Hello World,
I am 40 years old and have come across MC only six weeks ago: For a little erotic role play with my wife I was looking online for handcuffs. And Amazon then kindly offered to me also a number of chastity devices. I got curious as to who would use them how (was it for some S/M play?) I started to dig into the topic of MC and orgasm denial. At first, I came across the many sites and blogs which are devoted to FLR or submission-domination where orgasm denial is often used as "punishment". As this is not particularly interesting to me I was happy to find some sites that were more on the "vanilla" side of MC (including this forum). And while reading more and more, I found that this was actually something I found very attractive.
My wife and I have often played some tease and denial, sometimes over several days, and in the end it is always like "of course, I want an orgasm now, but at the same time it would be a shame to give up the state I am an in now for just this short moment of happiness...". So MC seems highly attractive to me and I already know that I am able to cope with up to 10 days of denial...
Thus, I bought a very cheap metal device (I believe it is a really cheap copy of the Jail House CD), which suited me surprisingly well. It is a bit too long and the inner diameter of the tube could be a little smaller... but generally it stays in place, is comfortable enough and keeps "everything under control" - great for some experimenting. I now wear it almost 24/7.
So far I do this just with myself - I have discussed it with my wife, who is very open to try new things, and eventually I am sure we will try it together but at the moment, she just doesn't feel like it (our second child was born just a few months ago and we both feel very tired, very often... not the best time to start a new erotic venture).
So, this is why I am interested in MC and why I have come to this "vanilla MC" forum.
"Hello world" thread
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Welcome SunLocked. Sounds like you've come to the right place. Enjoy your journey and time spent here on the Forums. Congrats on your newborn too!
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Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
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Hello World!
Hey everyone!
I'm pretty new to chastity and found some useful information on this forum and decided to join! Hope to engage in some interested conversations and get some advice from some experienced users!
Best,
Bondageboy
I'm pretty new to chastity and found some useful information on this forum and decided to join! Hope to engage in some interested conversations and get some advice from some experienced users!
Best,
Bondageboy
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi all! Chastity is something I've been into off and for awhile now depending on relationship things... Well I just found someone whose willing to be keyholder, and so I figured I may as well make an account here as it seems like this is a nice and active forum with plenty of members and good advice! Looking forward to the journey (when it begins...)
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Sounds like it has already begun. Welcome to the forum.Sub Cy wrote:Looking forward to the journey (when it begins...)
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Hello so my girlfriend and I are slowly getting into male chastity. We got a cb 6000 she has had me wear it a couple of times, both times for about a day.
Just thought this would be a good place to learn more about chastity and speak with people who are more experienced in chastity.
Hope to learn a lot
Thanks
Just thought this would be a good place to learn more about chastity and speak with people who are more experienced in chastity.
Hope to learn a lot
Thanks
owns CB 6000
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Thanks, I'm def happy to be here. I mean even just reading the threads have have given me so much information and given me some insight into various things. But I'm one of those people who are always wondering random things... that are random... and that can be hard to get the answer to some times!Atone wrote:Sounds like it has already begun. Welcome to the forum.Sub Cy wrote:Looking forward to the journey (when it begins...)
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Hello world! My name is Softire, and I am a new keyholder
I am very new in my chastity journey. Currently seeking as much information as humanly possible to make well informed choices on this path.
He and I have been together over a decade, probably half of this time hes had this fantasy of a Domanant sort of FLR type of relationship...this came up over xmas.
So this year I have recived the best xmas present ever...he has given himself to me. Handed me a key and shared his fantasies.
Seems we were a little on opposite ends of the spectrum about where this would take us, but I am mainly concerning myself with information and learning the basics before I dive too deeply into the rest .... slowly exploring our newly divulged fantasies as we go.
My biggest issues are overcomming being so shy, and learning how to switch over from being submissive, to the dominant role. Its a very new thing to learn after so long in the sub seat.
So I look forward to meeting new people on here and talking about aspects of the chastity lifestyle. Hearing your stories and having a few laughs. Thanks for reading, and happy hump-day wednesday!
~Softfire
I am very new in my chastity journey. Currently seeking as much information as humanly possible to make well informed choices on this path.
He and I have been together over a decade, probably half of this time hes had this fantasy of a Domanant sort of FLR type of relationship...this came up over xmas.
So this year I have recived the best xmas present ever...he has given himself to me. Handed me a key and shared his fantasies.
Seems we were a little on opposite ends of the spectrum about where this would take us, but I am mainly concerning myself with information and learning the basics before I dive too deeply into the rest .... slowly exploring our newly divulged fantasies as we go.
My biggest issues are overcomming being so shy, and learning how to switch over from being submissive, to the dominant role. Its a very new thing to learn after so long in the sub seat.

So I look forward to meeting new people on here and talking about aspects of the chastity lifestyle. Hearing your stories and having a few laughs. Thanks for reading, and happy hump-day wednesday!
~Softfire
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new locked up man here, 57 days no O...........how to deal with it??
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What have you been doing for the pasg 56 days?glove wrote:new locked up man here, 57 days no O...........how to deal with it??
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