Please HELP! Penile Damage From Chastity Device?

[CantHelpIt]

Hello everyone, I am new to the forum.
I'm a 22 year old male from the States.
Heres my problem and my story, hopefully someone will come out & help.

I bought a birdlocked chastity device a while ago from birdlocked.
It was the standard sized device, came with a lock and keys. I liked it.
I wore it a few times, then took the dive and tried wearing it to bed.
Everything seemed great. I finally had a dominant girlfriend & we tried using it.
She'd lock me in right before bed, hide the keys, and then strip down to panties...
Rub right up against it with her perfect bum and fall to sleep, keeping me up all night.
So I had some experience with this thing and I liked it, it wasn't bad.
But it was painful and sometimes I had to call it quits and take it off.
When I'd take it off my penis would sting for a while and look discolored.

Heres my real problem:
I put it on one night innocently enough, no problem.
But that night I became aroused and I just didn't want it on any longer... So I took it off.
While I was taking it off, it bent me right up and idk, it didn't feel right.
So I finally slipped it all the way off and immediately my penis bent all the way to the right.
This FREAKED ME OUT as I had NEVER seem my rock hard penis bend that way.
It was as if I had a door hinge on the right base of my penis.... I was SO scared...
The reason I took it off was to masturbate and go to bed but I couldn't get hard that night.
I had a pain at the base of my penis, a dull ache on the right hand side.
My mind raced... I got really scared. It felt so weak, it wasn't getting hard..
So I went into panic mode, my heart was racing as I googled what the pain could be...

I came across chastity websites discussing tendon problems. It sounded just like me.
This was when I got really scared and I honestly had a pretty big panic attack.

Its been months and months since that night and my penis has been different ever since.
After urinating I can shake for 2-3 minutes and still end up dribbling all over myself a min later.
I'm still not getting nearly as hard as I always had prior to that horrible night...
If I really work on my penis and touch it enough I will get hard but its just not as hard as before.
And my penis is still bending to the right at the base, just not as much.
Another thing is that when I'm hard the base is completely hinged.
I can take my penis with my hand when hard standing up, and place it against my stomach.
And when I come, I come fine, but then some seamon stays in my penis..
And I need to squeeze some out, and to an extent I never had to do be4 this.

I went to an asshole doctor that basically looked at my medical history...
Saw that I had drug addiction in my past, and accused me of fishing for pain killers.

I don't understand why this happened to me? Why this is happening to me...
Do any of you have an idea of what might be wrong with my penis? Is this common?
Should I be scared? Do I need surgery?

Should I go to another urologist?
Please someone help me, I just want to be normal. I don't want to leak anymore.
I want to get hard enough and long enough to be desirable again. Please help!

[Atone]

Should I go to another urologist?
Please someone help me, I just want to be normal. I don't want to leak anymore.
I want to get hard enough and long enough to be desirable again. Please help!

Sorry to hear about your problems. I have never heard anything quite like this before. Most issues have been minor and / or temporary. I will try to dig up a link to an interesting explanation that I saw on another forum that matched what I have experienced. It was nothing like this though.

Yes, absolutely find another urologist. Find someone that will take you seriously. And be honest with them and let them know what happened.

[CantHelpIt]

Thanks man, any information would be appreciated.
If the roads weren't packed with snow right now I'd make a urologist appointment.

This is scary stuff. I think I needed a bigger cage.
My penis would get hard inside my body every time I put it on.
I thought that was normal. I think what did the damage was pulling it out still hard.

[locked4her55]

I also have never heard of this but I agree that you had best get it checked out. Do not place yourself in any danger by locking yourself up again before you know what's going on. I, like many here have a small cage in length to prevent an erection. I hope it's nothing serious. Best of luck, but do seek a professional opinion.

[CantHelpIt]

I have been in the cage once since that night.
Just a quick lockup for foreplay and then I took it off no problem.

But yeah, I need to get it checked out again because I hate to be handicapped down there.
I mean I was never HUGE but I was proud and happy with my penis.
Now it just feels weak, gets soft easily, never reaches that rock hard point.
Still points to the left unless I point it forward.

I mean I believe it has healed up a bit, but its just not the same and it sucks.
I didn't think this type of thing happened if you do your research.
I did my research. I didn't keep it on forever at first, I eased into it.

It was taking it OFF that I believe hurt/damaged my penis.
That one split moment decision to pull rather than wait to get soft, and boom, this happened.
I think it is a tendon problem, probably a snapped tendon on my right side.
1 thing I have noticed is the right side base now has a rather large vein.

[CantHelpIt]

ANY more replies and responses and help would be greatly appreciated.

[Aarkey]

I've never heard of this either, but I would also suggest you get to a doctor.

Please keep us posted, so we can all learn more about what might happened to cause this.

Best of luck with it.

[Tom Allen]

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/it-possi ... your-penis

http://healthmad.com/addiction/cause-an ... ken-penis/

http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/456305-overview

[RegularJoe]

First off, as others have suggested...have a board certified urologist take a look.

Secondly, your anxiety about this issue could easily be negatively affecting hardness and duration of your erections. A trip to a competent professional will probably greatly reduce your anxiety level.

Hell...I can sometimes lose a diamond hard erection when thoughts about work problems creep into my mind. You probably are suffering mostly 'performance anxiety'.

Good luck!

[CantHelpIt]

OH MY GOD DON'T CLICK THAT LAST LINK!! DONT DO IT!! LMAO OMG!