"Hello world" thread

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Niceguy
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Post by Niceguy »

I'm a real person. LOL. Similar handle over on OD.com. Not LIVING the lifestyle (yet?) but am very must interested, fascinated and turn on by it.
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Tom Allen
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Post by Tom Allen »

Niceguy wrote:I'm a real person. LOL. Similar handle over on OD.com.
Wow, haven't been there in ages!

I guess that I spend 95% of my time here.
albion
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I'm a guy about to start college that just started chastity but not sure where it will lead. I have a few questions that I hope will be answered.
kinja
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Post by kinja »

Hello. I'm new to this, I'm 25 and in a long term relationship. I'm interested in chastity but unsure if it fit will work in our relationship so i'm gathering information on the subject.
BigPete157
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Post by BigPete157 »

Hi all
Just found this forum and thought it would be a great start for info, me and my partner (key holder) have just started to get into male chastity and we are looking for any help possible along with a new CD but funds are low so ideas welcome :)
Decker
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Decker »

Hey everyone- fairly new to this site... am following "protocol" by posting here first. I'm 29 and have been in and out of chastity with my amazing now-fiance' for about 2-3 years. I've spent a good deal of time over at milovana and recently decided that too much time was going into authoring teases, creating/managing fantasy situations, and generally not being myself. Plus, while I'd say that the site does have a lot to offer, there's a whole lot of useless crap and stupidity to wade through to get to it, not to mention a proliferation of the sissy-gene, which doesn't seem to be the case here.

I've typically sported either a cb3000 (slightly secure, less comfortable, more frustrating) or a birdlocked (not at all secure, more comfortable, less frustrating), and am excited to have recently taken the plunge by ordering a MM jailbird, which won't arrive for a good 6 weeks or so. My first few posts will be on how to get the most out of the new device when it finally arrives.

Looking forward to more genuine conversations with reasonable people.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Atone »

Decker wrote: I've typically sported either a cb3000 (slightly secure, less comfortable, more frustrating) or a birdlocked (not at all secure, more comfortable, less frustrating), and am excited to have recently taken the plunge by ordering a MM jailbird, which won't arrive for a good 6 weeks or so.
I hope you find the Jailbird to be more secure, more comfortable and exceedingly frustrating (in a good way of course).

Welcome to the forum.
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J&M
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Post by J&M »

Hi everybody,

Well today is day 7 of being in my CB6000s and I have to say that I'm somewhat surprised how comfortable it is. I really have to say that I cannot imagine being without it, I feel it's a part of me now! Today my KH and I went out to buy her a sterling silver necklace to wear the device's key around her neck. How exciting it was for us to see the key suspended between her breasts!
Currently wearing a cb6000s
Cherub
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Post by Cherub »

Well what to say......

I'm a 40+ year old who is in the process of trying to get my Wife over the whole denial thing.

well that's where i am not very long but as real as i can get. I've been following thumpers blog and keyheld, Anything that rings true with my gets forwarded to the love of my life. The big problem is being out of work this drives a wedge into the works that we could do without.
Decman
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Decman »

Hello World

Been reading here for a while, and just decided to join.

I am early 40's along with my wife and keyholder. Due to some medical issues, her libido is pretty low. Our sex life has been pretty low key for a long long time -- its good when its good, but few and far between because I've got to catch her on a good health day where all the stars are in alignment (i.e., the kids aren't acting like total bastards, and we're not both exhausted from the parent/job treadmill).

I introduced chastity play first by giving her the option to tell me if I could orgasm while we were having sex. At first, she always consented, but then she started saying "no" and denying my orgasm here and there. Usually she'd relent and we'd have a second session the same weekend (which was awesome, because I'm used to like 1 sexual encounter every 2-3 weeks).

This got us talking, and we started to play some more. The next thing to do was to request permission to jerk off / jerk off to completion. When she realized how OFTEN I wanted to take matters into my own hands, she gave me a monthly quota -- usually I got 2 or 3 orgasms a month, and then I was done -- and had to choose whether they were of my own design/execution or whether I would "save" myself for her (and gamble that she'd be interested/physically up to it).

Most recently, we've begun using a device -- CB6000. Neither of us really like it because it is difficult to clean, and we're considering something a little more substantial that allows for easier cleaning.

Her input is -- she likes the control, and likes the fact that she doesn't feel pressured at all to have sex when her libido is low. She also likes the ability to request and receive a foot or back massage without full-on penatrative sex hanging over the encounter.