"Hello world" thread

[Outed_sub]

Hi,this is to be my first overnight locked in a Steelheart. We've had the Steelheart since January and since then i've had several days locked up during work. There is an emergency key somewhere in the house that I can phone for its location.
I spend several nights per week apart from my partner, Aly, including every Sunday. I spent most of Friday, Saturday and Sunday with a near permanent erection (due to managing to a total lay off from wanking during the week) and think I have convinced her I would be more horny if i'm locked up when we're apart. Normally she is hornier than me, though this is probably due to my wanking. I've told her I feel a guilty after I wank and that by keeping me locked up she'll be saving me from myself. Today she made the point of locking me up before she left, i hadn't mentioned it all day.
For my 40th birthday I had asked for 30 days of total denial, Aly wasn't keen on this as she would have missed sex. I have ordered her a vibrator and hope that she'll let me use that and my mouth to satisfy her and perhaps get my longed for denial.

[Locked by LRC]

Welcome Outed_sub to the Forum.
When you say you are going to try being denied for 30 days why does this mean Aly has to be denied? I find having intercourse without orgasm is part of the denial enjoyment. Think about this and see if this would work for Aly. LRC's comment after our first time was "I could get used to this. I love that there's no mess to clean up."

[Outed_sub]

I suggested having sex but stopping before I come. She may go along with that. I think she is also afraid of causing damage by keeping the penis locked up and constricted. I have survived my first night of lock up with no major issues. I hope she'll be turned on as much as I am by the idea of her keeping me locked up.

[Newbie123]

Hello everyone. I am very new to this world. My husband and I have owned a chastity device now for 3 days so I guess our journey is just beginning . I am eager to help my hubby achieve this fantasy that he has had for some time but wow there is a ton of information out there. I am enjoying reading everyone's stories and hope to learn something's through the process.

[TwistedMister]

Hello everyone. I am very new to this world. My husband and I have owned a chastity device now for 3 days so I guess our journey is just beginning . I am eager to help my hubby achieve this fantasy that he has had for some time but wow there is a ton of information out there. I am enjoying reading everyone's stories and hope to learn something's through the process.

Welcome, and good luck. 3 days *is* rather new. Have you known about this fantasy for a while, or is it something that he told you about recently?

While you're reading the stories and other information, just remember that we don't all do everything the same way, and not everything here is necessarily going to work for you and your hubby. You have to find what works for *you* (and him) and go with that.

[Newbie123]

This is a fairly new thing to me he told me about it in a very casual conversation a few weeks ago. I had no idea this thing even existed. He told me that he has tried to bring up the topic before( he has been trying for three years apparently) but just never found the courage to do so. Although I am what most would consider vanilla, we have experimented with toys and such just nothing quite like this. After talking to him about this fantasy that he has been having and doing tons or research and realizing that it is way more common than I thought i decided that we could give it a go and I let him order the cb6000. After all if it did not work we could stop and go back to normal. So yes very very New to the world. I am hoping to learn a lot more useful information and make this experience a whole lot better. Just thinking I should have made a different username for this forum. Lol. After a little while I won't be such a newbie

[scott_848]

I just posted under another thread.
Sorry I didnt realize that I should have gone here first.
About me: I am 46 and married to a Vanilla wife. I am hoping to find a way to introduce chastity to her.
I think she might enjoy playing with this kink if i could introduce it to her in a way that came more from a light hearted teasing perspective than an overly dominant one.

[locked4her55]

Welcome scott_848, I believe you have found a very friendly site to begin your journey. Your wife sounds a bit like mine in the beginning. As well as this Forum, these two listed below were very helpful.

http://books.google.com/books/about/Mal ... 8VGQAACAAJ

http://www.keptforher.com

Good luck, and by the way honesty and communication are "key" to making this all happen

[dickinabox]

Hello world! Yes, if you have seen the SNL piece, this song is echoing in your head now!

[OhioGent]

Good morning

Name is Arthur, I am a 50 year old guy, who has the distinct pleasure to be serving a wonderful lady who is willing to add physical chastity to our relationship. I make that qualification, because over the last four months there has been a period of 28 days, and another of 22 days, where I had access to "her" cock and could even masturbate, but was not allowed to cum.

Over the last month, especially, the idea if it being locked away has intrigued me more and more, in no small part due to having met Thumper and Tom Allen on Twitter. I have been sharing thoughts with her along the way, and last night asked her straight out if she was interested/willing to have her cock locked up. She had some questions, most if which I could answer. The one I could not was, "What happens when you get an erection?" Having never been locked up, I kinda shrugged my shoulders, and said "I imagine it gets a little uncomfortable, but I do not know." Her response to that was a soft smile and "So it will be an adventure"

Probably enough to get me started here. Looking forward to reading more, learning, and sharing