"Hello world" thread

Post by **Cherry** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 12:20 am

Hi there,

I'm Cherry and I'm the friend and kink partner who lives with Finn and his Mrs. Adding the chastity play into our dynamic (he owns me) has opened us up to some mind-blowing experiences and I'm certainly having lots of fun learning to edge him.

It's just another way I can please him and I love it!

Post by **Tom Allen** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 5:51 am

Cherry wrote:Hi there,

I'm Cherry and I'm the friend and kink partner who lives with Finn and his Mrs. Adding the chastity play into our dynamic (he owns me) has opened us up to some mind-blowing experiences and I'm certainly having lots of fun learning to edge him.

It's just another way I can please him and I love it!

Well now, that sounds like an interesting dynamic. You edge him, but you are not the keyholder?

Finn · Post by **Finn** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 10:24 am

Tom Allen wrote:
Cherry wrote:Hi there,

I'm Cherry and I'm the friend and kink partner who lives with Finn and his Mrs. Adding the chastity play into our dynamic (he owns me) has opened us up to some mind-blowing experiences and I'm certainly having lots of fun learning to edge him.

It's just another way I can please him and I love it!
Well now, that sounds like an interesting dynamic. You edge him, but you are not the keyholder?

She has a key, they both do, but Cherry and I don't have actual, regular sex. The agreement with the Mrs. is that we can do kinky stuff, but not sex...as in, penis in vagina. The chastity reassures the wife and the edging keeps me worked up, which benefits the wife. Cherry gets off on giving me pleasure, and being denied and edged is better than any orgasm to me.

locked4her55 · Post by **locked4her55** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 12:30 pm

Finn wrote:
Tom Allen wrote:
Cherry wrote:Hi there,

I'm Cherry and I'm the friend and kink partner who lives with Finn and his Mrs. Adding the chastity play into our dynamic (he owns me) has opened us up to some mind-blowing experiences and I'm certainly having lots of fun learning to edge him.

It's just another way I can please him and I love it!
Well now, that sounds like an interesting dynamic. You edge him, but you are not the keyholder?
She has a key, they both do, but Cherry and I don't have actual, regular sex. The agreement with the Mrs. is that we can do kinky stuff, but not sex...as in, penis in vagina. The chastity reassures the wife and the edging keeps me worked up, which benefits the wife. Cherry gets off on giving me pleasure, and being denied and edged is better than any orgasm to me.

Well I do believe this is a first for our Forum.

Sounds like it's working well for you. Welcome

Post by **Cherry** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 12:36 pm

Tom Allen wrote:
Cherry wrote:Hi there,

I'm Cherry and I'm the friend and kink partner who lives with Finn and his Mrs. Adding the chastity play into our dynamic (he owns me) has opened us up to some mind-blowing experiences and I'm certainly having lots of fun learning to edge him.

It's just another way I can please him and I love it!
Well now, that sounds like an interesting dynamic. You edge him, but you are not the keyholder?

Yep, it is an interesting dynamic for sure. We don't really fit into labels. We sort of just do our own thing and have lots of fun doing it!

We're as poly as you can get without actually being poly. He owns me and I'm his girl but we do many things that people would consider switchy. He is always the "top" but I get to unlock him and edge him.

I guess while there is always the understanding that he's the boss of me, we also don't get so caught up in roles that we can explore and enjoy all sorts of experiences together.

Post by **BethK** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 5:16 pm

It sounds like you three have a very different sort of relationship. It sounds like you're having a lot of fun with it!

It's also great that you are not getting caught in roles and labels that someone else has lain out, but are doing things your own way. As long as you're all following the rules that YOU have agreed to, everything should work out fine. You might want to read some poly blogs too.

Post by **Cherry** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 5:44 pm

It's hard to say whether or not reading poly blogs would relate to our situation.

You see, when I first met Finn, there were 4 of us. My husband, his Mrs., me, and Finn. My husband and his Mrs. were the vanilla ones who gave their permission for Finn and I to explore kink together (with certain boundaries of course). Finn was already experienced with kink but I wasn't so it was all new to me.

Anyhow, long story short, my husband died of cancer a couple of years ago and Finn and his Mrs. took me in.

I now live in a basement apartment in their home. While certain aspects do seem poly-ish, Finn is by no means a replacement husband to me and I am by no means a second wife. We are basically 3 best friends who live together. Their marriage is the primary relationship here and so we are not really a triad.

I don't know if I'm making any sense.

Like I said, we just don't seem to fit into any labels.

I am His and they are my best friends.

I hold one of his keys but I am his pet he is not submissive.

Sensations and experiences are everything, especially when you combine it with friendship and love.

Laudanum · Post by **Laudanum** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 7:05 pm

Hello earthlings!

Post by **Cherry** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 9:00 pm

You wouldn't be the same Laudanum from b.com days? Sorry if this is rude, I can't seem to pm you. Anyhow I was just curious. If you are she, I remember you told one of the funniest stories ever of a phone call, some poor dude, and a frying pan. LOL

Snot · Post by **Snot** » Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:17 pm

Evening,

I think I needed to post here to prove I'm not an auto spammer.

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