Prostatic Orgasm?

[TwistedMister]

I am not gay myself, although I own a penis-gag and dildos and stuff. I think this is a head-cinema thing. The thought of bedding a men is nothing revolting for me. However I don't feel any non-erotic loving sharing feelings toward the male gender. It is more sexually oriented and when fantasizing about it usually I am all tied up and "forced" LOL ... what a typical sub-bondage type of fantasy Perhaps this is somewhat Bi, I don't know and don't care in what drawer I am stuffed. Social stigmatas? Well ... who cares ... I like what I like about my pleasure and that's it Call me gay, bi, or whatever you like ... I am having fun

I have no romantic interest in men, I usually don't even like to be touched by other men- shaking hands is a stretch for me and the thought of kissing another man is, as you say, 'revolting'.

And yet, I find the bondage/forced-bi fantasy erotic. The mind can be a very strange thing.

Along the same lines, Mrs. Twisted always said that she had zero interest in seeing two men together but lately she seems to have become enamored with shoving one of her realistic dildos in my mouth after she has used it on herself. I'm wondering if she may have changed her mind...it could be that she has no interest in it in general, but making *me* do it could be different.

[Blaeu]

I feel many men are attracted or aroused by the "penis" rather than the "man."

By this I mean, many guys enjoy the idea or being fucked in the ass, sucking on "something," and even being filled with something anally. However, none of these fantasies involve another man and usually the thought of it will turn him off. I feel "futa" is the pornographic representation of many of these fetishes as you're basically just slapping a cock on a chick (sometimes literally). Since it is a "girl," it puts their mind at ease.

Having said that all, I feel it all boils down to people trying to rationalize what they like so they don't feel guilty or weird about it. That's always easier said than done, but I always try to encourage people to just "like what they like and not over think it."

On a side note, what are peoples thoughts on inflatable plugs? I ask because I enjoy the thought of having something large inside of me, and somewhat enjoy it when it is actually in there, but I don't like my sphincter muscle (area in general) to be stretched as much. I think an inflatable plug may be a solution. Some are quite expensive though, and I have no idea what to look for in one.

[RexRacer]

I'm new here and found this post and wanted to give my input on this subject, This is my first post. I've spent a lot of time researching on the internet goggling this mysterious subject of anal orgasm ever since My wife strapped on a cock and fucked me with it.

My wife takes a dildo to my ass most every night, I practically beg for it. I don't know about everyone else here but I do have prostatic orgasms, if that's what they are called and they literally blow my mind. Completely different from a regular orgasm where you ejaculate through the penis and you have that 20 -30 second awesome feeling of cumming but when I'm being fucked it's even more intense, I can't describe it but its quite euphoric and it's it last a helluva lot longer than a cumming via penis. I can literally feel it build up into a huge orgasm... in my ass. It's strange I wish I could explain it better for everyone.

Yeah it could be completely mental, I've been told I've had my head up my ass many times But seriously I wish everyone could experience it like I do but we are all different. I'm not gay but ever since my wife started fucking me I've wondered if I might be a little bi curious, but I really don't want to admit it.

One thing I can't get over though. While I'm being fucked and jacking myself off and I have a mind altering, earth shattering orgasm via penis and my orgasm subsides I get this very low feeling. I would mentally tell myself I will never do this again. It could be shame it could be anything. I heard that as soon as a man cum's there is a chemical change that happens and many men are infected with a low feeling.

I feel its probably shame cause I don't have these same feeling when I have vanilla sex with my wife. But after 30 mins - or an hour I'm wanting her cock up my ass again. I am a slut for it.

We are evolving our relationship into a Femdom marriage which is quite different from our past where I was the dominate. She has indicated that chastity is in my future and knowing I would be getting fucked will help me get by on those nights I know she won't release me.

Being the recipient of my wife's cock has made me feel more submissive and her dominance has grown. I'm more adapt to insuring her every need in hopes she will take her cock to me at night.

Well, that my first post to this forum. Here is hoping I didn't break any rules and receive a friendly welcome. I will gladly answer any questions if there are any.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello RexRacer, and welcome to the Forums. No, you "didn't break any rules," and we extend "a friendly welcome" to you. Most new members usually write their first posts on the "Hello World" thread, in order to introduce themselves to our community. As your wife "has indicated that chastity is in" your "future," and you "are evolving" your "relationship into a Femdom marriage," I believe that you will certainly become "more adept to insuring her every need." Begin reading through the previous posts and threads, to learn about this new addition to your lives, and feel free to ask questions. The members here will give you all of their advice and support, and we all look forward to hearing about your progress.

[TwistedMister]

"...my orgasm subsides I get this very low feeling. I would mentally tell myself I will never do this again. It could be shame it could be anything. I heard that as soon as a man cum's there is a chemical change that happens and many men are infected with a low feeling...."

It's not unusual. I've had the same feeling after doing some unusual things...but then I get horny again...

[LockedUpNewb]

I feel guilty and just a twinge of depression after a wild anal romp with my wife. It usually goes away by the next morning. I think maybe the old anaolgy of "sleep on it" works. I usually feel fine in the morning.

I experience the same mind blowing orgasms from anal sex as RexRacer. It really is hard to describe. After a powerful anal orgasm, I'm too weak to even stand up and go shower off. I have to lie in bed for about 20 minutes while the contractions and orgasm subsides.

[RexRacer]

Is it guilt you think? Or shame? Its a strange feeling none the less, and one I don't want to have. My wife loves to please me but she can see it in my eyes after we have finished and I start to come down to earth again that I get that depressing feeling. I really do my best to hide it. I'm hoping over time it will subside and simply disappear.

Thanks for your input LockeupNewb, at least I'm not alone.

[Whizbang]

I have no romantic interest in men, I usually don't even like to be touched by other men- shaking hands is a stretch for me and the thought of kissing another man is, as you say, 'revolting'.

I'm trying very hard to not take this forum off-topic and failing. This isn't a rant--I'm just sharing a perspective.

I just want to say that at a big part of this is conditioning. When I was, er, blossoming, I found the idea and the act of kissing another man profoundly unsettling. Human culture is inherently heteronormative--there ain't a gay kid on the planet who doesn't know they're contravening social norms. But I had a strong biological drive that essentially drove me to flout those social norms.

I obviously can't speak to hetero biological revulsion to the concept, but because of my experience with the social conditioning part of it, I'll tentatively wager that even for hetero guys this is a part of the equation.

I s'pose this also underlies why "coming out" is such a huge thing for gays when other folks are "whatever" or "ew, whatever". It's certainly oversharing in one respect, but it's hard to state exactly how big and scary a step it is (was?) to discard that social norm.

In regards to straight-guy guilt over getting pegged--IMO, that shame is social conditioning at work.

Dr. Phil signing off.

[TwistedMister]

I obviously can't speak to hetero biological revulsion to the concept, but because of my experience with the social conditioning part of it, I'll tentatively wager that even for hetero guys this is a part of the equation.

I don't know, until I was nearly a teenager I had no concept of homosexuality. Grew up in a small town and had never even heard of it, males paired up with females and that's the way it was, animals and people alike. And then, one day I saw two guys sucking face...and my first thoughts were "That's gross! What the fuck is wrong with them?"

It was still a few more years before I learned that it wasn't a totally isolated incident, that there was this thing called 'homosexuality'.

[poor]

So the question to everyone. Have you ever experienced a prostatic orgasm without touching your manhood? ... and if so ... was it comparable to a normal orgasm?

After over 10 weeks without any kind of release (over 90% shackled in the last 6 weeks) I came today during a 10km run. About 5km in I felt a growing pressure in my lower bowel like I needed to defacate. I ran through it until it sharpened and I felt semen coming down the tubes. I clamped down on the PC muscle to halt the flow.

About a km later I was unable to continue running. I looked at my running shorts and was surprised to see a large wet patch across the gusset. I was expecting a few drips at most. I walked a bit, took on fluids and started running a few minutes later. The rest of the run was not pleasant to say the least.

There was no pleasure and I felt all the after-effects of an orgasm a few hours later. I told Chatelaine and she is considering whether to treat this as an unauthorised orgasm. I've been telling Her that I would be having a wet dream 'any day now' but this took me completely by surprise.