"Hello world" thread

[Tom Allen]

K, we have a handful of gay men/couples on this board, and the straights are pretty openminded.

No worries. Welcome and enjoy.

[celticqueens_sub]

Hello. Not really good about talking about myself...

I am gay, and I live with my boyfriend, I've seen that most of the people on this site are wear chastity for their Girlfriends (I.E. Straight relationships), so I hope that won't be an issue. I'll try to keep anything I post 'professional', in case there are people that have issues with such things...

lets see... Not much else to say. I like talking with people, I find that I ask too many questions, and I like meeting new people.

Hi everyone!

All are welome here.

[plough0]

Hello world,
My partner and I have dabbled with chastity for many years we're late 40's - I'm the keyholder! Because of many life challenges we've never managed to maintain it - he can spend many months away so we've never managed to work out a way of keeping it going successfully long distance - with the need for him to have a key for emergencies and for me to keep him interested and stimulated without physical contact and no email!
I'm at that "age" where libido is waning and stress and other things take over - some days I just have no energy for it! I'm looking for simple suggestions to make him feel loved and un-neglected when I'm having to deal with the mundane things like kids, money, work and cant get into the swing!
Any help and advice would be gratefully received!!
Thank you
Plough

[SingleChasty]

Hi all,

As many, I've been a long-time lurker before deciding to put up my first post.
I'm happily married, and trying to remain chaste (except for making love to my wife) since a bit over a year. However, my wife is not into it at all so I'm basically my own keyholder for the moment.

I started out with a Birdlocked, which I could escape from all too easily. I found it to be comfortable, but somewhat bulky. Now then I'm in a Steelheart, and it's a world of a difference. It's so much more comfortable, and easy to wear unobtrusively. My wife basically lets me do my thing, under the condition that she doesn't have to participate (I've asked her to click the lock shut a few times, but without success), and that I take the device off every night before bed.

It's not an ideal situation obviously, but I really like the feel of wearing the device. I'll be sure to let you know if I can persuade her to play the game with me...

Have fun!

Cheers,
SCM.

[wishful4]

Hello world,
I'm looking for simple suggestions to make him feel loved and un-neglected when I'm having to deal with the mundane things like kids, money, work and cant get into the swing!
Any help and advice would be gratefully received!!
Thank you
Plough

Welcome to the forum, Plough. We are right there with you with the waning libidos. From a chaste male point of view, I find that daily verbal teasing and the occasional kiss and caress keeps it going when you don't have the energy for much else. If you know what his fantasies are with regard to male chastity, tell him you are going to do things that are along those lines, whether you intend to or not. It's when no interaction occurs at all that I start to feel neglected. Little gestures and things from the keyholder mean a lot.

[hope2lock]

Hi everyone,

I am a chastity fan for sometime now. I can't decide if I want to be locked or I want to lock someone. Suffice it to say, someone is going to have to be locked regardless. I am not in a relationship at this time, but would welcome talking with anyone who shares this interest. I am looking for a relationship with a foundation in chastity and all the excitement inherent in this kind of relationship. Needlesstosay, I am a switch with more dominant than submissive tendencies, but in the right situation with the right person the submissive is there.

Oh and for the record I am also in the senior category..60 and counting, female, northern california

[Josy]

Hi I am new to this and am here mainly to read and learn. When I feel I have enough experience with my chastity device. Ii will chime in until thank you to all that have posted and I will be looking forward to chatting with everyone in the future

[mootilda]

Hello,
My wife and I have been toying with chastity and denial for a while now, and recently discovered this forum. I am very happy to see so many others of like mind, and many of different mind coming together on common ground.
We have toyed with various devices for a while now, with no luck due to size issues. We have finally decided to take the plunge to higher end custom devices to keep me locked up long term and away from...temptation. Thanks for letting me join, I promise I am not a robot or spammer O:-)

[krybrn]

Hi everyone. I just found this site today, and by the oddest, my CB6ks (chrome though I ordered clear) arrived this afternoon from A.L. Enterprises. I am new to CD life, but it something both my wife and I have discussed before. I am excited and a little apprehensive. I've read aloton these forums and there is a lot of good advice and tips. I'll keep you informed

[cagedboy]

Hi everyone, I'm Canadian french and there probably not that much people in Québec how's wearing a chastity cage. I have got a couple of months ago the JailBird from Mature Metal and it's almost 7 months that I'm locked. I'm married since 7 years and locking me up resolved a couple of issues with my lovely wife. I'm realy glad for it. Not like most of people who seam to get in trouble when they first talked about being chastitised, My lovely half was realy happy about it and she accepted right away. But, sincerely, It took about 4 years to me to admit it to her. Well, it's done now and I can assure you that ours sex life has others things change for the best, not perfect but our relationship leveling up since I'm chaste.