"Hello world" thread

[A-F]

Kind of a winding story.... Like so many, I read 50 Shades (the writing didn't live up to the subject matter) and had also heard that many into bdsm had issues with how things were presented and what not... So, I did a bit of research about why. I'm insatiably curious about random stuff. Around that time, a friend had confided to me that she had had a marriage counsellor recommend having an O daily (together or alone) and directed me at some non-spammy site for stories. Of course, hubs was on board for that one, lol, as my drive has only started coming back after years of a stressful job, mild depression and just being used to him not being around (he's a truck driver and it could sometimes take me a while to warm up when he finally gets home). So, we were looking for some cool sex toys to help all of that, and somewhere between all of these things, I found out about this- cant remember if it was from the stories or the toy shop. I do remember seeing it, reading about it and going 'ew, weird' to 'mmm, cool' fairly quickly.
We've been together 18 years and went on a mild kinky phase maybe 15 years ago, but shortly after, he went on the road and people started dying and we moved and I had no friends....bla bla bla. And I got used to being autonomous with him being gone 25+ days a month. But now he's home every other day, plus 2 days every two weeks, and our daughter is much easier to look after now, not leaving me on life support by beer o'clock. Figured it was time to get interested in him and us again. And funnily, I just found out since then, that he hasn't had a problem cumming when it's been too long, he had just been using himself up on the road.

[A-F]

Hahaha, so the short answer is 'I was looking for a vibrator and I got a key'!

[TwistedMister]

Hahaha, so the short answer is 'I was looking for a vibrator and I got a key'!

Good one. But...you can have *both*

[Tom Allen]

Hahaha, so the short answer is 'I was looking for a vibrator and I got a key'!

[notcb3000]

notcb3000: No, your post of July 2nd was not deleted, and it can be read on page 59. I wrote a "Welcome" to you on that same day, and it can also be found on page 59. Again, welcome to our little corner of the internet!

Well thank you. I was (duh) looking on the first few pages. Got there in the end.

Cheers

[HappyCamper]

I'll get around to putting my personal information in soon; I'm still adjusting to my CB-6000S and the nocturnal erections woke me up at 4:30 and I may leave early for work. I'm only halfway through my longest period of abstinence since I was a teenager and the frustration is exquisite; typically I'd just unproductively masturbate until I was tired again or I needed to work.

I've been interested in male chastity for most of my adult life but finally bought a device at the beginning a three month separation from my beloved; I bought it without telling her although she was given fair warning when I handed her a book on the subject. Since this is an experiment and we're temporarily in neighboring states, I have the second key as I work out the kinks and/or until we occupy the same space.

The CD is also physically and psychologically therapeutic; I believe that pleasuring myself is distracting, her assertiveness for her new-found place in my pleasure life cycle is sexy, I'm flirtatious so this will give her piece of mind, and the discomfort/apprehension problems she developed after her IUD implanted will be alleviated since SHE will decide when and what to do when she's able. Her child-like delight as she secures the lock is worth the occasional discomfort.

If the device proves manageable and my chasteness is sustainable, I wish to look into a CD that rarely needs to be removed like an MM Jailbird, cock extenders or His and Hers strap ons, internal and external prostate massage, or wherever the road of denial steers us. I look forward to reading everyone's posts, occasionally contributing, and learning from you all as I dip my toes into the chastity lifestyle.

[tony12]

Hello, I am a single man very much attracted by the idea of chastity, even long term. I would like to find a partner to experience it with.

[MissTreated]

We are new to the practice of chastity and very recently took the plunge and bought a stainless steel device. I read a fair amount of advice across various forums and blogs before taking the plunge. Now we have I need a bit of advice and this seemed the best place to start.

We live in the UK and have been together around 20 years. My KH has found the whole chastity experience a huge turn-on as have I. It's quite possible that Miss_ will join the forum in her own right but at the present I'm sat here encased in steel with a few questions to ask.

Thanks to all the contributors to the forum, your posts were most useful and informative and I think saved us from many pitfalls making our first experiences of enforced chastity far more enjoyable.

Once I'm cleared by the Mods I'll post my questions in the relevant section.

[jrwams]

Hello, My name is James and I am new to this forum. I have enjoyed reading the opinions and insights on some of the topics that I have read. A little about me, I have been married to my beautiful wife for 23 yrs this Sept. We have just recently ventured into the world of MC and have purchased a CB 6000s. I have been it wearing for a week at a time for right now. My wife works out of town and is gone for a week and home for a week, and I wear it while she is gone. I can say since venturing into MC has a profound affect on me in the sense that I have become more attentive to her and want her more then ever before. I will cut this short so as not to ramble on and post more later. I am looking forward to having indepth conversations with you folks on the forums.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello HappyCamper and tony12, and welcome to the Forums. We are also "very much attracted by the idea of chastity," and we certainly seem to spend most of our time talking about the subject. The members here would agree that wearing "the CD is also physically and psychologically therapeutic," and that "the frustration is exquisite." As you become more familiar with "the chastity lifestyle," you will enjoy watching your KH develop "her assertiveness for her new-found place" and "her child-like delight as she secures the lock." When your wife returns from her work assignment, "she will decide when and what to do." In the meantime, I encourage you to begin "reading everyone's posts, occasionally contributing, and learning" as much as you can about this new addition to your lives. Feel free to ask questions, and keep us all informed of your progress. Good luck to you both!