I also find myself frequently coming into her office and standing by her chair just kind of hovering around her. Sometimes there's a legit reason like if she called me in to see something she found on the internet. Other times I come un-invited to see what she's up to, ask a question, etc and just end up kind of not wanting to leave. I'm sure it's some kind of low-grade attempt to get attention and I know I shouldn't be doing it, but it happens without me even really thinking about it until I realize Mrs. is getting frustrated with me and by then its too late.
It's usually worst at the beginning of a lock-up especially if it follows a nice long period of being spoiled by being out and having lots of sex. I don't know if it's just that it takes me a while to get to that subby place where all is right with the world or what.
Lately we've added swats to our routine and Mrs. kindly offered to "beat it out of me". I'm not sure if that was tongue-in-cheek or not.
We also talked about starting to do some daily discipline. Nothing heavy duty - just something simple to help me keep my head in the right place. One of the ideas we were talking about yesterday was starting out with some daily "corner time". I'd be interested to hear other ideas along those lines from real people. I tried doing a little googling but most of what comes up is just your typical crap from some lonely guy's fantasy world.I'd be interested to hear how others cope with this problem. I'm sure we can't be the only couple dealing with it.
hmmm... 
