jacking off/cumming in cb...cheating?

[bottombitch91]

so if I were to rub my semi in my cage up and down and came, giving a ruined orgasm, would that be "cheating"? or would that still count as a day in the cb?

when people say "x number of days" since orgasm, do they mean all orgasms or only real ones?

[Locked by LRC]

To me, the quick answer to both questions is, it depends. It depends on what agreements you and the KH have.

so if I were to rub my semi in my cage up and down and came, giving a ruined orgasm, would that be "cheating"? or would that still count as a day in the cb?

If your KH says you aren't allow a release of any kind except by her you are cheating. If your KH says you can have a release whenever you want but the cage only comes off by her, then it's okay.

when people say "x number of days" since orgasm, do they mean all orgasms or only real ones?

What constitutes an orgasm is decided by you and the KH. For LRC and me an orgasm is when it occurs as before chastity, like any mainstream guy would. Any form of ruined, POT, abandoning, squeezing, etc. is considered a release. I average about 10 releases a year. I average 1 orgasm a year and the longest time was 1 1/2 years. My best year had 3 orgasms.

[chastityrandy]

My definition is that if I ejaculate on purpose (ruined or real) without my KH knowing and allowing, then it's cheating. I always count the "days since" as the days since I ejaculated (ruined or real). I have only gone 7 days between ejaculations, but I have only been doing this for 6 months so hopefully I can getup to one month.

[locked4her55]

I experienced a rather unsatisfied ruined orgasm once in my CB6000s and once in my JB. I considered both cheating since the real reason we do this is to prevent me from masturbating at all.

[newbie]

I experienced a rather unsatisfied ruined orgasm once in my CB6000s and once in my JB. I considered both cheating since the real reason we do this is to prevent me from masturbating at all.

I agree with that. I have found that I am also able to have a ruined orgasm in while wearing my CB6000s, and I consider that to be like any other orgasm which essentially "resets the clock" for me. Unfortunately. When I bought the device I never thought I would be able to achieve any type of orgasm while wearing it, but as they say, where thre's a will there's a way. I am trying much harder to resist the temptation now, now that I know it's possible.

[poor]

My definition is that if I ejaculate on purpose (ruined or real) without my KH knowing and allowing, then it's cheating.

I'd agree that this is how we look at ejaculation. After about 10 weeks I'll cum regardless of what restrictions are placed upon the penis. (Although if I was seeking stimulation (ie Porn) I would still count it as cheating.)

We gave up counting a while back. My only target is to do as Chatelaine wishes.

[chastityrandy]

[/quote]We gave up counting a while back. My only target is to do as Chatelaine wishes.[/quote]

In my opinion this captures the spirit of it all.

[eroslocked]

We have accepted that it is possible to cum while locked although the orgasm is not always that satisfying even if it feels good at the time. With this in mind I am not released for orgasm and can cum only while locked.

[michaelnmelissa]

What would she think?

Usually, our intuition knows the right answer but we are more than capable of rationalizing what we want.

Michael