"Hello world" thread

[blueeyes]

Hey I'm Damish , so excuse my missspelling were they occur..
- I found the courage to introduce my dream of Male Chastity to my wife after a wonderful and loving trip to Rome. I was trembling when I asked her to read a long letter I had Written during the previous nighttime.
Thr letter explained that my unfulfilled sexdrive had led me to more an more secret and extreme measures like numerous self-peircing sessions, - neddleplay and plugs. All something I had performed on my own to satisfy my kinky imagination and my lust.
We have had sex on a regular basis for many years, - the usual stuff, - becoming a routine. We have perfected the routine as we grew more skilled, - but I was never really satisfied, - and I seriously doubt she was too.

I told her in the letter that I did not wanted this secret sex-life anymore. I wanted a sexlife that we shared. No secrets, No tabus, - And I wanted to become a man that focused more on her needs, both sex-wise and in every day life. I told her that controlled orgasm denial and Chastity could do the trick for us.
I told her that I would give up the controll of my cock completely, - and by a contract only be allowed release once a week..

When my heart was pounding the most I have ever experienced - She looked at me with a mix of surprise and tenderness.
She Agreed! - to try... I was Thrilled. I could not believe what she just told me...
This is 2 months since now- and we are both extremely happy with the turn of events. A turn has certwinly taken place.
At first I was focusing on the sex, - the number of releases, - the chastity device- the CB6000 and others, - but soon I experienced a radical change in me. I just wanted - before anything else - to please and serve my wife in every possible way. And I do. Last night I was allowed release after having been denied for 11 days. It was wonderful. She allowed me penetration after having served her tenderly for some time - without taking her over the top ( She ordered me not to) and I went over the hill like a rocket - with a huge load splashing all over and inside her. During the 11 days in denial, I had - beside massage etc. the pleasure of serving her numerous times, - and she always came big time, - to my own satisfaction. Her pleasure were my pleasure as well. It is actually true what they write on the Blogs- it really works like that:-)
Now having had release even before she came, I was frustrated, - It was not meant to be. But then she saved me again. "You are not finished yet" - she said, - and pushed my head down. "Do me, and clean up your mess". I could feel it was a major turn-on for her, - and of course I obeyed - to my pleasant surprise. The taste of me and her mixed together was intoxicating, and when she came I was with her in the seventh heaven..... I look forward to serving her like this many times again. It's the ultimate display of control and obedience.

This morning - after serving here breakfast she came to me I said that she had never felt so happy in her life before, - and I told her the exact same. I can't wait to experience more of this wonderful lifestyle..
I have a little chrome padlock inserted in to one of my previous piercings i n my cock - with the inscription "Owned by" - And the name of my wife.. I am wearing this with pride 24/7. I will only be unlocked when she wants my cock inside her. She holds the key in a silverchain around her neck or around her angle - for everyone to see - but not to know the true meaning of. It makes me so proud of her...
I do not wear a chastity device anymore. I do not plan to cheat!! I want to show her that this lock in my cock is all I need to stay out of even touching myself, - I just managed 11 days! - And I really am capable of not doing anything to my self. Only washing is allowed, - and holding the padlock when I sit down to pee. Shes has such strong control over me, - that I simply cannot make myself disobey. I love her and this new life way too much...
Cheers
BlueEyes - from Denmark

[brmeye]

hey all. bf has been seriously talking about getting a cage and me locking him up. on here to find out opinions, safety, experiences etc...

[Atone]

Oh my, love your avatar. Welcome to the forum.

on here to find out opinions, safety, experiences etc...

browse around a bit but definitely ask questions.

[Calissuboy]

Hi, my wife posted here a few days ago and it doesn't seem to be showing up, she's the_mrs. Thank you!

[antrare]

Hi all, I'm a real person too. Currently learning and playing with my gf who seems to have (finally) seen the benefits for her. I registered primarily because of a post on hypnosis chastity by malepet.

[Tom Allen]

Looks like she needs to register again. Ask her to make sure to post in this thread so we spot her user name.

[Calissuboy]

Looks like she needs to register again. Ask her to make sure to post in this thread so we spot her user name.

Will do, thanks. She did take a week to click confirm in her email hopefully she doesn't see this haha.

[Jenailaclef]

Hello all blood types,

I'm 29, a new key holder, and just found this forum about a week ago. My slave and I have been easing into chastity over the past month or so, but we've been talking about the idea since this past winter. Unlike what I've read in a few other new member intros, I'm not married to my play-toy, and we have been seeing each other casually for only a year. With that kind of relationship it makes the lifestyle/emotional intricacies of chastity a little more complicated for me.

In the past I've been pretty vanilla, so I'm looking to get some advice and other feedback about not only logistics but how I can open up a little more and explore the creative process of chastity. Also maybe process my own feelings about how meta it can get (I'm using him to please myself, which is what he wants, so I'm doing it to please him too, but it's really about me… etc).
I'm at the point where it's starting to get fun for me, I'm thinking of more ways to humiliate him (tricky because he has a slight presence in the local community so we can't do anything too risqué close-by). I feel lucky that my toy went for an MM Jailbird right off the bat as opposed to any of the CBx stuff because from what I've been reading on here they seem like they'd be a hassle with his dimensions/lifestyle. On the other hand, in the summer it's hard to hide under thinner shorts. Thoughts?

Also-- do I have to send a private message to a moderator to get on the KH-super-secret-forum-of-champions?
Ok, I guess I'll save some of my other questions and concerns for other threads.

Jeanne

[claire]

Hello All

I'm Claire. Don't know how to say this, but I'm new to the whole chastity thing. I did register on chastity mansion but this seems to have disappeared???????????????

I'm really looking for advice.

My BF asked me to look at some and read some pages and I did and thought why not. I've bought a Spiral cage thing just waiting for it fo arrive

[Tom Allen]

Hi claire - and you, too Jenailaclef (cute name).

I've added the both of you to the Keyholders group. Please feel free to ask away - we have a friendly, low-key group that will generally answer your questions like adults, and not like 14 year olds.

Welcome.