Also during our play she made me wear her strapon and fuck her with while teasing me about how I was locked up. It was extremly hot!!! She then turned the tables and fucked me with it. It's a really fun game which I hope we continue to play on a regular basis. There's nothing that turns me on more than when she really takes charge and makes me pleasure her however she desires.
I'm a little late getting to the party, but I'll add my 2 cents worth. I think some of the most effective teasing is verbal teasing. Telling him what you are going to do to him (whether you intend to or not) can be very hot. Play up to some fantasies you know he has. For some ideas, check out this Altairboy site fictional story which has some very hot verbal teasing. Link to the story at: http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/nt090618.htm. Very hot!! Good Luck!