Ideas for teasing?

[mistressjill]

Hello All

My bf and I are novices to chastity. We decided to give it a try when branching out from basic femdom. We like spice and love tons of variety. Typically we have sex every night and most mornings. Our sex is incredible. I believe that he is looking for not only an incredible orgasm, but the intrigue and mental arousal from knowing he is in my control. I am looking for the dominance, attention, and variety.
I locked him up 4 days ago for the longest stint he's done (12 days, possibly more ). We have never gone more than 7 days. He is completely preoccupied with sex, he texts/messages me throughout the day while at work and I catch him staring after we get home. I love the attention!
I have been teasing him by masturbating excessively over him, riding his face until I am completely spent, riding his cock until he is pleading to cum, and sucking/rubbing him to a ruined orgasm.
Last night after an hour of teasing, I made him edge himself about 15 times until he ruined his own orgasm. It was delicious to watch. He is now hornier than ever and I can't wait to continue my teasing sessions that bring me to absolute ecstasy and him to submission.
I am looking for ideas for teasing as well as thoughts on requiring him to wear his cage to work. He currently is unlocked except for at home.

Thank you for your thoughts! I look forward to gaining more insight here and through other threads

[celticqueens_sub]

Why is he unlocked for work? Is it due to the nature of his employment? When CQ makes me ruin my own orgasm there is always a glass involved I am sure you can see why!

[TwistedMister]

By all means, keep him locked for work, and ALL the time, this is a 'tease' in itself. I am in the midst of writing a compendium of methods for teasing. It isn't finished yet, but there are many more ways of 'teasing' than simply giving physical stimulation. There are also visual, verbal, and mental methods of teasing.

Anything that you can do that would cause him to become aroused when he isn't locked becomes a 'tease' when he *is* locked (such as requiring him to pleasure you orally). Even things that might not normally be associated with arousal (such as serving you coffee in bed) can become a 'tease' if you condition him to become aroused and he knows that the service is required if he is to be permitted orgasm.

The way you dress can be a 'tease', the way you talk can be a 'tease', and mental pictures you can paint in his mind can be a 'tease'.

Sounds like you're already off to a good start, all you have to do is use your imagination and expand on it.

Imagine something like having him take you out for dinner...you are wearing a low-cut dress and the Key is clearly visible between your breasts, perhaps hanging from a gold chain...the place is dark and discrete, your hand falls to your lap and, sans panties, you can easily slip a finger inside and then withdraw it and have him suck on it while you casually describe the pleasures he is going to give you when you get home...

[locked4her55]

mistressjill, What type of chastity device are you locking him up in? I agree with the other posts that you should go for it and lock him up for a 24/7 period so long as he is well adjusted to the device. Make him really feel that you control his penis and orgasms. Unless his type of work prevents it just tell him you really want to try this.

Regarding teasing I think "A mind is a wonderful place to play" Nothing gets me hornier than my KH/wife locking me up and saying "get use to it cause it's gonna be awhile before it's let out".

There are plenty of threads here to check out ideas for teasing

Check out the Keyholders side too!

Have Fun!

[A-F]

I bbm'd a picture of the key after he left for work. Drives him crazy because he's away for a day and a half at a time.

[LockedUpNewb]

First off - STOP letting him cum. Not even a ruined orgasm.

You want to drive him crazy? Lock him up and only let him out once every 3 or 4 days for vicious teasing and denial. DO NOT let him cum. Don't let him out of the cage for a second when you're not around to supervise.

Make him go an honest 2 weeks without a single orgasm. My wife always tells me she's going to lock me up for x number of days - and when the days comes to let me have an orgasm - she either extends it - or if she's encouraging me to go ahead and 'let it fly' I usually end up BEGGING her to stop playing with me and just lock me up again. I've grown to crave the teasing and denial. Being edged repeatedly and then shut down and locked up is so much more satisfying than the brief euhphoria experienced with an orgasm.

It's been 4 days since my last orgasm. Not too bad yet. She's threatened to make this time 3 weeks.

[locked4her55]

My wife always tells me she's going to lock me up for x number of days - and when the days comes to let me have an orgasm - she either extends it - or if she's encouraging me to go ahead and 'let it fly' I usually end up BEGGING her to stop playing with me and just lock me up again. I've grown to crave the teasing and denial. Being edged repeatedly and then shut down and locked up is so much more satisfying than the brief euhphoria experienced with an orgasm.

CAN I GET AN AMEN! (sorry, it's Sunday)

[Harry Haversackers]

My wife always tells me she's going to lock me up for x number of days - and when the days comes to let me have an orgasm - she either extends it - or if she's encouraging me to go ahead and 'let it fly' I usually end up BEGGING her to stop playing with me and just lock me up again. I've grown to crave the teasing and denial. Being edged repeatedly and then shut down and locked up is so much more satisfying than the brief euhphoria experienced with an orgasm.

CAN I GET AN AMEN! (sorry, it's Sunday)

You've got it! You've drilled down to the essence of male chastity.

[LockedUpNewb]

I'm starting to enjoy just letting go. She decides when we play and when I cum. She decides how often she wants me to pleasure her. It's kinda freeing to not have to worry about it. Just go with the flow and ride it out.

[tony12]

Try tickling him, if he is ticklish it may arouse him.