"Hello world" thread
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Hi all! We've (my wife and I) been messing around with chastity for about a year now off and on. Since late last year, we have been getting more into it. I'm using a CB6000s at the moment but only over weekends. I'm planning a Jailbird soon to allow 24/7 wearing and am sussing out the best way of ensuring I order the correct size(s).
Re: "Hello world" thread
Howdy Dak!
My wife BethK's previous hub had the same problem as you, (incessant self-pleasure) and it ultimately resulted in the dissolution of their marriage. I wonder how things might have turned out if he'd submitted to a chaste lifestyle?
No matter, his loss was my gain; I am married now over five years to a wonderful woman who loves me for who I am, though in truth springing the chastity idea on her (my own ideas on the matter came as a result of my job as a mommy porn editor, not overspeeding myself), it terrified her.
She saw it as a return to her previous marriage (no sex, but for a different reason). I assured her it was not so, and brought her to some of the more realistic sites on the Web to show why that no sex was not the goal here. (Do you know that even Fox News did an article on male chastity?) at this link, and another on the history of chastity belts (fairly accurate) at this link?
Even the spoof Fundamentalist Website Landover Baptist Church has a discussion thread about male chastity devices here of folk discussing their experience with such things.
Male chastity is everywhere. I suspect that soon we will be the majority. (It may even help to curb population growth in the long run.)
My wife BethK's previous hub had the same problem as you, (incessant self-pleasure) and it ultimately resulted in the dissolution of their marriage. I wonder how things might have turned out if he'd submitted to a chaste lifestyle?
No matter, his loss was my gain; I am married now over five years to a wonderful woman who loves me for who I am, though in truth springing the chastity idea on her (my own ideas on the matter came as a result of my job as a mommy porn editor, not overspeeding myself), it terrified her.
She saw it as a return to her previous marriage (no sex, but for a different reason). I assured her it was not so, and brought her to some of the more realistic sites on the Web to show why that no sex was not the goal here. (Do you know that even Fox News did an article on male chastity?) at this link, and another on the history of chastity belts (fairly accurate) at this link?
Even the spoof Fundamentalist Website Landover Baptist Church has a discussion thread about male chastity devices here of folk discussing their experience with such things.
Male chastity is everywhere. I suspect that soon we will be the majority. (It may even help to curb population growth in the long run.)
Currently Wearing: The CB-600S or The Avenger Chastity Belt from Chastity Belts USA, depending on Miss BethK.
My wife Miss BethK holds my key.
My wife Miss BethK holds my key.
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clockwork2718
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Hello everyone!
I just joined the forum and wanted to tell you a little bit about myself. I'm a 29 yr old gay black male musician currently residing in Washington, DC. I've been in a relationship with a great guy for 2 1/2 years and he's finally warmed up to completely controlling my cum. That said, so far we are trying this without a CB device. I am currently allowed to masturbate and to please and be pleased by my boyfriend, but I am not allowed to cum unless he says so. Thanks to a year long obsession with edging, I've actually developed a strong amount of mental discipline and haven't cum in 11 days. He says that I will be allowed to cum this Thursday after 15 days. After that, I am not sure when I will be allowed to cum again, and I hope that my orgasms will get further and further apart. I decided to join this forum because I feel that having support for my abstinence, especially without a CB device, will be vital as the time between my orgasms increases.
This actually brings me to my first question for the community: Do I need a CB device to explore chastity and be a part of this community? My boyfriend likes the idea of telling me when I can cum, but the idea of wearing a CB device turns him off currently. I hope his perspective on this will change in the future. The idea of wearing a physical symbol of my dedication to him and his control of my sexual desire turns me on so much!
Anyway, that's a short intro. I plan on expanding my profile and starting my journal in the next day or so. I hope to get to know many of you soon!
I just joined the forum and wanted to tell you a little bit about myself. I'm a 29 yr old gay black male musician currently residing in Washington, DC. I've been in a relationship with a great guy for 2 1/2 years and he's finally warmed up to completely controlling my cum. That said, so far we are trying this without a CB device. I am currently allowed to masturbate and to please and be pleased by my boyfriend, but I am not allowed to cum unless he says so. Thanks to a year long obsession with edging, I've actually developed a strong amount of mental discipline and haven't cum in 11 days. He says that I will be allowed to cum this Thursday after 15 days. After that, I am not sure when I will be allowed to cum again, and I hope that my orgasms will get further and further apart. I decided to join this forum because I feel that having support for my abstinence, especially without a CB device, will be vital as the time between my orgasms increases.
This actually brings me to my first question for the community: Do I need a CB device to explore chastity and be a part of this community? My boyfriend likes the idea of telling me when I can cum, but the idea of wearing a CB device turns him off currently. I hope his perspective on this will change in the future. The idea of wearing a physical symbol of my dedication to him and his control of my sexual desire turns me on so much!
Anyway, that's a short intro. I plan on expanding my profile and starting my journal in the next day or so. I hope to get to know many of you soon!
New to chastity
No device
No device
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Hello
I am 24 years old male. I am virgin. I never had a girlfriend or a relationship with anyone. I used to masturbate a lot to porn. I was an addict. I wanted to quit my addiction and I stopped watching porns. I also decreased my masturbation ratio. Than I began to use my will power to decrease my masturbation ratio. Than I learnt about Tease&Denial. I am not using any device. I am not a submissive either. I actually have very powerful dominant spirit. On the other hand, I love being teased but not allowed to touch my private areas. My record so far is 46 days without any release. I am doing this only with will power. Hello to all chasity fans
I am 24 years old male. I am virgin. I never had a girlfriend or a relationship with anyone. I used to masturbate a lot to porn. I was an addict. I wanted to quit my addiction and I stopped watching porns. I also decreased my masturbation ratio. Than I began to use my will power to decrease my masturbation ratio. Than I learnt about Tease&Denial. I am not using any device. I am not a submissive either. I actually have very powerful dominant spirit. On the other hand, I love being teased but not allowed to touch my private areas. My record so far is 46 days without any release. I am doing this only with will power. Hello to all chasity fans
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Moved this to the "Hello World" thread.
Tom
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Moved this to the "Hello World" thread.
Tom
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Hi all. 30 year old uk male. I've always love the idea of chastity either solo, with a gf or mistress. I took the plunge and got a cb6ks and got a nice fit sorted and plunged straight into a 6 day online session. I am 23 hours in and frustrated and horny. My hope is that I can somehow set targets for myself as a release reward.
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Hello everybody,
As required, this is to inform everyone that I am a real living person. Specifically, I am a 35 year old switch who has been introduced to chastity play by my mischievous and awesome wife. For the last few years, we have taken turns topping each other for a period of a few weeks at a time. Two years ago, she presented me with a CB6000 when it was her turn to be in charge. It really was not a specific kink of mine, though I have to admit the audacity of the gift took me a bit by surprise (I typically had been the one introducing her to sex toys...my favorite one of which is a yoke similar to the one is Secretary). It took a couple of weeks to get the rings/spacers/lube/underwear/nighttime erections figured out before I could wear it for more than a couple of days. Once I got locked up for the first real period of a week, I have to say that the experience of chastity is more intense than I would have guessed. Since then, I have been locked up a few times, the most for a month, at the end of which I felt that I was going insane. My wife has recognized that my libido is my kryptonite as far as power games go and she has introduced devious twists in our chastity games. This is honestly the first time in my life I have craved being submissive as much as I do being dominant and my wife loves the effect that being locked up has on me. It also plays right into our sexual dynamic since I get to repay her for my confinement (I should not get all the fun...topping is hard work).
Currently, I am locked up in a recently acquired a081 (San Quentin) device because the CB6000 was difficult to keep completely clean. So far, it has been more comfortable overall than the CB6000, but I am reserving judgement until I am satisfied that the device holds up over a period of months. It seems too good to be true so far based on the price I paid; but if the steel turns out to actually be stainless and the soldering is solid, it is a good device for me.
As required, this is to inform everyone that I am a real living person. Specifically, I am a 35 year old switch who has been introduced to chastity play by my mischievous and awesome wife. For the last few years, we have taken turns topping each other for a period of a few weeks at a time. Two years ago, she presented me with a CB6000 when it was her turn to be in charge. It really was not a specific kink of mine, though I have to admit the audacity of the gift took me a bit by surprise (I typically had been the one introducing her to sex toys...my favorite one of which is a yoke similar to the one is Secretary). It took a couple of weeks to get the rings/spacers/lube/underwear/nighttime erections figured out before I could wear it for more than a couple of days. Once I got locked up for the first real period of a week, I have to say that the experience of chastity is more intense than I would have guessed. Since then, I have been locked up a few times, the most for a month, at the end of which I felt that I was going insane. My wife has recognized that my libido is my kryptonite as far as power games go and she has introduced devious twists in our chastity games. This is honestly the first time in my life I have craved being submissive as much as I do being dominant and my wife loves the effect that being locked up has on me. It also plays right into our sexual dynamic since I get to repay her for my confinement (I should not get all the fun...topping is hard work).
Currently, I am locked up in a recently acquired a081 (San Quentin) device because the CB6000 was difficult to keep completely clean. So far, it has been more comfortable overall than the CB6000, but I am reserving judgement until I am satisfied that the device holds up over a period of months. It seems too good to be true so far based on the price I paid; but if the steel turns out to actually be stainless and the soldering is solid, it is a good device for me.
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Hello Everyone. We live in the North of the UK and have been into the scene for a while. I'm currently wearing the MM Jailbird. Not had an orgasm since November 23 last year and don't know when my next one will be.
Should've cared more about what I wished for...
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Hello World! We're a monogamous couple in the US which have been exploring T&D for the last few months. Before T&D we had played with B&D for some time, but it never felt natural. Setting up scenes was too hard, and the dom persona wasn't one she would naturally adopt. I came across T&D and brought it up with her, explaining the many benefits. She thought it sounded fun, so I purchased a CB3000 that weekend to give it a try.
Since then we've played on and off going for up to a several weeks at a time. We just recently upgraded to a MM Jailbird - and are getting ready for some longer denial times. She's loved the infatuation and energy that comes with my denial, and really enjoys the extra attention and help with chores. I've loved the frustration of it all and turning myself over to her whims. It's been a win/win for both of us, and is only getting better.
This forum has been a great place to hear about people's experiences. We now hope to share some of our own.
Since then we've played on and off going for up to a several weeks at a time. We just recently upgraded to a MM Jailbird - and are getting ready for some longer denial times. She's loved the infatuation and energy that comes with my denial, and really enjoys the extra attention and help with chores. I've loved the frustration of it all and turning myself over to her whims. It's been a win/win for both of us, and is only getting better.
This forum has been a great place to hear about people's experiences. We now hope to share some of our own.
I'm happily married. I have more than enough to eat at home.
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At My Queens Service
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HeldForHer
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Not sure if I'll stay with the CB6000s or move to a MM Jailbird.
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