Greetings - My wife and I have recently begun a FLM, and as a part of that, I have been placed into a chastity device as of yesterday. Prior to the device being put on, I have not been allowed to orgasm for the past 7 days, and we have agreed that I will wear my device until June 11 - when I will be allowed one release, and then it will be re-locked for another 30 day period.
I cannot begin to describe the amazing feeling of knowing I do not have control over my penis at this point. My beautiful wife is the keyholder, and is taking her newfound power/control in a very positive way.
I am wondering, however, how others cope with knowing they will not be allowed out of their device for an extended period. In my case, a month being locked inside, and after that time period it will have been 5 weeks since I had any sexual release... Emotionally I am very excited, but I am also very concerned that as time wears on, I will not be able to continue what I have promised. Anyone else able to give me some advice on getting thru these first few days or torture?
My new experience
- locked4her55
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Re: My new experience
You just got locked up for the first time and you are in it for the next 5+ weeks without any release?
I think that's pretty aggressive. I wish you luck.
What type of CD are you wearing?
I think that's pretty aggressive. I wish you luck.
What type of CD are you wearing?
Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Re: My new experience
I find it to be comforting.jeg3614 wrote:I am wondering, however, how others cope with knowing they will not be allowed out of their device for an extended period.
I agree with with locked4her55I think that's pretty aggressive. I wish you luck.
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Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
Re: My new experience
Have you taken any time to adjust to wearing a chastity device because if you have not I think you are in for a rough ride, I dont know of anyone who has been thrown in at the deep end like this and managed to do a five week stint straight off, what type of device is it ?,
Re: My new experience
The CB3000, we have tried it off and on before, mainly I have been allowed 'out' of it for 2-3 hours maybe 2 days a week, no orgasm, however. This time it's on for the duration, I am told. It's been a rough few days and my wife is tiring of my whining the past day or so, but we shall see.