a constant state of arousal, and makes me highly suggestible and responsive to her touch and teasing. The cost of this to her, is she doesn't get to be fucked for long periods of time. This is fair? Only if she doesn't like cock! Cuckolding lets her get the cock she desires, making it easier for her to focus on my teasing and denial without feeling like she is denying herself as well. She gets the best of both worlds - options for interesting sex with other men, and a stay-at-home man committed and crazy about meeting her every need otherwise. My wife gets very attentive, full-body massages from me any time she wants, gets my tongue to please her often, and enjoys the abject adoration you only get from an orgasm-denied man. She also gets cock, in a fun, naughty way! Why would she leave me for that cock? All she gets with him is the same old tired relationship, once the "new relationship energy" wears off, and the likelihood that her new flame will tolerate chastity, cuckolding and the resulting freedom and attention for her is slim to none! A chastity-loving cuck is a rare treat for a woman who appreciates what he has to offer, and there are a lot of women who will know that and hold onto that with both hands!

I often hear dire warnings of the consequences of cuckolding - as if the only aspect of your relationship keeping you together is sex, and as if the freedom you offer your woman is a trivial, easily acquired thing in our society. Don't kid yourself. A woman is damn lucky to get a sub, chastity-tied, cuckold, and as she steps into this experience and partakes of the amazing benefits (and looks around and sees NO other women around her receiving anything like it), you may find her turning into the dominant, sexy hotwife YOU deserve!

If this scenario goes well, we would pursue finding a bull at home. If we got to know and trust him, the condom could come off and he could get control of my key.

In reality, I think she will flirt with a couple of suitors, neither of which will be suitable to her (we will agree on a "save me" signal), and we'll return nightly to our room just the two of us for some teasing for me and some cumming for her. But it will be hot going through the motions.

[RegularJoe]

My wife initially had two serious concerns regarding my interest in male chastity.

1) That the wearing of a device would be a potential contributor (through conditioning) to erectile dysfunction, or otherwise harmful to my equipment. The assurances of the forum members, and our continued experience, seems to have completely alleviated those particular concerns. On the very infrequent occasions I'm allowed out of lockup, everything works just fine.

2). That she'd be deprived of the pleasures of very frequent intercourse, which she enjoys immensely....and while she very much enjoys oral stimulation, doesn't find it a totally adequate substitute for PIV.

I'm not sure I'd say that sharing your wife with other men is necessarily a logical extension of MC, but for a woman like my wife, it became the only acceptable outcome. Frankly, I was never that good at PIV, and this arrangement now meets both our needs.

Is it 'fraught with danger'? Probably, since women tend to become far more emotionally involved with sexual partners, than do most men (yes, perhaps an over-generalization, but fairly accurate, I believe)....and observing your wife's increasing bonds and expressions of affection for a lover is actually more of a source of jealousy than observing their sexual intimacy.

I know it's a trite statement...but I'd be careful....it's a path once walked, can't be unwalked.