"Hello world" thread

[Sir Chaste]

Hello YoungCoconut and cjack, and welcome to the Forums. We also "find the whole idea of chastity quite appealing." We are glad that you decided to "get involved with this a bit more." I hope that you will both spend "some time perusing the Forums," because they are "an open book," filled with useful advice and information. "If you have any questions or anything just ask," as the members here are always happy to assist you. Keep us all informed of your progress "through various posts." Good luck to you both!

[Rageisit]

Hello all I can't believe that after 20yrs of mariage I finally got the
Courage and bought a cb6000s I put it on and after a couple of day
Got the right fit. I bought a romantic card and put the keys in a small
Box and gave it to her a month ago, at first she was scared said it seemm
Wierd I said lets try she said ok one week after that week she said
Lets try 3 months. It has been 1 month now and she wants a gold
Chain to wear my key around her neck she has 4 nights of pleasure
To my one. In 5 days we are getting tattoos she is getting a key
In bikini line I am getting a heart lock with her name on my shoulder
To think I have been dreaming of this for over 20 years why did I wait so long

[WannabeChaste]

Hello everyone. Unlike many of you, chastity is still just a dream for me. What I would love is to be locked up and have a strict keyholder who decides when I get any release and who'll add time to my chastity if I do something they don't like or fail to do something they want. Unfortunately, I don't on any device at the moment, so I'm living vicariously through this site until I can get one.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello Rageisit, WannabeChaste, and cumsteves, and welcome to the Forums. We also love "to be locked up and have a strict keyholder who decides when" or if we get released. And if we "do something they don't like or fail to do something they want," our KH's certainly have every right to extend the length of our confinement. However, our reasons for wearing our CD's are not merely about having our manhood in captivity. We have also found that living an MC lifestyle enhances our relationships and brings us closer to our KH's. When your wife informs you that "she wants a gold chain to wear" your "key around her neck," it is because she is proud of her new role, and she wants to display it to the world. So, use MC to bring new joy and excitement to your marriages, and continue to keep us all informed of your feelings and experiences. The members here will give you all of their advice and support, and we all wish you well as you each begin your journey. Good luck to all of you!

[cumsteves]

Hi there, Im a guy whos been wanting to be locked up a while that finally got up the courage to tell my wife and shea said yes!

[wishful4]

cumsteves,

Congrats and welcome to the forum. You may followup with some suggested online resources for her if she is receptive to it. Keyheld is a good place to start and there are many more. It is the right decision to involve her from the very start so that the two of you can grow in this together. Good luck!

[Anymouse]

A place for all the newbies to prove they're not spamming scum. Welcome, newbies!

I am not spamming scum. I am not scum at all, not of any sort.

I thank Tom Allen of the Keyheld blog for inviting my wife and me here. She will likely create an account later today.

My wife and I delved into the idea of male chastity some time ago, not knowing at first there were others who did this.

Despite the fact I edit Romance novels that range from merely BDSM to very kinky, all written by women, our own intimate lives are very vanilla. (Editing mommy-porn Romances was the obvious follow-on job to my previous one, an enlistee in the US Navy for seventeen years until disability struck me low.)

When I first broached the idea of a chaste lifestyle (for me) to my lovely wife, she was aghast. She had been the victim of a sexless marriage (the sort where sex is used as a weapon, not as intimacy). The thought her replacement hub was now asking her opinion on chastity about threw her into an apoplectic fit.

So, considering the novels I edit are not exactly the sort of source to draw on for our rather vanilla lifestyle, I went to the Internet seeking information. (I spend a lot of time on the Internet, as accurately portraying stories in a Romance novel, though fiction, require accurate information to be believable. It is amazing the number of authors who get quite upset when you tell them things like "you cannae break the laws of physics," or "Charleston SC did not exist at the time you set your story.)

It is truly amazing the amount of information available about a chaste-male lifestyle. And it is quite easy to read that the vast majority of it is poorly-written fantasy, and most of the rest is worse.

After running across Mrs. Sarah Jameson's seminal "Male Chastity Blog" we decided that the field of chastity needed more people blogging about real-life vanilla chastity and how it improves and enhances intimacy. (Because we are so filled with self-importance and our blog will take the blogosphere by storm, I just know it.)

Now I find we are not even close to being alone (other than living in a village of 128 people fifty miles/eighty kilometers from the nearest city over 1,500).

So, here I am. This looks like a wonderful resource of folk with which to simply "network" (I hate that word in that usage). Our own blog mostly details some of the trials and tribulations of "going it alone," along with some things we've discovered along the way. I won't plug it here (if you are remotely interested it is in my profile and lists on Mr Allen's Blogspot list, Keyheld - thank you for adding our blog to your list).

We're just a couple middle-aged folk in Middle America in an insignificant village in a far-too-Red state for our own sanity.

But everyone in the county knows us . . . we are so insufferably romantic, and practically attached at the hip, that anytime one of us is alone it always draws the question "Where is ____?" And as for the insufferable Romance, they've no idea what drives it. (Why is your 50+ hub always acting like a teen surrounded by female pulchritude and all their attention is on him?)

(One other thing, though I am entirely devoted to my wife and no one else, a chastity belt on her husband protects her assets, so to speak, from misuse or outright theft.)

My wife has promised me "release" on our anniversary (which falls in September), she is now so taken by the chastity journey. The only trouble is, she hasn't specified which anniversary. One might note, "Be careful what you wish for. . . ."

James, on Nebraska's Left Coast.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello Anymouse, and welcome to the Forums. We also love "the idea of a chaste lifestyle," and we are constantly telling our readers "how it improves and enhances intimacy." You have already done considerable research into the subject of MC, reading the works of Sarah Jameson and other authorities in the field. I know that you will find these Forums to be "a wonderful resource of folk with which to simply network" or ask questions. The members here will give you all of their advice and support, and we hope that you will share your feelings and experiences with us. Continue to be "so insufferably romantic, and practically attached at the hip," as the MC lifestyle draws you both closer. We all wish you the best of luck on "the chastity journey."

[BethK]

Hello world.

I'm "proving" that I'm not a spam-bot or the like.

I'm the female/keyholder half of a middle-aged couple, living "in the middle of nowhere" on the US Great Plains. We've been dabbling in chastity for over a year, and started taking it seriously just over a month ago. We started with the CB6000S, and have recently upgraded to an "Avenger" metal belt obtained from Chastity Belts USA/DD Machinery.

We've been documenting our experiences with male chastity as we go, and learn things, and have various experiences, good and bad, in our own blog, as well as fixes or work-arounds or whatever for the "bad" things or the "challenges" that come up, or things we try that do or don't work.

We're pretty "vanilla" in our all-around lifestyle and our sex life. There are a lot of things written concerning chastity belts which we have no desire to engage in ourselves, plus there's a lot of fantasy which seems to violate the laws of physics as far as putting a lot of it into reality.

I'll write more in appropriate sections after I find them or read them sufficiently.

I'm looking forward to what others here are writing or have experienced.

[BethK]

I'm Anymouse's wife/keyholder (but only loosely).

I was amazed about how much MORE sex came out of male chastity than without it, even in a "good" marriage with a normal sex life. My 14-year previous marriage having sex 3-5 minutes, 4 times per year, really had me skittish about the notion of restricting sex at all in an intimate relationship. It wasn't used as a weapon so much as a bargaining chip, or as a means to hold out a carrot on a stick - and I'm not sure just what all the reasons were. My first thought was "Here we go again!", and figuring out how I was going to choose between someone I really love, and the ability to have any sort of sex life.

People in the area surrounding where we live - throughout our county and the next county - have been commenting on how "joined at the hip" and "romantic" we are with each other - to the point where people frantically ask about the other when they see us apart. That was before we were using male chastity to any degree, or had figured out just how to use it.

Although intercourse has been very restricted or denied for a little over a month, sex has certainly NOT been. Without going into gory details right here, I'll say that last night's encounter was more... intensely sexual... than anything I've had since I was in my early 20s, and so was the guy.

Combine the male chastity, and all that goes with it, with a set of things I bought Anymouse a couple of months ago for his birthday - an esse chaise lounge, and a wedge/ramp combination of specialized "pillows" from a company Liberator.com (Standard Disclaimer: I have no financial interest in the company.), which I can't believe I read about on Fox News, as directed from a crossdresser I encountered online... I can't imagine any part of that really somehow enticing me to make a purchase for something to "spice up" my sex life. The chaise lounge we've found makes an excellent place for us to practice "tease and denial" on him, along with ruined orgasms. The wedge/ramp make good places for him to please me.