Part-time?

[alphonsus]

I'm only out at weekends: it goes on on a Sunday evening a while before I go to the pub for a couple of beers, then stays on until Friday evening which is cleaning time and playtime. Sometimes it goes back on again until saturday evening, sometimes it stays off for the full 48 hous until Sunday rolls round again. On occasions it stays on over the weekend and isn't taken off until the following Friday fo a run of about 11 days (the most I've ever done). Hygiene through the week consists of a lot of showergel squirted in the front, swirled around with a cottonbud/q-tip and a lot of flushing. I then squirt a bit of anti-baterial hand cleanser in. I wear a CB6000s with the largest ring and smallest spacer. I don't get pain from that combination most of the time and there's very little chafing.

[Harry Haversackers]

In theory, I'm locked up 24/7/365, but there is always something that comes up to disrupt that. A while back it was a rash, and she made sure that I stayed out until it was healed. She takes care of her property...

At the moment, I've been locked for the past 10 weeks, out for cleaning, play and a couple of doctor's appointments. So far this year, I've been in the JB for 163 days, which is 92% of the days. Being locked all the time takes the pressure off me. When I'm out, I find too many opportunities to take myself in hand and edge, which is just asking for trouble...

We have no plans for any travel this summer, so unless something out of the ordinary happens, I expect to be locked for the foreseeable future. With a little begging, I might get a day or two off in January, after my next orgasm, if indeed she lets it happen.

[Aarkey]

Do any of you have a relationship with your KH where you only wear the device at home?

As many others have already replied, do what works for you and see where the journey goes. There are lots of different devices out there as well, and if you want to explore taking it more towards a full time thing (some guys have no issue working out in a device) then look for options.

FWIW, my ex would often let me out to sleep, as that was something that I struggled with for quite a while. Over time it got easier, so she would only let me out for a couple of hours when we were sitting around together in order to shave and give the skin a rest. My current g/f allows me out for yoga, and we had to work out a system with some "honor based" chastity where I was able to get access to a key. She's recently started yoga too, and enjoys it a great deal - so the honor system need has decreased as she simply meets me at the studio to unlock me, and then I lock back up right after the class and return it to her.

[KeyheldHubby]

One of the things I really like about these forums is the openness of all the posters.

Different things work differently for different people. Some are full-time locked for extended periods. Some (like myself) are locked up for shorter times. Some are part-time.

And it's all good!

What works for some might not work for others...

The point is that our discussions with each other and (most importantly - DEFINITELY most importantly) with our significant others (SO) can help uncover what works for each of us. You want to see if "part-time" works for you? TRY IT with your SO. And PLEASE, PLEASE let us know how it worked!