How many of us...

[Finn]

How many of us here are totally orgasm free (myself now, with luck) and how many are occasionally, and how many are fairly regularly? Are you at your ideal interval?

[Blaeu]

As of two months ago, I would orgasm between once and four times a week. Recently, I've been locked up more and even when free, I've chosen not to masturbate. For personal reasons, I'm trying to see how this "sexual high" impacts my state of mind and ability to focus.

So, I'm in a state of flux, and its interesting.

[male_lockdenied]

Prior to this, I was getting off by myself, 10 to 12 times a week. Now, I've been without since the midnight that begin 01 Oct. Can't say I'm happy about it, and no O date on the calendar

[Atone]

For all practical purposes I am totally orgasm free, it has been over a year. This is the interval (is zero an interval?) that I like right now so I would say it is ideal. Having said that I am thinking that I might like to take a sabbatical for a while either later this year or early next. Haven't talked to my wife about that yet though Of course it will be a win / win for me. If she says yes I get my sabbatical, if she says no then I get affirmation of what I really want which is for her to be in control (and to be denied).

[biggar]

At the minimum I get to orgasm about every 2 weeks and the longest at 8 weeks.

[RegularJoe]

Normally I get to experience an orgasm about 5 times a week, but lately there's been a bit of a dry spell of roughly twice a week....wife has a bad cold (though she still has enough energy to tease and torment me to near orgasm every night.

To me, not getting off every day constitutes chastity....and I haven't noticed any lethargy or 'let down' after blasting a load!

Regardless...she gets treated the same way....like a queen!

[finallyhappy]

I'm like Biggar. As a rule no less than two weeks (although in July it was three in a row). But never longer than (7 weeks (that was the longest). We seems to be settling into once a month now.

Me, I'd like to experience longer and after last nights conversation she just might start doing that.

[Chuck]

Over the past 12 months about 8. After the last one KH informed me that my next one would be on our wedding anniversary 6 months away. This will be my longest stretch ever. Maybe on the way to once a year or less? I don't know, it's up to her but I'm not complaining.

[Finn]

While we have reduced the daily use of the CB, I have essentially got 2 keyholders. My wife was OK wit my wearing a CB and did encourage it, but wasnt into checking up or teasing. My girl (sub/kink partner who lives with us, but separately) loved seeing me in a CB and was keen to ensure I stayed locked up. Unfortunately, I kept getting skin irritation and tweaking my right nut, which has had issues in the past. After months of being in a CB though, I'm in a better state for going masturbation and orgasm free while unlocked. My wife really likes that Im easily aroused and ready while abstaining, but still isnt into the sexual nature of maintaining it. My girl on the other hand, loves keeping me worked up, edging me and is very strict (as I asked her to be) about my remaining fap/orgasm free. It's 2 different personalities. My girl adores my cock and loves to play with it (we dont have sex) while my wife has never been drawn to playing with it, but does enjoy sex with my now nice hard cock. She's never liked semen, which was a big part of how we ended up doing Tantric based sex. My girl loves cum, and cherishes every drop that leaks out. The danger is that she loves cum so much that it's a temptation for her to cause me to have an ejaculation (more cum, which she misses) and then punish for it. My wifes interest doesnt go much beyond occasionally asking if Im being good. Apparently you can have it both ways.

[Harry Haversackers]

I've been orgasm free since April, and expect to stay that way until the end of the calendar year. My wife is enjoying the power she has over me when restricting my orgasms, but is too much of a softy to say no if I really pressed her to allow more than the three orgasms I'll have in 2012.

Myself, I'm uncertain as to how often I'd like to be allowed to come. I'm loving the feeling of being denied, yet still have a yearning for a good, strong cum. I guess we'll see what happens come the end of the year. I wouldn't be totally against her telling me that, after my next orgasm, I'll be orgasm free indefinitely, since I'm really of the mind that her enthusiastic teasing and the constant aching horniness is so much better than the few seconds of pleasure of an orgasm.