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[Harry Haversackers]

The day after tomorrow marks my longest stretch locked, at 60 days. The first several weeks of this stretch were in my CB6Ks. While in it, the need for hygiene necessitated a few minutes out daily for clean-up. However, since the arrival of our MM Jailbird, I've remained locked constantly, except for a couple hours free to attend a doctor's appointment, and of course, short releases at my wife's discretion, so she could play with her toys.

It's possible that I might be released for a week or so in July when we head off on a short vacation, though that hasn't been finalized yet. She may want me back in my CB6Ks instead, to travel. If that's the case, I have no clear idea of when she'll let me out. We're targeting January 1, 2012 as the date for my next orgasm, so perhaps some time out of the device may follow that much anticipated event.

[Curiousnotgeorge]

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[TwistedMister]

My feeling is that it should be made to be a special occasion, something that you will *want* to be repeated...but, of course, to be repeated you would have to undergo the same process again...this would be a psychological reinforcement of the arousal/pleasure response, causing a desire to repeat the activity that brings the reward of pleasure.

[finallyhappy]

So I'm told I'll be released for some fun this weekend. My wife is halfway through her pregnancy with twins and doesn't want to indulge herself but wants me to have some fun. It isn't clear what her plan is or if, once I'm done, she'll lock me up right away again or leave me loose. I'm concerned about it being a very disappointing experience. I'm concerned I won't want to be denied again afterwards. I'm concerned the whole process will suddenly seem ridiculous. There's a large part of me that doesn't want it at all unless it's very special. There's a big part of me that doesn't want to be free and there's another which wants nothing more. At the same time I'm looking forward to getting off like in the old days and to the possibility of staying free and having more fun. Many strange mixed emotions. Any advice on having an O after about 17 weeks of 24/7 denial?
CNG

She is expressing her love and desire to care for you even if you find the denial hotter. After letting me have a release my gf tends to leave me unlocked for about a week. I feel like you do, good while it's off and why would I want to lock it back up again. But after the crash wears off I want it back on and the high is so great again you never want it off again.

But like I said before. She is expressing her love and caring for you. Embrace it.

[Tom Allen]

I'm concerned about it being a very disappointing experience. I'm concerned I won't want to be denied again afterwards. I'm concerned the whole process will suddenly seem ridiculous. There's a large part of me that doesn't want it at all unless it's very special. There's a big part of me that doesn't want to be free and there's another which wants nothing more. At the same time I'm looking forward to getting off like in the old days and to the possibility of staying free and having more fun. Many strange mixed emotions. Any advice on having an O after about 17 weeks of 24/7 denial?

Personally, I had mixed feelings just like you did, and they were worse the longer it went on. Partly it's because of the law of diminishing returns: After a week of lockup, it feels good. After a month of lockup, it feels great. But after 3 months? 6? At some point, it's just not any better - not that it doesn't feel good, though.

For me, it was hard to be allowed an orgasm, and then have to go right back in. Sometimes I was free overnight, but sometimes I had to be locked up immediately afterward. I hated it. But in those perverse turns of human nature, I discovered that having to go beck in when I didn't want to made me even *more* aroused a few days later.

Once in a while, she would ruin the orgasm by forcing me to come using a vibrator while I was still wearing the cage. Afterward, it seemed pretty silly to be wearing a cage. But a few days later, it was pretty hot, and I used to fantasize about her only allowing me that way.

Just go with it. If she finds something else to enjoy about it, then what have you got to lose?

[Curiousnotgeorge]

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[locked4her55]

So I'm still caged, since January whenever. The pregnancy continues to be extremely positive. I couldn't be happier. There are moments, however, when I wonder how silly this chastity thing is. I mean, really, with so much of huge importance going on, love, new life, summer, career, future, etc. - there are moments when this chastity thing seems banal at best. I, of course, have no control over it, and soon sling-shot back. But those moments are powerful.
CNG

You are most likely at a point in your life with MC that if it was to come off you just might miss it.

[Curiousnotgeorge]

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[Whizbang]

Once in a while, she would ruin the orgasm by forcing me to come using a vibrator while I was still wearing the cage. Afterward, it seemed pretty silly to be wearing a cage. But a few days later, it was pretty hot, and I used to fantasize about her only allowing me that way.

I'm not sure how much you guys want to hear about the 'other' side, but, yah, if I were only to cum via prostate stimulation, I'd be totally content. Penetrative sex has never been that big a thing for me and the receptive sorts of orgasm are an incredible mindfuck. Though you have be pretty charged up for that to work while locked up.

Due to my relationship dynamics, long lockups (>2 months) haven't been a part of the equation. I've been evangelizing him on the tease and denial part. But with a completely receptive orgasm, you actually recharge relatively quickly. The male G-spot is a P-spot.

I dunno how many of your chaste guy's ladies could even contemplate that (dildo and possibly harness), and I don't know how many of you straight guys can deal with that sort of receptiveness. (It takes practice! Don't expect it to work the first time or the fifth) It's great. Just sayin'.

[Tom Allen]

I'm not sure how much you guys want to hear about the 'other' side, but, yah, if I were only to cum via prostate stimulation, I'd be totally content. Penetrative sex has never been that big a thing for me and the receptive sorts of orgasm are an incredible mindfuck. Though you have be pretty charged up for that to work while locked up.

I've often wondered if/how that would work.

If you're interested in discussing more, I'm interested in hearing about it.