is there any difference in frustration after 7 days?

[reeve]

I've just discovered there is an increase in frustration after 100 days. I am literally back to feeling like it is a few days in. All because the cunning Mrs K has relinquished her decision to unlock me. She just told me that the change in my behavior since hitting 100 ( I am all attentive and super horny) is just far too much fun to even think about releasing me.
I have a business trip on the 21st and she is already asking me if the CB is ready to come out of the draw and if I have plastic locks. I really want an O but I am also really excited that she is pondering just denying me for as long as she can.

That's a long time! My keyholder is likely to have sex with me a few times a month so I'll never be locked up for such a long time, but I can imagine it must feel great.
How is her sexlife since your locked up?

[Anymouse]

After nearly five months, I have noted quite a shift.
For a long time now Miss BethK has had me out of my chastity device: she points out that if I am not going to be honest enough to simply "be chaste," then there isn't much point in the game.

Last night was different. After a marathon two-hour tease of moi, (it started as simply caressing her, but she wanted to see if she could throw me off my stride - she did), I actually begged her to allow me to put on my chastity belt again (not the cage). I wanted the safety and security of the belt: for some reason I cannot fathom I feel more "complete" with it, and there is no chance of pawing myself in my sleep or something.

She insisted I put it on myself: she wanted to see my voluntary submission to the belt. (It does not secure with a lock, but with a shouldered captive screw turned with a special key. No picking that, though I don't want to.) Then she promised she would let me out on Valentine's Day (but as experience has shown me, it is not always good to enquire which year she refers to).

I am not sure what it is: I think after a certain amount of time knowing you are getting exactly what you asked for, that the brain makes a subtle shift in thinking. The journey and the tease become more interesting and important than the orgasm. I think this leads to the slippery slope of permanent chastity (by our definition, no cumming for me, but she will ask me to fuck from time to time instead of with a strap on - she likes the feel of the real thing).

I don't ever ask: she just takes what she wants, when she wants, and after my begging to be put in my chastity belt, but not being able to put it on (something about a rock-hard stiffie), she eventually did have to help. Slam. A couple of ice cubes came out of nowhere.

Ow. A "punishment" of sorts for daring to have a stiffie longer than she needed me to have one I suppose. She is not a domina, but she is picking up domina traits. Be careful what you wish for . . . you'll get it in spades.

[luckylocked]

Hi Reeve, she is having a ball. We don't have a lot of penetrative sex anyway as I hate condoms and she doesn't love them and for medical reasons she can't be on the pill. So we have a nice selection of dildos for when she craves some penetration.
She loves my finger/tongue combo more than anything else and she is getting plenty of that action. We would have sex in one shape or form at least four times a week and lots of innuendo in between. This is way more than we ever had without chastity.
It is a long time though, especially when there have been no ruined orgasms. In fact, I have only had about 6 full erections in the last 105 days.
What is driving me nuts is she is clear at the moment, at least in the short term, that there are still no plans to remove it, which is both terrifying and so stimulating at the same time. She also seems clear that when I do have an O finally, it will only be on the condition that I agree to go straight back in, which I am slowly coming to terms with. I was really looking forward to at least one day of rampant masturbation but it's not going to happen.