"Hello world" thread

[Sir Chaste]

Hello kinnm, and welcome to the Forums. You will find them to be a "nice, friendly" group of members, filled with advice and support. Feel free to "hang around," contribute to the discussions, and share your thoughts and experiences with us.

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome to all the new members here (yes I know...) We would also encourage your KH's to join as well, if your other half is interested in joining, there is a forum that only KH see. The admins will add you to the KH group if you post in the hello world thread. Have fun all and once again welcome.

[mikebensen]

Hi everyone!

My wife and I have been experimenting with male chastity for a year or two, but got more serious about it early this year. Previously, we'd play around for a few hours using a CB series device, and I would always orgasm after it came off. Now, I am in a Mature Metal Jail Bird and have been in the device for up to a month at a time, without any orgasms. I have been keeping a blog which details our experience and also contains my device reviews (Jail Bird, Birdlocked Neo, CB-3000, CB-6000s).

Fee free to take a look: http://www.locked-in-chastity.com

Moving forward, I could see the duration of my lockups increasing. This is the first "kink" in which my wife has experienced any real benefit, and it seems to have brought our sex life more into "sync". She doesn't even feel guilty anymore if she has an orgasm and I don't. Overall, it's been fun!

Thanks for listening (or reading)!
Mike

[Sir Chaste]

Hello mikebensen, and welcome to the Forums. It certainly sounds as though you are already an experienced CD wearer, and have made the transition from plastic to custom metal. I would encourage your wife to participate as well, by getting involved in the separate KH's threads. There, she will have the opportunity to describe the "real benefit" that she has experienced from MC, while sharing advice and support with the other KH members.

[mikebensen]

Hi Sir Chaste, that's great advice. Although participating in a forum like this is a bit out of her comfort zone, I'll see if I can't get her to at least take a look. Maybe she'll find it beneficial.

Best,
Mike

[celticqueens_sub]

In order to see the keyholder forum she will need to ceate an account and contact the site admins via the hellow orld thread as you did, they will then assign her to the KH group and she will be abke to see those forums. Wecome to you (both hopefully) This site is very real world and has many couples doing this for real so to speak. Have fun exploring te forums.

[jagic]

Hi,
I've read this forum for a month or two and am joining up as part of an effort to be more serious about "this stuff." My girlfriend and I have experimented with chastity play on and off - along with other related kinks of mine under the broad heading of femdom I suppose - and when it's been great it's been fantastic, but it's also been really difficult for us. In joining the forum, I'm looking to address at least the concern that's recently come up that perhaps I'm not actually committed enough to this, and that's the problem - that I'm maybe just asking her (again and again) to do this thing for me, and basically expecting her to do all the psychological work. While I've long acknowledged that I can be overbearing in vocalizing my desires, now I'm realizing maybe I'm not as comfortable with them as I thought I was, and the problems that creates when I then end up leaning on / expecting support and enthusiasm from her, when I'm the one who of course had the advance notice that all these thoughts were swirling around the air. I figure that's about as good an introduction as any...
We're Americans in our late 20s, met in college and living together in the urban Northeast.
-just another guy into chastity

[Sir Chaste]

Hello jagic, and welcome to the Forums. We can always use "just another guy into chastity." As you have already been reading here "for a month or two," I am certain that you have come to understand that chastity play, tease and denial, and the MC lifestyle can be used to "spice up" and strengthen a relationship, and bring a couple closer together. As you are the one who desires to introduce your girlfriend to this lifestyle, it will be your responsibility "to do all the psychological work," and "to be more serious about this stuff." Your goal should be to place her needs and desires above your own, and demonstrate to her that MC will have a positive effect on your relationship. As your girlfriend becomes comfortable with this change to your couple dynamic, you will discover that she will demonstrate more "support and enthusiasm" as she assumes her new role as your KH. I would advise you to take things slowly, try not to "be overbearing in vocalizing" what you want, and allow her the time that she needs in order to fully accept what you are proposing. Show your girlfriend that you are "actually committed enough to this," and I believe that you will eventually receive the reaction from her that you desire. Keep us all informed of your progress on this new journey.

[keymaster]

Hi,
New keyholder (so pretty please add me to the KH 'locked' forum) for all of 2 days into a planned 4 week stint. Slightly different experience here. I hope to share some of it with you over the coming days as I explore this space and get a bit more comfortable opening up to the anonymous blogverse. This is the first time for both of us (so perhaps 4 weeks is slightly ambitious) and, well, it was me that asked to lock him away. And our sex life previously was phenomenal (pinkypromise), so this will be a form of denial for myself also. Hoping to stay strong. That's all for now!
KM

[subjoel]

Hello. My name is subjoel. I am new to chastity. I have recently been lucky enough to find a women to hold the key. I am currently in the market for a chastity device. Im sure I will find lots of good advice on this forum.