Hello
I have been celibate for close to 14 years I have learned to control my sexual thoughts and cravings towards women to a bear minimal I was searching for information on Spiritual Discipline. I have been to Spiritual Direction course’s and have a faith to God nobody will question. Something fell apart after reading a few articles then researching more and finding articles on dreamlover on Male Training.
Something has gone upside down all my mental facilities have gone haywire. The thought of being chastised with a device and serving a woman. I have gone a year without masturbating but I have been single also. I have just decided to try and date again and have approached a woman I know.
Has anybody else had this problem, or is this some deep rooted problem I should discuss with my mental health care provider. I have been dominated by women since childhood after reflecting the last few weeks. I have been hung up on reading all the articles on this website over and over. This must be something I want?
Days and confused
Celibacy
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Tom Allen
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Re: Celibacy
Are you sure that you're posting this question in the right group?
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Re: Celibacy
This is something that you should discuss with your Care Provider.
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Re: Celibacy
That depends...Tom Allen wrote:Are you sure that you're posting this question in the right group?
...on the sort of answer he's looking for, since most of us here don't happen to think this is a 'problem'. If he's looking for reassurance that this is 'OK', he's come to the right place. Though he admits to being 'confused', and the broken sentence structure in his post backs that up...malechastity214 wrote:The thought of being chastised with a device and serving a woman...Has anybody else had this problem...
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
Re: Celibacy
After I have been locked up for a couple of weeks without any teasing or anything, I start to think my KH/Spouse has mistaken Chastity for Celibacy. 
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RegularJoe
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Re: Celibacy
There's an important difference; celibacy is the normal state of the average married man.wishful4 wrote:After I have been locked up for a couple of weeks without any teasing or anything, I start to think my KH/Spouse has mistaken Chastity for Celibacy.
I'm not a gynecologist, but I'll take a very close look.