"Hello world" thread

[poor]

I'd suggest that MM is a too well established abbrev. (Mature Metal) for its use here in any other capacity to lead to anything but confusion.

How about MtfM?

[Multifaceted Moi]

I'd suggest that MM is a too well established abbrev. (Mature Metal) for its use here in any other capacity to lead to anything but confusion.

How about MtfM?

I appreciate the suggestion, poor, but I've been MM for nearly a decade and don't intend to change. I'm sure people will be able to discern between my full screen name and avatar photo and those associated with Mature Metal, even if I continue my habit of signing things as MM, which, as you can tell my by attached signature, I don't in these forums. Besides, MtfM just makes me think of a gender-confused person and I'm anything but confused.

[locked4her55]

I'd suggest that MM is a too well established abbrev. (Mature Metal) for its use here in any other capacity to lead to anything but confusion.

How about MtfM?

I appreciate the suggestion, poor, but I've been MM for nearly a decade and don't intend to change.

I guess she told you poor.
Spoken like a true Dom.

[queentease]

Hello, queentease.

Welcome to the forums! I hear that struggling with the lead role is the case often with new KHs. Take your time, go at a pace you can maintain comfortably, and have fun! Also, asking questions and sharing various things you go through with other, more experienced KHs may help. I have yet to meet an experienced KH who doesn't also enjoy sharing her story and what she's learned along the way! I look forward to seeing you on the boards.

Thanks MM. I read your blog and found it very informative. It's great to get some insight on this!

[Multifaceted Moi]

Thanks MM. I read your blog and found it very informative. It's great to get some insight on this!

You're welcome! I'm happy to help and I'm glad you enjoyed your visit to my blog. I try to write weekly posts, if not more frequently, but some weeks I'm too busy with other projects and responsibilities. That being said, I hope you'll become a regular reader and offer feedback as you see fit.

[In_Denial]

I have been lurking on this site unregistered for some time now and decided I may like to join in. Several years ago I finally figured out that my "bondage" fetish was actually an orgasm control fetish. It wasn't being tied up that I liked but was actually the loss of control of when I would orgasm. Once I figured that out I started looking into ways of extending it out for longer periods instead of just during a "session" with my wife. We have played "the game" with devices and on the honor system. Anyway, I'm looking forward to joining in on some of the conversations here now, thanks.

[Multifaceted Moi]

Welcome! I'm glad you decided to stop lurking and join in the fun.

[miles mayhem]

Hello everybody!
I am so pleased to have found your forum last night. My curiosity in MC was sparked when I first heard about it a few years ago when I was dating girls whom I wouldn't dare approach with any of my fetish interests. It was a turn-on to think about MC, even when I thought it was something I would never get to personally explore. Now here I am engaged to a wonderful, beautiful woman who has been open to exploring several of my other fetishes, while introducing me to her own. As our sex life has matured, my interest in MC has accelerated. We have settled into a pattern in which for half a month we have great, sometimes frequent sex. For the other half of the month her interest is diminished, and I get increasingly desperate, stressed, and clingy. Over the last 3 months my masturbation has been steadily increasing in frequency. We communicate clearly and openly about all of this and she feels bad that she isn't meeting my demands. I in turn feel bad for making her think that her own sexual appetite disappoints me- the fact is that I love her unconditionally. I began to think that we could both benefit from fitting me with a chastity device- she could refuse to satisfy me for as longs as she likes and feel encouraged or permitted to do so, and I could benefit from the sort of experience that board members here and others on the internet have described.
A little over a week ago I finally broached the topic with her, and she got really turned on by the idea. I have read some of the discussions on here around sexual contact actually increasing, and she predicted that she will want to play with me more often if MC is part of our relationship. I ordered an inexpensive steel device today from DH Gate and will see how we like it. This is a big step for us! I already have lots of questions and know I will have more. Thank you for inspiring me.

Cheers!

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome all recent newbies to the forum!

[Chastity Dream]

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